Family & Relationships - 24 September 2006

My boyfriend says that he's in love with another girl too. l gave him time to think about who of us he really loves and to choose. even though we see each other everyday, l don't feel that he has chosen. what should l do? l don't want to let him go cos l'm madly in love with him. what should i do?

2006-09-24 19:53:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 19:51:24 · 32 answers · asked by munkees81 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has had this problem for a while, he lies about it all the time, hiding and playing. He has spent his entire paycheck a few times. I have no clue where he gets the money to play. He has been going to gamblers annonamous for a little while, and no help. I have no clue what to do. HELP!!!

2006-09-24 19:50:51 · 6 answers · asked by angeleyes_13180 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

means red flower, white flower , yellow , pink. wht all this mean when given to a girl?

2006-09-24 19:49:54 · 1 answers · asked by ali a 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are in a long-term relationship and we definitely love each other. We have a problem though- he is hindi and I am christian. His mother recently found out that we had been dating for a really long time and is obviously angry. My question are the 2: 1)Has anybody been in similar shoes as me? If so, how did you deal with it? I would like to hear your story, 2)For those who cannot relate to me but have advice... How should we raise our kids and what should be do about the religion/race factor?

2006-09-24 19:49:39 · 12 answers · asked by infatuated 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 19:47:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we just started dating and i dont want to give up too soon but he needs to know that this behavior will only land him in the dog house. what can i do or say to give him a reality check. i've already found out its pointless to argue with him.

2006-09-24 19:46:18 · 19 answers · asked by protegebaby403 1 in Singles & Dating

iam22 the first child of my family,and my father married my mother for lack of children for my aunt. my aunt had grown me and my youngsters, but recently my mother and aunt fought, for that my aunt cursing all us including me. she never allowed us to see and speak to her, she does everything by other women who give bad thoughts to her, she thinks we never care her, my father unable to take peace here, i am working and separete from family, my aunt had very good affection on me, but now she hates all of us becoz we r children of her enemy, but she does not have any support, we have to take care, i have younger sister, my aunt curses her also and nevr allows to her,this side my mother says do not see her, in village this is really happening, my aunt age is 48 years, but i love her, she worked hard and grown me,last 4 years i sent money to her more than to mom, bcoz she should not feel lack of child, but last 1 month my mind never allows to see her, she curses my youngsters and my sister

2006-09-24 19:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by Sky lark 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Be hones, I'm about 6'6'' a little over 300 but its a decent but muscle plus I am very broad shoulderd and big boned, I have blue eyes uh and my pic of course

I just wanna know from a physical stand point, if you saw me on the street would you think I was attractive

2006-09-24 19:45:06 · 11 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Singles & Dating

Why?

2006-09-24 19:45:02 · 8 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Singles & Dating

DOes having sex with a girl make a guy get emotionally attached...especialy a guy who hasnt really done that before with someone particular, just been to strip clubs here n there...??? so after having spent time with me for awhile, and having sex and stuff, at the end, would he be emotionally attached to me or not? how da hell do u make him feel like he cant b without u?!

2006-09-24 19:44:40 · 10 answers · asked by sneha 1 in Singles & Dating

Does my boyfriend really love me? I saw that he sent text messages saying "miss you" and "i want to see you soon" to his ex-girlfriend. He also calls her phone every couple weeks. Does he love me? Can he love two girls at once? IS he just keeping his ex as a rebound? I don't know what to think. help any advice from you guys out there.

2006-09-24 19:44:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ia am looking for a friend name sheryl harris that onice live at 1210 lammers ave, in columbus ga, she went to school at southern jr, high and she went to spencer high, in columbus ga, i have went on find people but still did not find her I dont mines play for it if she is the right one, how will i do this?```````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````

2006-09-24 19:44:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend are both young an we have a child together we live together and we have been together for 6yrs he is 22 and im 20 but i keep finding out about him and other girls and i keep tring to forgive him and keep our family together but he keep playing games i understand that we are both young but when will it end

2006-09-24 19:41:43 · 18 answers · asked by leena 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 19:41:18 · 22 answers · asked by Vanilla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Before you have even met him/her?

2006-09-24 19:40:27 · 36 answers · asked by Talk To The Hand 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law is a complete alcoholic control freak. Normally she is 2000 miles away from us so I am not too bothered but:: I feel her presence even when she is not here. I have a career. In addition, my husband and I exercise at least 30 hours a week (bike riding, jogging) what have you. We also have a side business to help us hopefully one day retire. My husband also likes to do outside activities like go to plays, symphonies, or whatever. What I am trying to say is that we are very busy. We have a hard time taking off work for vacation but we try twice a year (one major, and one minor). However my mother-in-law thinks we should spend our vacation with her even though her husband (she has never worked) is retired. I try to give her this time. However she turns sometimes into a complet witch! I also feel her presence in my house every day because she is a big chef (she has the time) and my husband tries to be this way too. Our kitchen is alway messy and I am exhausted

2006-09-24 19:39:38 · 14 answers · asked by LifeMatrix2012 3 in Family

Imagine this scenario: You have been friends with benefits with your ex-boyfriend for a year and a half and realize you are going emotionally crazy. HE broke up with you when you moved away to college b/c the long distance was too hard and you are seven years younger and he wants you to have fun and enjoy college. You tell him that you don't want him to call you anymore (After 2 years of being friends) b/c it is emotionally draining you out. You say you need time to meet other people and for yourself but want to be friends in the near future. WILL this guy ever call me back? This is what happened with me and my ex and I am kinda regretting telling him not to call me for now b/c its too hard and I need to move on. I misss him SOOO much. He use to call me every two weeks or so. I did tell him that I wanted to be friends in the near future though. Do you think he'll ever call me again or will he wait for me to do the calling? Im scared to call b/

2006-09-24 19:39:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a 5 year old daughter , her dad left and has a new family of his own a "son" and a 20 year old wife (he is 40) ..

I have been told many " tales" on why he don't see her or talk to her , from his walmart job keeps him busy to he drinks to much soda and falls asleep while driving ..

My daughter deserves to have a relationship with her father and she just cries when she asks to talk to him and he says I am busy with my son ..

How can I help her heart not ache so much ???

Thanks for you suggestions in advance

2006-09-24 19:39:02 · 11 answers · asked by twistedsingle 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean when you have a dream of an ex-boyfriend, and he died. You are at his funeral, and his daughter comes up to you and says he loved you the best.

2006-09-24 19:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by bunjibear 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have an 8 month old daughter who wil be 1 jan 9th..how long should i wait beofr i have another..how many years should i space them apart??

2006-09-24 19:37:34 · 15 answers · asked by mother of two 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you know when you have the right guy? I love my B/F, & for the first time I can see myself with him in the years to come! I could never really see myself with anyother guy. does that mean that he is the right one?

2006-09-24 19:37:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anna L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 19:36:35 · 13 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Singles & Dating

so itexted him and told him it was over that this was wrong and i wasnted to be with someone who cared about me. I deleted his number from my phone so i wouldnt call him again. Guys how would you feel . I was wondereing if i would get a call from him in a few days . I want him to respect me like i should have respected myself i want to do stuff during the day and not just jump into bed. Do you think it is over or he will apologize ,or what. I dont really care but i was just curious from a mans view.

2006-09-24 19:33:38 · 9 answers · asked by europe 3 in Singles & Dating

When i first started dating my boyfriend he told me that he had been hurt alot and wanted me to be honest about everything and never cheat. He said he would do the same as he knew that i had also been hurt alot.
Recently he told me he had been txtn other chicks dirty stuff. We sorted it out and once again he promised to tell me the truth!
About a week ago one of my old friends came and saw me and i told her all about my boyfriend....She then told me that he had been sending pic's of his penis to her. I saw the pic and checked the date and number....i asked him about it but didnt tell him who the girl was. He admited it but he said it was a different girl. I guess i busted him for more than one thing. He wants to be friends and im fine with that, but he seems to know every where i am and what im doing. He is making everything really hard for me and he is embarrassing me alot!
Any ideas on how to get him back for hurting me and embarrassing me??
Thanx ;-)

2006-09-24 19:33:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been with him for 5 years and now we broke up for 2 years but i still have a really strong feelings and love him reallly much. he has a girlfriend now that living wit him. he went to marine for 4 years but now hes done. at that time of 2 years when he in north carolina i was stilll with him until 2 years later we broke up.now everytime i try to call him he doesn't pick up my calls, because i've been calling him a lot he let his girlfriend talk 2 me. then i told her i wana talk to him, she ask him if he wanna talk to me, he said later. they been dating for 4-5months now. when i heard she said that they living together, i felt so hurt, it's like he stab a knife to my heart. I love him very much but he doesnt feel for me. i was waiting for him until he done with Marine. the reason he broke up with me is because I didnt believe in him that he didnt go strip club, cuz he said his friends went, so i think he probably did too. i just cant stop thinkin about him, no matter how hard i try

2006-09-24 19:31:29 · 14 answers · asked by Sandy 1 in Singles & Dating

i love sex, i enjoy it to the fullest. i am not trying to impress my husband.i open the door naked and he freaks out.i gave him a lap dance and a strip show he said im too s l u t t y. so what am i sopose to do?just live all lame,with the same old misionary.i was always flirty with him.he knew i loved sex and enjoy it to the max.i love him so much,but i would like for him to be more hot,more sexual.i want to initiate sex once in a while.but we only have sex whenever he feels like it.right now im so darn horny and he is in there sleeping.i have tried to wake him up before with oral and hand jobs but he just says that he is tired or he just says hes not in the mood period.what in the world is wrong with him?is he impotent or something?whats your opinion?

2006-09-24 19:28:53 · 12 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he has been acting very odd lately....... he has been calling me alot more almost every couple of hours and when we r alone he is pretty normal (he is a bit more affectionate) but when we r around our other friends he is quieter and more reserved. even his family has asked me whats wrong with him. i dont know what to do. im worried about him. what do u think?

2006-09-24 19:28:32 · 6 answers · asked by GONE 1 in Friends

i know that the question is correct but how do i answer it?
example:
question: "don't you have any idea for this,john?"
if i do have an idea,which is the correct answer please?
is it a "yes" or a "no"?
thanks.

2006-09-24 19:28:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yea, so i've met this amazing girl through a few of my other friends, the problem is, they all like her as well. Anyway, I quickly become really, really good friends with her and yeah, its apparant that ive fallen way too deep into the friend zone. My problem now is to try and get out of the zone without losing the friendship.
My other problem is that I'm asian, i know, alone thats not a big deal, but the friends that introduced me to her are all AZN!! Most of which that look like me and what i'm afraid of is that I'm too simalur to the rest of them.
GA! HELP!

2006-09-24 19:28:21 · 2 answers · asked by Pie Man 5 in Other - Family & Relationships