how do you know when you have the right guy? I love my B/F, & for the first time I can see myself with him in the years to come! I could never really see myself with anyother guy. does that mean that he is the right one?
2006-09-24 19:37:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anna L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's the question that I ask myself everyday! I'm in the same boat as you, and I know how confusing it can be when you keep on asking yourself that over and over. But honestly, there isnt a solid answer to this question. So many people say that your heart will just tell you - but then again it can feel like you know for sure that you want to be with this person one moment, and the next week your not sure again.
Ask yourself if your ready to put your single life behind you, and if your ready to fully commit yourself to this person. This may help you figure out if he's the one, and if your ready to have found your 'one.'
I hope my rambling helps yah!
2006-09-24 20:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. It's hard to see yourself without him because the future is an uncertain thing.
I'm not saying that he isn't the right one for you. Just keep in mind that life is an uncertain thing and ANYTHING can happen.
If you are young (and it sounds like you are) plan a life for yourself. Plan your life with schooling, investments, work, and finances as if you plan on being alone in your life. This way, if things do not work out between you and your bf, then you are not left standing at the bottom of everything.
If you do end up together, then you have set up a good beginning to spend with him.
Him doing the same would show maturity on his part too.
2006-09-24 19:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps, but mayb you're coming to the realisation that you really want to be with this guy and would want to spend the rest of your life with him. the thing is, you never really know if you've found the right guy. im in a situation myself where i have really strong feelings for this guy i saw twice. he has everything i want in a guy. it felt good when we kissed, and already i cant see myself with any other guy but him. the biggest thing for me was knowing that he really did like me, and the fact that i allowed myself to kiss him. i thought to myself that he could possible be the right guy for me, but at the same time for me it doesnt mean that he's the right one for me, and also i dont think anyone truly knows that the one they're with is the right one for them, but if it feels right and if you really cant see yourself with any other guy, then you've gotta think that he's the one for you.
2006-09-24 19:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily.
"the one" is a big deal. its more than butterflies and kisses. which i'm not saying thats how your relationship is. i'm just saying if you're on here asking, then chances are you cant know if he's the one yet. i know its cliche to say 'you just know'. but i think thats how it happens. the one should be your best friend first and foremost. is he your best friend? has he seen the worst parts of you and agreed to love you anyway? is he willing to work through hard times and not just give up? theres a lot to consider hah
2006-09-24 19:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite possibly. When you found someone who makes the other guys or girls look not so appealing then you are probably on the road to true love. Wish you the best of luch with him. :)
2006-09-24 19:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you fell so strongly about him...then he could be :)
Nobody knows the answer to that better than you..so if you truly believe that he is, then he is.
Take care.
2006-09-24 19:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask, he may not be
2006-09-24 19:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know!
2006-09-24 19:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋