i love sex, i enjoy it to the fullest. i am not trying to impress my husband.i open the door naked and he freaks out.i gave him a lap dance and a strip show he said im too s l u t t y. so what am i sopose to do?just live all lame,with the same old misionary.i was always flirty with him.he knew i loved sex and enjoy it to the max.i love him so much,but i would like for him to be more hot,more sexual.i want to initiate sex once in a while.but we only have sex whenever he feels like it.right now im so darn horny and he is in there sleeping.i have tried to wake him up before with oral and hand jobs but he just says that he is tired or he just says hes not in the mood period.what in the world is wrong with him?is he impotent or something?whats your opinion?
2006-09-24 19:28:53 · 12 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Every husband needs a wife just like you. Good luck
2006-09-24 22:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, is it possible he is having an affair? All that and he doesn't want any. I have been married 14 years in November and baby let me tell you we still try do it 2 x day everyday. Stop trying to get with him and go out one day and follow him, then if he isn't having an affair and be sure he isn't now because I declare it sound like he is...When u follow him take picture, if u catch him chill don't go off play him to the max. I could tell you some things if I had the time. When he comes in and says he isn't in the mood get dressed all sexy know you looking good now and leave tell him you'll see him later. Go to the movies or some place for a few hours and come back get take a shower and go to bed. And don't act like nothing don't say nothing do that a couple of times and if that doesn't get his attention get a divorce he is gay girl!!!
2006-09-25 03:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by smokkie29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...it may be that you have made your move in the legitimate seven minutes in any given day that a man is not thinking about sex...but this troubles me. It could be a lot of things. I don't know any man in his right mind who wouldn't be down for anything at any time, day or night. It could be indicative a bigger problem...something tells me he could be gay. Just a feeling. Really not trying to get saucy. But it is the only thing I could think of. How long have you been married? Impotency is when you just can't get it up...so...I don't know. I certainly wouldn't out and ask him if he was gay. That's begging for trouble whether he is or not. But I don't know...something's definitely not on the up and up...
2006-09-25 02:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by mvk79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn....you poor thing. where can i get a woman like you? lol...most guys would love to have a woman like that. dont try to change him or yourself. what you should try, is comunnicating with him about this subject. if he refuses, you could suggest counseling for the 2 of you. you never did state your ages or how long you been married. if he is in his 40's it could be just impotency. or if he's always been this way, you will never change him. you will either have to make a compromise yourself or rethink other options like divorce (only as last resort). you will not be able to change a person like that. people are either horny or they are not.
2006-09-25 02:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be your sexual verocity is scaring him. I mean in terms of expectations.
Possibly, he's afraid he might not be able to satisfy you and therefore is avoiding sex. I know I'd love to have a sexually liberal wife / gf.
More than just sex, maybe you can try teasing... you know touch works wonders... sexual anuedos like a rub down his crotch, light slap on his ***, almost kissing him but just turning at the last min for a cheek kiss, things like dat....
Be strong girl, hold off sex for awhile and just try mild teasing and other anuedos. You've gotta think seduction than just a grand show.
Hope it works out : )
2006-09-25 02:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your throwing it in his face is equivalent to nagging. And no man has ever been known to do anything because they are nagged. Back off a bit, get back to being his friend and then go forward. Meanwhile buy yourself a toy.
2006-09-25 02:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a pulse? You are gonna need marriage concealing before you end up unfaithful, I would go nuts
2006-09-25 02:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by sofora k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop being the first to advance sex it seems like he wants the power once you stop trying to conveince him to sex he'll wander what your up to and he'll be all over you if that doesn't work then leave him
2006-09-25 02:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That guy is practically begging you to go out and cheat on him, in my humble opinion.
2006-09-25 02:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, that man is GAY! Perpetrating a fraud like he is straight. The signs are there RUN.............
2006-09-25 02:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by doschowchows 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋