so itexted him and told him it was over that this was wrong and i wasnted to be with someone who cared about me. I deleted his number from my phone so i wouldnt call him again. Guys how would you feel . I was wondereing if i would get a call from him in a few days . I want him to respect me like i should have respected myself i want to do stuff during the day and not just jump into bed. Do you think it is over or he will apologize ,or what. I dont really care but i was just curious from a mans view.
2006-09-24 19:33:38 · 9 answers · asked by europe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, unfortuately, I've been there and I know exactly what you're going through. See, the best thing for you to do (I know this is not what you want to hear) is to forget about him and focus on meeting someone who will be good for you. You want someone who won't take advantage of you, likes you for who you are, will call when they say they will, and who will sincerely care about you. This guy, used you, and is not calling because he doesn't like you as much as you like him. It's because he's scum. You're too good for him. You don't want to be with a guy like that anyway. You think that you can make him change his mind and make him like you, but you can't. It would be naive to think that. You can't and you shouldn't spend time thinking about how to make him respect you because he didn't give you any in the first place. I believe it is over. I don't even think something started. He will not apologize because he didn't think he did something he felt bad about. If he doesn't call, just be glad. Don't worry, focus on finding a real good guy, school, work, friends, family, hobbies. I know you're hurt by what this guy did, but don't worry, as times goes by, you'll be thinking, that you're glad that he's out of your life. If he calls, please, even if he "apologizes" (cause he won't mean it) cause he only wants one thing so just turn him down and move on. Please trust me.
2006-09-24 19:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, I have been there. Keep your head and your panties too. Guys don't want but what they can get out of a girl. Your all that you have. You have to learn to love and respect yourself and sleeping with someone and then looking for them to call that isn't good. he want call until he wants some more. So, hold your head and go get ur self a new pair of shoes and get ovet this guy. When he do calls, and I am sure he will becasue he is gonna want to hit it again...just tell him your busy and have to return his call later. Answer it now and stay strong. Then wait a like 2-3 days to call him back if he answers tell him u r returning his call. if he starts to talk about hooking up tell him that you have an important call and have to call him back later. Hang the phone up and delete he number for good. Listen to me. I know.
2006-09-25 02:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by smokkie29 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey ! he will call you again guaranteed especially when he is feeling"horny" and wants to have an easy-lay because that's the impression you gave him no-matter what you think ! just be careful use protection and make sure you never, never get pregnant by him because this guy will never take responsibility from it.(poor kid and you)
2006-09-25 02:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem. Find a better fish in the sea, You deserve respect, if he calls do not be available
2006-09-25 02:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by sofora k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to be a downer, dear. but in a relationship, respect for the girl tends to be a big thing for a guy. and by giving in so easily, you lost respect. you became the girl you do, not the girl you date.
my best advice is to forget about this guy. and not let history repeat itself with the next guy you date.
2006-09-25 02:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he used you. Move on. Even if he calls you now, if you give in, you are only setting yourself up to be used again.
You can do better. Respect yourself.
2006-09-25 02:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him , he's a jerk...and to the people who try to make it out like it was ur fault for foolin around with him, he fooled around with u too...dont fall for the double standard bullsh*t that ur the sl*t cos ur the girl
if he does call, dont answer, you can do better than him
2006-09-25 02:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by ash1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont really care why are you asking this question? he used you....learn from mistakes and dont do the same thing twice..
2006-09-25 02:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me your a dirty slut and whore. Who will root anything that is not nailed down. Would you like my number?
2006-09-25 02:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by killerballs33 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋