Family & Relationships - 24 September 2006

i do everything, and i mean everything to make sure he is satisfied.the other night i decided to open the door for him naked and he freaked out.he said i was to s l u t t y . couple of nights before that, i had candles and insence going on.i gave him a lap dance and a strip show.and everytime he said i was inapropiate.that women are not sopose to act like that.he said only whores act like that around men. i felt insulted and he has been sleeping in the guest room ever since.i told him that he could come back when he started to look at me diferently.but what if he dont?is he gay?or am i freaking him out?maybe im doing too much.we only have sex whenever he feels like it,and when that is i dont hear him complainig about how i act.so am i doing something wrong?am i being too much to handle?should i stop being like that with him?i love sex,cant help being sexual with my husband.so what do you think?whats your opinion on all this?

2006-09-24 19:02:16 · 18 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

PLZ, NO "small penis, nerdy" those offensive and non-helpful answers.

They seem so rejected here...whose fault is it? the society? or themselves???

2006-09-24 18:59:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yea, so i've met this amazing girl through a few of my other friends, the problem is, they all like her as well. Anyway, I quickly become really, really good friends with her and yeah, its apparant that ive fallen way too deep into the friend zone. My problem now is to try and get out of the zone without losing the friendship.
My other problem is that I'm asian, i know, alone thats not a big deal, but the friends that introduced me to her are all AZN!! Most of which that look like me and what i'm afraid of is that I'm too simalur to the rest of them.
GA! HELP!

2006-09-24 18:58:14 · 15 answers · asked by Pie Man 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

How should a man approach a Singaporean woman stranger to start a friendship and later on, if goes well, to an intimate relationship?

2006-09-24 18:57:15 · 7 answers · asked by AskMeNot 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 18:54:37 · 12 answers · asked by missy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was broke up with him, and know i wanna forget him totally. i dont want to remeber him again now and forever.
and i get trauma also to make new relation.

2006-09-24 18:54:33 · 9 answers · asked by eka p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 18:53:45 · 11 answers · asked by ஐ♥Mom of 5♥ஐ 4 in Weddings

What would be the best thing to say to reassure her that everything's going to be okay?

Some things to consider:
- It's her second son. The older son goes to a state college and commutes from home.
- The son's school is 3 hours away.
- The son is a good kid (so she doesn't have to worry about him too much).
- I'm the girlfriend of her older son, but we're very close. She treats me like family.

2006-09-24 18:52:27 · 1 answers · asked by WooYa 3 in Family

what do yall think about a female approaching a male. do you guys feel that you should approach her or that it really doesnt matter? females what do you think? ive talked to a couple of males who would rather approach a girl because they feel its a "chase," but then there are others who really dont think twice about it.

2006-09-24 18:51:47 · 12 answers · asked by HonestTruth 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this might seem to be a stupid question........but.........I was dating a guy and things were going really, really well. Then, he just pulled away. I gave him his space, thinking he just got freaked out. But, he never really has wanted to reconnect. He says he still cares about me and thinks about me but that his independence is what he wants most right now. I know he has a serious addiction to pot and probably alcohol, too. He's young...... I feel as though I should hang on because what we feel for each other is real......... but it's really not fair to invest and give when I'm not getting anything back in return except words. It would help me to know a little bit better what to do if someone who knows could tell me whether being addicted to pot would make you want that about all else -- even give up a good relationship so you can keep your addiction going. I think he has a problem greater than the support I could provide for him. But I would like to steer him toward help......

2006-09-24 18:51:37 · 16 answers · asked by hortensio_2000 1 in Singles & Dating

this is for men.. whom do u get attracted to ...a chubby kinda girl or a the one who is thin.

2006-09-24 18:48:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

good friends 4 a year,always wanted 2 be more but am in so much pleasure jus being around him.Dan doesn't hang out with people outside of work, doesn't really have any friends jus aquatiences at work, I feel I am his only real good friend( he's very friendly, people like him but he doesn't ask 2 hang out. in H.S he had it rough n I feel he feels its harder 2 relate n fit in sometimes.I've shown him in big ways how much I care 4 him but he's not ready, he has a lot going on now he needs 2 do. he tells me he appericates everything I do 4 him n that I am thoughtful I am the cloest person 2 Dan but I want 2 talk about more n slowly be more affectionate, only way 2 do that is 4 him 2 be more comfrotable wit dat interaction. how do I do that? I feel in 6 months/yr we'll be 2gether. he's never had a g/f b4 n doesn't like ne1 right now not sure how he feels 4 me other than a good friend might want more n isn't ready. maybe group hanging out from work could work. maybe 1 day by oursleves.

2006-09-24 18:47:42 · 3 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a generally nice guy, though a bit condescending at times. I don't consider myself shy because I don't have any type of social fear or anxiety, but I am introverted and calm. So many times, very shy girls just open up to me, without any real effort on my part. I don't know what it is about me that makes them want to tell me all their deepest thoughts and problems. This is problematic sometimes because I'm not always attracted to them and don't know how to let them down gently (I've caused tears on more than one occasion), or because they don't really have good communication skills. On the other hand, I've had a couple girls blossom for me, so I guess it balances out. But I would like to know why these painfully shy girls seem to gravitate towards me.

2006-09-24 18:47:26 · 12 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex husband of 3+ years and I are filing for divorce. We have a 2 1/2 y/o daughter who is the love of both of our lives. We have been through so much together, the military, his deployment to Iraq, him being gone while I delivered our child alone...more than any young couple should handle. We are both young and we are both stubborn which is why we fight alot, and then about every 6 months - 1 year we both decide that we should get divorced so we are not miserable....but then when we say we are going to be friends its like we cant get enough of each other!!! and we have the most awesome relationship.
Anyway, I need to figure out a way to tell him I want to make this work with him. We have already filed the papers and I dont know if I am just holding on or if I should let go?

2006-09-24 18:46:30 · 11 answers · asked by sweet_kristinabakersfield 1 in Marriage & Divorce

With Christams only a few more months away, I figured that would be some what of the best time to ask the girl of my dreams to marry me. I have the ring picked out (have to pick it up) and everything else pritty much aranged, now I just need to figure out a clever, yet sweet way of asking her. When we talked about it awhile ago, she said a sweet way would be to tie the ring around a new puppy or kittens neck, then give that to her, and I thought about it, but figured sence she thought of that, she might be expecting it... Any ideas would be nice...

2006-09-24 18:45:59 · 15 answers · asked by louie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

love

2006-09-24 18:44:35 · 14 answers · asked by Foxygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my Mom and Dad would bust out laughing!!! Could your parnents keep a straight face? Or would they be thinking about her receiving Presidential Spooge from Bill Mound Hound Clinton?

2006-09-24 18:44:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How should I find out if he even has a girlfriend? I don't wan't to come on as the flirty type.

2006-09-24 18:43:00 · 10 answers · asked by Rebecca 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I meet a girl yesterday at a bar, I sent hera drink and she introduced herself. We really hit it off. I accidentaly broke my phone so she has been unable to get a hold of me. I know she tried to call. Would it be too forward to bring her flowers at work and explain?

2006-09-24 18:42:29 · 20 answers · asked by michael b 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean, I didn't ask for it, but when we recently met she volunteered the information. She acted and didn't want any sex until marriage.

It feels as if all this time she really was a virgin and now she lost it to other man. It feels like cheating.

Any advice?

2006-09-24 18:39:46 · 17 answers · asked by scherzo_for_motorcycle_orchestra 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

need a place to get married at in waco texas can any one help

2006-09-24 18:38:49 · 3 answers · asked by knapps girl 1 in Weddings

I went out with my girlfriend for 4 years and i loved her. I really did. We lived together too. I moved miles away from my friends and family to be with her. To be honest i found it really hard and couldnt find a job for a while. It was a mutual decision we just thought it best to part ways. See we both wanted to see how things went separately for a while. We still communicate and all that and its great. I have had new girlfriends since but have found that i still like speaking to her and think i want to ask her if she still feels the same but because i did leave her i dont know how she feels. Im scared to ask but she says she misses me. I know shes not with anyone else but i dont know what she expected from me and we got into all the silly arguments that couples do money time interests outside of the relationship. She complained when i wouldn't come to bed because i was finding it hard but i dont think she understood i was worried and homesick. Now we are far apart and i want her bac

2006-09-24 18:35:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I have been invited to be a guest on a talk show about relationships. I am supposed to go on there and talk about my current relationship with my "commitment-phobe boyfriend," I am leaving for LA in the morning and have not told my boyfriend yet. The show has told me since he will not be on the show they cannoy mention his name or say anything slanderous about him. Should I tell him and how?

2006-09-24 18:34:32 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy at work just asked ' How i would feel seeing someone older'. By that he meant himself. He is about 15 years older than me and sorta creepy. He uses every opportunity to come talk to me, and when he does he cant even look in my eyes. They are elsewhere. I dont want to be rude, but what do you say to make this behaviour stop!

2006-09-24 18:32:10 · 20 answers · asked by Nik 1 in Singles & Dating

when, after asserting that size doesn't matter, they say, "It's what you do with it that counts!"

2006-09-24 18:31:50 · 26 answers · asked by Okker 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 18:31:43 · 26 answers · asked by kisses08010 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please help me i need to know what to look for. SO I can tell if he still loves me.

2006-09-24 18:30:52 · 6 answers · asked by sassysha_06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf is a virgin and I want her first time to be something she can always look back on and smile.

2006-09-24 18:30:03 · 10 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had crush on someone and found out he had a Girlfriend?? Well it just happend to me last Saturday, and it feels like I have to forget him now because it hurts to much... and I know that I wine alot when I ask my questions and I don't do onpurpose!!!

WELL MY HEART IS OFFICIALLY BROKE NOW!!!!!! :(:(

2006-09-24 18:28:57 · 14 answers · asked by Wolf Apple 3 in Singles & Dating

what does that mean? drunk as a monkey...pfffftt!!! oh please!! how can i be drunk as a monkey when i have no bananas? YES!!! WE HAVE NOOO... BANANAS!!

2006-09-24 18:28:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating