I meet a girl yesterday at a bar, I sent hera drink and she introduced herself. We really hit it off. I accidentaly broke my phone so she has been unable to get a hold of me. I know she tried to call. Would it be too forward to bring her flowers at work and explain?
2006-09-24 18:42:29 · 20 answers · asked by michael b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't call it too forward; however it might be overdoing it a little. I'd send them to her home if possible,if not , then maybe not something as publicly spectacular as flowers.
If you can't think of anything else,at least make sure they are not red roses or something that would look too much like something romantic. That could be embarrassing for both of you, especially her since her co-workers will all see.
2006-09-24 18:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Motoko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends.....does she work at the bar? If so, I would say a single rose and explanation should work. Don't want to go overboard and seem like a stalker. If you have her number I would say just call her from a pay phone if you don't have a new phone yet and explain. Then when you go out on a date you could bring her flowers and take her to a really nice dinner to make up for it. Good luck.
2006-09-24 18:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just send her the flowers as she might feel uncomfortable receiving them from you in front of coworkers. Some girls are shy in that way. Include a note explaining you broke your phone but have been thinking about her and didn't want her to think you were not interested. Go for it. . and good luck!
2006-09-24 18:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, maybe a little bit forward. If you know where she works, I suggest you find the number to her work place and give her a call there. It'll be a little surpise but she will love it. Then you can explain what happened to your phone and talk a bit then invite her to dinner sometime!
good luck!
2006-09-24 18:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Rx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your on the right track!! But dont show up with the flowers....send them with a card explaining what happened to your phone....but PLEASE!! Try to get some help with the spelling and grammer....nothing turns a girl off then a guy who cant express himself well.
2006-09-24 18:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by sent_from_heaven2me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I think that would be a lovely gesture. Just make sure you get the right flowers for the ocassion - no roses
2006-09-24 18:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sending her flowers is like admitting you did something wrong. Just go visit her at work at first, send her flowers later. Plus if you start buying her stuff so soon she will expect bigger and better things next time.
2006-09-24 18:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. I think that's a great idea. For future reference, we girls like the guys to do the pursuing. Next time you ask for her number. If I were her, I wouldn't call you, i'd wait for you to ask for my number so you can call me. We girls like to play a little hard to get. Good luck!
2006-09-24 18:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she tried to call you, then I think she would be thrilled to get the flowers. Go for it!
2006-09-24 18:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all, I think it would be very thoughtful. Not too many men even think to do something like that these days. I think she will think it's very charming. Great thinking and the best of luck to you!!!!
2006-09-24 18:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋