Ok, I have been invited to be a guest on a talk show about relationships. I am supposed to go on there and talk about my current relationship with my "commitment-phobe boyfriend," I am leaving for LA in the morning and have not told my boyfriend yet. The show has told me since he will not be on the show they cannoy mention his name or say anything slanderous about him. Should I tell him and how?
2006-09-24 18:34:32 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Better he hears it from you than someone else - that would upset him even more than he is already going to be.
However, remember, the very fact that you are even doing this is cause enough for him to be very upset with you - and justifiably so because you are airing out both of your laundry in public so to speak. Even if his name is not mentioned, everyone who knows who his GF is that sees or hears about this is going to know, and most of them are probably going to say something to him about it. So he is going to be mad at you and you should be ready to deal with it.
2006-09-24 18:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Motoko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him..you don't want him to turn the tv on one day and u be on there talking about ur all's relationship..if u love him you will tell him..if not it could turn out very bad on ur side..he could get very upset over u not telling him..if i was you i would tell him
2006-09-24 18:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by big10pointers_baby_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! that's cool. Umm let's see though. Honesty is probably the best policy, but it definately won't be the easiest way to go! Expect him to be upset...but tell him not to take it too personally.
2006-09-24 18:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you have to tell him and it would be best to tell him before you go tomorrow. I think that you could damage the relationship if you don't. Good luck and keep your cool!
2006-09-24 18:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by wd2crv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ,but he will probably be there.
Why talk about him ,why not talk to him ?and if you can't make any head way then say good by.
For this you need a talk show ?
2006-09-24 18:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. If he happens to see the show or someone he know sees it and tells him and you didn't tell him up front you could lose him for good.
2006-09-24 19:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please for the sake of ur relationship tell him if he finds out that u didnt tell him well......u r going to be talking about him....here switch places how would u feel if ur b/f went on the air and talked about U well that answers ur question i hope
2006-09-24 18:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Camera_Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had better tell him if you want him to be your boyfriend after the show
2006-09-24 18:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.tell him he got that rights to know that you are going to be talking about him on a talkshow that millions of people will be watching
2006-09-24 18:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by dew li low moe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you pregnant or something...??
What to you need to tell him....Because it's either one of two things (1) You cheated on him (2) You're pregnant and hope he'll accept the baby
2006-09-24 18:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋