2006-09-24 18:54:37 · 12 answers · asked by missy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
cause he has two girls and does noting for them. i dont want my child that way.
2006-09-24 18:56:14 · update #1
well the saying momas baby daddys maybe dont always mean that you cheated on him. mean that when you get preg. know that that is your baby if the daddy there or not dont depend on him no matter what. you will be taking care of this child and you will have support if it dont be him dont trip. you saw how he treated the other kids and thinking on it now is too late , but if you find that you are than prepare yourself to care for your child and file child support. i wouldnt be with a man who didnt care for the ones he has now cause what makes you think he will change for yours? not many do they are low down ready to lay and not pay. love your child regardless, let him go. i know it is hard or bette said than done but you are the liason for your child be a good one.
2006-09-24 19:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying any guy can make a baby but it takes a real man to be a father...So why hang around him..
my wife says that all the time..And she tells me I am real man
Since i work 40 hrs a week and help raise to 2 kids...That I love..
Drop this guy like a bad habit..and tell him he is not man enough for you since he cant help take care of a baby..no matter what it is
2006-09-25 02:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an idiot either way. Dont name him as the father and get a new life and dont invite someone like him in it if he has a rule over sex of his own child. So weird. You two made a mistake and looks like the child will pay. Hopefully, you'll get back on a better path with the knowledge that you have a life that needs you to cherish him/her.
2006-09-25 01:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if u are calling him a kid u should really evaluate why u had sex with him in the first place. he seems to be very immature and u have to decide whether or not u are ready to raise ur child on ur own regardless of their gender. he seems like he wont be there for u or for the baby either way.
he has to take responsibility financially no matter what but if u wnt him to be their for ur baby i would not rely on that. he clearly has issues and needs to grow up especially if this is going to be his third child! good luck!
2006-09-25 01:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend,girlfriend,and old male macho B/S,see,please do not allow him to give that choice of life only God can do that,and you open your mouth and let him know girl,regards if it,s a girl,would he love his child any less,a new life that didn,t know mom and dad were stupid at a very young age.what ever it may be,he,s the father of the child,tell him no matter you will love the child no less,but Gods gonna get his heart right,and cps,will deffinately find him,so if he is the one that helped bring a child in the world,stand up and be a man bout it,child support ain,t cute.
2006-09-25 02:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by sheena s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he aint very grown up if he wont have nuthin 2 do with his child if female? come on do you want to take the chance of him abandoning yr child if born a grl? it is not fair on the child nd if he was man enough wouldnt make you feel this way i am sorry if i offend you . . . . .
2006-09-25 02:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a loser with a big L on his forehead. Go to court for support from him. Shame on him for only wanting a boy. Don't have anything else to do with him. In the future get birth control.
2006-09-25 01:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have any babies unless you and your husband are educated, stable, and you can provide for them. It doesn't sound like that kind of a situation to me. "IF YOU CAN'T FEED EM, DON'T BREED EM!"
2006-09-25 01:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by uncle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. remember this it's your baby first and foremost. take um to court for child support.
2006-09-25 02:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by Bridget G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn.....Don't even bother with this guy. He should thank God that he can have healthy happy children.
2006-09-25 01:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋