what do yall think about a female approaching a male. do you guys feel that you should approach her or that it really doesnt matter? females what do you think? ive talked to a couple of males who would rather approach a girl because they feel its a "chase," but then there are others who really dont think twice about it.
2006-09-24 18:51:47 · 12 answers · asked by HonestTruth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it is up to the person but i do like when a man apporches me though it makes me kinda feel good but i would appoach a man also.
2006-09-24 18:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I never give it a thought. If I want to talk to a man, I simply approach him and talk...I've never not once had a feeling that they were put off by it. If a guy was?...I probably wouldn't like him anyway..lol...shows a lack of self-confidence.
The chase works from both sides..or at least it should be that way...Sometimes I approach, sometimes I'm approached..and I don't think it should matter one way or the other.
2006-09-25 02:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's like u said... different for others. some guys like that kind of woman who takes a challenge and who is more outgoing where others like the chase as u put it. i personally dont have enough guts to go up and ask a guy out but lets say i might have enough guts to go up and start talking to him and then eventually ask him out. but i dont think i could do it right then and there.
i think it's awesome if a girl can do that. in this day and age women are much more assertive than before and theres absolutely nothing wrong with that. good luck!
2006-09-25 01:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that the males are suppose to approach the females, but if you want to approach the male first you can, you are suppose to go for what you want.
2006-09-25 02:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by daimond_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have approached women before but I prefer a woman coming up to me...It shows me whats she really wants..
But you got to be your person and do what you feel more relaxed with..
2006-09-25 01:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be great if a woman approaches a man. Why not? It's all the same, isn't it?
2006-09-25 01:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by WingNo19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like a guy to approach me I am shy around guys
2006-09-25 01:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by angelofhell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its sweet when a female approaches me
2006-09-25 01:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by merlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the situation and the person. i went up to my first boyfriend as a matter of fact i went up to all my men. and stayed with them a long time.
2006-09-25 01:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it do not matter who approches who just be honest and do not play games
2006-09-25 01:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋