Family & Relationships - 24 September 2006

I am going to file for divorce soon from my verbally/emotionally abusive husband. We live together although he has not paid our mtg for 4 months. So eventually we won't have a home and he tells me he won't give me anything until the courts make him. I'm wondering if I should leave first before filing or file and see if the judge makes him pay for the house. I was planning on staying until I had to leave for one because I really don't have anyone to help me move a of yet (I've left before and they're skeptical). Also, I am not really looking forward to living with my mom( privacy issues, not being the woman of my own home, etc). Also her neighborhood is l bit rougher than mine (we currently live in a good neighborhood in the burbs). I don't know how he'll react because Iknow he doesn't think I'll actually do it.

2006-09-24 20:20:10 · 12 answers · asked by Veronique 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-24 20:20:02 · 11 answers · asked by adriboff 3 in Singles & Dating

The way she adjusts & keeps both the roles working without neglecting her household duties.
And the faithfullness towards her husband.

2006-09-24 20:19:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 20:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by whatever_dude™ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 20:17:57 · 8 answers · asked by iamserenityblue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have know this guy for about humm....6 years...hes always been kinda fruity...i just recently found gay porn on his computer. i totally dont hate gay people, i've worked with them. he is always pessemistic, and is all about drama in the friend circle...goes behind peoples backs...i just wanna know if i should be like "dude, i know your gay i dont care, thats your thing" or should i wait until hes comfortable enough with it himself....???

2006-09-24 20:17:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-24 20:16:34 · 11 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my worst thing today is going to work to cook for 90 kids who dont want to eat anything i cook!! its not coz im a bad cook, its just that the food is healthy and they dont like it!!

whats the worst thing you have to do today?

2006-09-24 20:15:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 20:14:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 20:13:43 · 2 answers · asked by rauf_iqbal_eng 1 in Singles & Dating

please state why...

2006-09-24 20:12:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What is the one thing in your life that gives you a reason to breathe?

2006-09-24 20:11:35 · 27 answers · asked by munkees81 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 20:09:01 · 19 answers · asked by tashii 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She has no idea how I feel. He's a possessive, cheating bastard. If I had the choice I'd rather not spend time with them but I can't get out of it now. What do I do?

2006-09-24 20:08:10 · 11 answers · asked by adamvanessen 2 in Singles & Dating

What are they? I know that your current spouse has a lot more good qualities than others you've been with (that's why you married them), but there has to be 1 or more qualities that you wish your current partner have that your past partner had.

2006-09-24 20:07:39 · 7 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in this relationship for 14 months. I care for him but am not sure what to do. Here are most of the things that happen: for six months he talked about his ex every day and even went down to her house one night to see her because he was mad I was at a friends, he is very controlling and possesive, he gets angered easily and so badly to the point where I am scared, he treats me as if I cheated on him because of a past realtionship, he hates/doesn't want me to hang out with other people, he doesn't want me talking to any guys at all, when I am not with him he always wants to be on the phone, I've been told it's different if boys hang out with girls rather than vice versa.. We've broken up twice and both times I let him back into my life. Everything is fine for a while then it just seems to go back to how it was. I am not sure what to do at this point. And if I do break up with him how would I go about doing it or what would I say? I really just don't know what to do anymore.

2006-09-24 20:06:16 · 16 answers · asked by hexe 1 in Singles & Dating

SHE IS MY GOOD FRIEND

2006-09-24 20:05:44 · 7 answers · asked by LEO 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we are a young couple.we are both 28 been married for four years,and the whole time we been married hes been cold.ive always been sexual.i love sex and enjoy it to the max.i do things for him that other men would go crazy over and for him is like he freaks out.so far ive been told hes asking me to cheat.but i dont want to,i love him.i trully feel im doing something wrong.i am a guys dream.i have a nice figure,im not overweight.i take care of my self.he is wonderful outside the bedroom.but inside the bedroom hes lame and sex is only allowed if he feels like it.i am horny as hell right now and want him.but i tried to wake him up and he just pushed me away saying he wasnt in the mood.a couple of days ago i waited for him naked he freaked out,and lap dances,strip teases.heck he dont like for me to give him head.and i enjoy doing that to him so much.his perfect way of having sex is same old misionary.i am so bored,its a shame.sex should be fun and experimental and it takes two.

2006-09-24 20:05:21 · 15 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of three years is going to break up with me tomorow, and i am so broken. I cannot stop crying and i feel so empty. I love him sooo much and he is torn with staying with me or not...hes kinda having a crisis. He thinks hes missing ou on dating or whatever because we have been together for so long and got together at 16, Please help me figure out how to convince him to stay with me. I cannot be without him. I am not okay. Please help me. I know that he still loves me and cares for me thats why its so hard for him, but I need him so badly. Why isn't love enough...i have soo much love for him and he has for me too.. I cannot function..I cannot sleep, All I do is cry, im so scared to be withouth him, i need him....please help me

2006-09-24 20:05:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of 5 years birthday is coming up and he only wants a sex swing. Im not really into it but i figured whatever, in order for me to get something good for my bday i gotta get him something good. but what im worried about is, the ones that i see on the internet connect to the cyling...im scared it will disconnect somehow and i'll fall which we would laugh about but i would still perfer it not happen :-) but the ones with the legs they just look so bulckie. any sugguestions on which ones i should look into?

2006-09-24 20:05:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so, i heard you can get a divorce from your parents? i dont want to sound stupid or anything, but i hardly see my mom, and when i do she is always yelling. i am 17, my gf is 18, and she wants to move out and get an apartment with me

i know theres some legal issues with that though, i just dont know what they are lol

any advice?

2006-09-24 20:04:15 · 4 answers · asked by MM&FF 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need yes and no answers plz.

2006-09-24 20:03:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

However, that guy comes and goes as he pleases..and this girl i love..is so okay with it..she is like ..i will rather stay alone then with anybody else..she loved me like hell and we were supposed to get engaged very shortly. But then he started hittin on her again and she melted...even now she is not being attended to by him yet he does not let her be herself...i have given everything i can to her but she is like..i will rather be alone than be with somebody else..i love her so much and its very hard for me to take control of myself..i don't wanna loose her and wanna be with her...coz dats what i can do....she knows i wont ever betray her or anything yet she is not the same as she was with me before that guy came back hitting....please help me win her..anyhow SOMEHOW!!!!!!!!

2006-09-24 20:03:20 · 18 answers · asked by angelusizhere 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been separated from my husband.There is no contact with him.In the mean while i have a friend who has been there with me during my crises.We eneded up sleeping with each other and we also realize we are in love.But at the same time i dont know my status of marriage.I would like to give a second chance to my marriage provided my husband gets in touch with me.He has kept my son also with him.He had been physical with me and tries to prove everything wrong in me.I had found a friend who would listen to me all the time.At the same time he also wants me to be happy and back in marriage.Mine was alove marriage with my husband and at times feel that i am still in love with him.Or is it that i was in love with the routine.We had too many fights.Is sleeping with my friend for once called infedility?We just talk each other everyday but have resolved nothing like that should happen again.He is also married.Too confused.Should i go ahead with my relationship with my friend or should wait

2006-09-24 20:01:54 · 11 answers · asked by jennifer r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my longdistance gf, got emotionally close with another guy and went on a couple of dates but didnt kiss him or anything else, and this happened when for various reason we stopped talking for 2 weeks by email and stuff cos i was going thru a bad time, she told me and she came bacvk to me and told the other guy she was trying again with me and finished it with him would u say that she cheated on me?

2006-09-24 20:00:53 · 28 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

ok..so this guy..he wants to spend time with me going here n there and messing around but doesnt seem to want to get commited..he is like.."relationships are hard to manage"...so that means he wont commit rite...so then what do i do??..im freaking starting to like him...should i act distant, as if i dont care either..or shud i act nice and stuff..as if i care...and show him signals that i like him..then at least wud he come around n start feeling for me?? but then if i act all nice n treat him well he mite think im too clingy and that im falling for him rite!! then he mite back off??? i dont know how to handle this in a clever way..plz tell me!!

2006-09-24 20:00:35 · 6 answers · asked by sneha 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a big problem in my life i can't think wht to do. Actually i love a girl, She is 14 years elder then me and also she is my cousin sister. We loved each other very much and sleep several times.I loved her from the past 1 year.And i promise her that one day i will marry.

2006-09-24 20:00:33 · 5 answers · asked by ashraf1pak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what attracts you .. what turns you on.

2006-09-24 20:00:08 · 21 answers · asked by xtegx 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 19:55:41 · 24 answers · asked by Elegy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 19:54:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating