However, that guy comes and goes as he pleases..and this girl i love..is so okay with it..she is like ..i will rather stay alone then with anybody else..she loved me like hell and we were supposed to get engaged very shortly. But then he started hittin on her again and she melted...even now she is not being attended to by him yet he does not let her be herself...i have given everything i can to her but she is like..i will rather be alone than be with somebody else..i love her so much and its very hard for me to take control of myself..i don't wanna loose her and wanna be with her...coz dats what i can do....she knows i wont ever betray her or anything yet she is not the same as she was with me before that guy came back hitting....please help me win her..anyhow SOMEHOW!!!!!!!!
2006-09-24 20:03:20 · 18 answers · asked by angelusizhere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sound like her safety blanket, this man will continue to treat her like sh*t sleeping around and kicking seven bells out ov her and deep down she knows it but wants him to change so much she thinks one more chance! Crue to be kind is what you need to be, tell her how much you want her and love her and let her make her choice then if she chooses him walk away altogether my friend! As you will always just be there for her when this other piece ov shi* is upseting her,and she knows this so for all she may love you, you will never have her fully as long as he is in her head. It is her who has to kick his ars* out ov her life, or you could spend years going on like this and just being there when she wants cuddle and someone to say all the right things to make her feel special! Its hard for the both of you! Good luckx
2006-09-24 20:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry, I'm going to say something you're not going to like. She's not good enough for you! You deserve to be with someone who wants to give their heart to you. If you do win her back, how do you know she won't leave you again? How do you know you could trust her. You gave it a shot, you made her Happy, you treated her like a princess, but unfortunately it was not enough. If she really loved you, I don't believe she would be able to treat you like this. I know it's hard, but i seriously believe you need to get her out your life, stop seeing her, contacting her, going to places she will be, change your phone etc. I think it's for the best for 2 reasons. Firstly you might get over her, but secondly, you've tried everything else to win her back, give her the cold shoulder, make her realise what she has to lose, she might come back running. Good luck, i hope it all turns out well for you x
2006-09-25 00:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Oldfruit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear your dilema, but to be honest it sounds like she doesnt deserve you!! Ok, if you really want her then let her go and keep away from her. This sounds hard to do but if she feels like you are getting on with your life without her then maybe she'll realise that you are the one for her. This "other" guy obviously doesnt want her to be happy and is playing games with her and you. Dont tell her that you'll always be there for her cos she'll do your head in. Try and get on with your life and see if she comes back, if not then you deserved better anyway. If she does come back then make sure its for the right reasons. Be happy lifes too short!!
2006-09-24 23:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She's undecided and it seems she still has feelings for her ex. Just tell her that you love her a lot and want to be with her but it seems she want to be with someone else. And wish her goodluck.
Let her decide whom she wants. If it's you she will come back. And if she does make sure it is really for you and not because of something else.
Just don't make the mistake of trying to keep her at your side when she doesn't want.
Best of luck
2006-09-24 20:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't 'win' people. If she loves you enough, she'd be with you. If she chooses to be with someone else, that's her decision. She sounds very indecisive anyhow, and obviously has issues she needs to deal with. Get over it, let her go, and let her sort herself out. You can't hold onto something that will keep walking away from you. It isn't good for you. Go out and find someone who will appreciate you and respect you for who you are. Good luck.
2006-09-24 20:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Charlie Brigante 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that, but i am the same about an ex, he just looks at me and i melt, i am very hard faced with him on the phone, but its when i see him in person that i go all gooey over him,
all you can do is tell her how much it hurts you, and don't make her choose, just show her how much you care and let time do its thing, all you can be is yourself, good luck honey x
2006-09-24 23:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though she is a confused individual. You are better off out of this one I think. Find a girl who only wants to be with you and concentrate on being happy with her. You have more going for yourself than being someone Else's fling.
2006-09-24 20:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by SR13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, she is still in love with her ex. She started seeing you on the rebound and that's always a bad situation and hurts your self-esteem. Forget her and seek a new girlfriend who is not still mooning over another guy.
2006-09-24 20:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she even worth winning over? How could you love someone that does that to you? Are you an emotional masochist? Ditch that chick for someone that'll treat you right.
2006-09-24 20:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-17 11:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by yvonne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋