2006-09-24 20:16:34 · 11 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats a good question. I was fifteen or sixteen when they split. Me and my mom never got along, and i was a daddys girl so i moved with him. At the time I liked it better, i got to do more as a teenager and i wasnt always fighting with my mom. Now that i am 30 i believe it had alot to do with some of the roads and paths i took as a younger adult. For ex. partying and not staying in college. Im back in school now and i have a 3yr old of my own. Even though i wish they would have been together throughout my teen years, i wouldnt want themto be miserable with eachother. i would want them to move on with their lives
2006-09-24 20:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I don't. My parents never divorced; they just stopped living together, and mutually agreed to go their separate ways. When I was a teen, I remembered how they argued and stuff, and it was nearly everyday! It was depressing. I wish they had split up. But my father made the sacrifice to stay with my mother until I was an adult because he wanted to keep a two-parent home for me. I can feel how hard it is considering I can't do that for my son. I never married my son's father, however. We were living together, and it got kind of destructive.
I rather see them happy, even if it means them being apart.
Parents also have a responsibility to their kids to teach them loving, healthy relationships. Sometimes parents have to break up. It's better for kids to learn to leave when they're not happy than to stay together and tension continue to grow.
2006-09-24 20:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish they would of stayed togetheir for the simple fact that when parents seperate they tend to forget they have children and only think of themselves.Thats why their is so many pregnant teens and kids on drugs in this world
2006-09-24 20:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents are human beings too, and sometimes better human beings when they do not have to fight constant and draining fights that go nowhere, or withdraw into a shell because they see no way out.
2006-09-24 20:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jhan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At times I have as I was so young when it happened, I have grown up wondering what it would have been like.
Then again I'm quite fatalistic and I probably wouldn't be where I am now, with who I am, if things had have been different.
2006-09-24 20:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no!! they are so much better apart....now that i think about it their relationship wasent all that great really. but no i wouldnt want them to stay together just for me...good luck! divorce sucks, but most of the time it has to happen...
2006-09-24 20:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they want to get divorce let them do it and i'm sure they already have enough problems so don't become another one. you'll understand later that everything is for the better.
2006-09-24 20:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why would you want to live with the fighting and constant tension in the house.
2006-09-24 20:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no...maybe i'm weird but i didnt mind when my parents divorced. it turned out to be better than what i had before.
its all circumstantial though
2006-09-24 20:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by MM&FF 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
offcourse not.... if its better for them to divorce ... because staying together will cause more troubles to them and to me .
2006-09-24 20:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by black cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋