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money,security,experience(in life and other areas)

2006-09-24 20:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥2323vsb 2 · 2 0

As a guy who had a long relationship with a much younger person I suppose I could answer a bit more informed than Mr. Freud:

Basically some girls just can't make out with same age guys because they're usually immature (girls mature much earlier than us twits). Immaturity also at times shows through as silliness/stupidity and girls often look for the opposite (i.e. seriousness/inteligence which an older guy tends to show)
Security as most ppl here mentioned is also a key factor. A girl whether conciously or not looks for security in her relationship. An older man obviously offers more security in both behaviour and perhaps more so in money/possesions/career.
Also a girl prefers a guy with experience when it comes to relationships and sex, a same-age-guy would normally be experimenting and learning at his girl's expense while an older man has been there and has done that, so that is also a major factor.
Next is attention, an older guy is surely to have lost some loves along the way and therefore he would be putting more effort into this one having learnt from past mistakes. Also an older man appreciates his younger mate, feels damn lucky to have her and therefore treasures; to a same-age-guy she's just another girl. Obviously girls just love this 'special' treatment.

The most important thing here is that some girls don't specifically look for older man but chance to come across one at some time in their life. The problem is this tends to be addictive (and talking from pers. experience here) in that once a girl dates an older man, same-age-guys would suddenly look and feel just-not-right anymore and she would tend to look for older mature guys throughout most of her life...that is until she herself has grown enough that man her age are now mature enough for her likings.

Lots more to say on the subject but hope to have answered you

2006-09-24 20:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by Norman 4 · 0 0

Hi Tashii, Thats what we call a sugar daddy.They marry elder men who are rich,and cares for them until they died.Most of the time,they will leave everything to the young wife.This go's on all the time.

Clowmy

2006-09-24 20:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Elder men are more responsible to take the roles of husband.Their experience wont led them to cheat and having a young wife make them feel secured and loving as they'll fear not to lose their precious halves.Incontrast young guys are prone to have experience and their relationship hardly last as they r always seeking for more and more.

2006-09-24 21:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because young women get sick of the crap that guys their own age put them through. An older man has already been through enough relationships to know how to properly treat a woman, and understand her needs. They are usually much more attentive and thoughtful, and sometimes that's just what women need!

2006-09-24 20:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I think it's all been mentioned. All about maturity, security, as well as money and fortune.


Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world

2006-09-24 20:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by appletech089 4 · 0 0

some look for that father image. that is just some preferred older men than young. they are more mature. well some.

2006-09-24 20:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maturity.

2006-09-24 20:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0 0

Because they are mercenary bitches who are hoping the guys will die and leave them loads of money.

Look up Anna Nicole Smith for a perfect example

2006-09-24 20:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Because unconsciously they look for men who can be a father figure - Freud was right!

2006-09-24 20:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

they are mature and have lots of money, although there are some weird cases when they actually fall in love with them, or they might have father issues.

2006-09-24 20:44:56 · answer #11 · answered by rucrazy? 2 · 0 0

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