Family & Relationships - 24 September 2006

Why when there are so many diseases out there do people still sleeparound?

2006-09-24 20:52:46 · 21 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

Hi, A few months ago I had a terrible fight with a male friend and he emailed me saying never to contact him again which I didn't. A couple of weeks ago I saw him at a concert and as I passed by he smiled nicely at me(sincerely) and said "HI,how are you?" I was uneasy considereing what had happened and said "hi" very quickly and kept walking.

The following week I felt bad and thought I'd call him (thinking him talking to me was a sign he wanted to be frinds again) When I called he yelled at me and said "I told you never to contact me again" As you can imagine I was shocked and devastated and cried for hours after that. Why would he do that? If you don't want anything to do with someone, you don't look at them or try to speak to them at all especially given the recent happenings. Why onearth has he done this? Also, when I have seen his best friend around he has been overly nice asking how I am etc,giving me hugs and kisses. I just can't understand this behaviour? Can anyone help?

2006-09-24 20:51:06 · 10 answers · asked by charmed one 2 in Singles & Dating

She lived in Wales, I lived in the UK. Distance was never a factor. I went down there on the weekend and then when I got home last night she said that she is not ready for a relationship because it's her last year of college and she works alot, she said she has alot of pressure on her at the moment and doesn't want any more. She said it's not fair on me. We were together for 2 months. She said we will still see each other now and again and that we will still talk to each other every day and that in the end "things will work out" (that is what she said). I told her I love her and always will and that I am not going to look for other girls because of the way I feel about her. Do you think it will work? I am scared that it will fade away... I feel lost and it's affecting me badly. Please help. Thanks.

2006-09-24 20:49:52 · 23 answers · asked by chapers 3 in Singles & Dating

both physical and personalities

2006-09-24 20:49:02 · 13 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been married 26 years. While he was in high school had a crush on her, but she didn't pay any attention to him, he went to his high school reunion(she was his date. He is 46 and she is 45) and they got to talking and things went from there. This affair has being on for a year. Now that I know about the affair, I told him that I wouldn't pay a dime while he is with her. (We can do this as husband and wife or you can do this alone with her) He has wreck his BMW going to see. He had to work double time to pay his bills. We have a home together and he doesn't want to divorce me. He is staying with her. He told me that he is paying for the car that I am driving( its his car), my health insurance through his job, and giving me money time to time. He doesn't think he is treating me that bad. He may not be giving me any of his time but he loves me and thinks of me. Wants me to be there for him, support him and stay the same loving wife. He knows I love him.

2006-09-24 20:48:13 · 30 answers · asked by Chyna R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my best mate wants to be my bf.. he asked me to formal (aussie word for prom) and im not sure if i should say yes.. i would go with him as friends coz were really close but ive got a bf n we have been together for 2 yrs 1 month (today :) ) and he is in the grade above me and i think he wont let me coz he didnt take anyone to his formal but i wanna go with this guy coz hes so sweet n i cant say no.. help :S

2006-09-24 20:45:28 · 9 answers · asked by ambzy_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

It has to be really about you. Here is mine:

I broke my right arm was a few years back. I was at the batting cages. I didn't see the speed of the baseball was before I went in. I got hit once, it cracked the bone. I got hit again in the same place. This time it broke. My uncle & cousin were there when it happened. hen people saw me holding my arm in place they asked if I was ok. I didn't answer. So they went & got my uncle. So he stopped the machine & got me. It was a christmas party thing my church youth group was doing. Just only three days after my birthday. I had to have surgery just before Christmas, this time a metal rod was put in my arm. God told me I was gonna get a hurt that night through a vision, I ignored it & I'll tell you why. Just after I graduated high school in June 2001, I was so mad at everyone & I walked away from everything I ever knew. My friends, God, my faith, my family (even though I still lived with them). You see God had tried to get my attewntion through that vision, but I ignored him. My best friend got killed a month after that. I was a mess. Finally a few months later, my church had started a group for people within the range of 18-25 years old. It was May. Almost a year later. But this time after I joined it, God got my attention again & I came back to Him & asked Jesus for forgiveness. What a sad story, & it is true. All of it. But in the end a few of my friends, true friends, hung onto me. Now I stay in touch with one of those friends

2006-09-24 20:43:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 20:43:07 · 10 answers · asked by Ambarish Das 1 in Friends

Are you interested in meeting someone, being seen, surfing, relaxing, getting a tan/burn, being naughty in/out of the water, etc. when you go to the beach..

Do you fantacize about the endless summer....?

2006-09-24 20:40:49 · 8 answers · asked by marnefirstinfantry 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking about on clothes.

2006-09-24 20:40:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ii luv thiiz 1 boii but ii hav3n't s33n hiim iin 4 months how do ii l3t hiim kno....iit's siimpl3 but ii'm jus scar3d 2 giit r3j3ct3d!!


nd ii'll giiv3 n3 thiing 4 thiiz boii!
h3's mii world...h3 jus do3sn't kno iit!! [[lol]]

2006-09-24 20:39:20 · 12 answers · asked by i*luv*mii*babii*wil 1 in Singles & Dating

I have tried contacting her and, as yet, nada has come my way in a response.

2006-09-24 20:38:57 · 11 answers · asked by themanwithnoname 2 in Singles & Dating

what is the subtlest way to find out the size of someone's wedding ring finger?

2006-09-24 20:37:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I wanna know From all the guys on here...what can a woman do to make u get annoyed and mad???

2006-09-24 20:36:27 · 11 answers · asked by ~Nyla~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 20:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 20:35:30 · 6 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's 3:32am. I'm stil awake! i know i miss him but i really need to sleep now.

2006-09-24 20:35:26 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 20:35:05 · 10 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

I posted a poem i wrote for my bf. I asked what did people think about that. Was it wrong to ask people's opinion? was it not a question?

Poem for my bf who's thousand miles away.

Lying on my bed
Dreaming in a daze
Listening for your voice
And wanting your embrace

Missing your kisses
Wishing you were here
Waiting for the day
When you will be near

When that day comes
I will feel your embrace
With tear filled eyes
As we are face to face.

I miss you and good night.

2006-09-24 20:32:22 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex walked out and said he is not coming back.{while i was at work i found a letter} no warning just disappeared, i was hurt as some one would be, but fair enough i can deal with that so i erased him from my msn and walked off since then he has constantly messaged me written emails and has now tried to re add me to his msn. what games his he trying to play i have requested no contact from him any more as it is extremely hurtful and i want closure. in his emails he has not been straight up with what he wants its always small talk wich i never reply to i do not return his text to my mobile phone and have now blocked him from messenger does any one have an idea what his game is? personally i think he may be realising what he lost yet he has not realised its too LATE!!!

2006-09-24 20:31:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok here's the scenerio. i was with a guy i've known for about a year. we went out to a local bar like we always do. he likes me, i like him. the think is we both flirt with other people. tonight i went to the bathroom and i came back and he's gone. i call him. he gets all pissed at me cause he says i wasn''t in the bathroom and hangs ups and he think's i left for my ex. i run outside and i see he's walking home. so i call after him. no answer. but i don't know what he's up to so i go back inside and finish my drink. thinking he is just talking to someone. meanwhile i call him all along. no answer. i go to his house after i'm done and knock. he won't answer the door. what should i do? i know i was trashed, but left me. he was drunk too. i ended up playing pool by myself because he already put quarters in the table. but he won't anwer. i knocked on his door and called. no answer. at this point i just feel dissapointed and confused by everything please help.

2006-09-24 20:30:35 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 20:30:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

please answer my question..im in dilema

2006-09-24 20:27:06 · 10 answers · asked by zatty 1 in Weddings

My fiance is in Iraq right now. We always argue about him overreacting to situations in our relationship. (He overreacted on things before he went overseas.) Granted, I have my flaws and have made mistakes in our relationship but there are some things that I think I need to take a stand. For instance, today I told him he has an angry personality (because he gets angry a lot) and he got really really upset and told me to take it back. I just told him that he needed to control it better.I talked to him in the morning after he just woke up because earlier before he went to bed we got into a fight and he told me that he is now really tired because he stayed up all night being upset about our fight. He has to go to work and I am really worried about him because of his lack of sleep and him getting hurt because of it. I told him he should never worry about our fights because work comes first. Now I will blame things on myself if something happens to him. What do I do in this situation?

2006-09-24 20:25:32 · 7 answers · asked by souplane21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it really hurt my feelings (boo whoo)
does anyone have a sense of humor and if i want to ask the same question twice i can if i want no one on here is my mum (well i hope she isn't) if so sorry mum ;-)

2006-09-24 20:25:29 · 10 answers · asked by darknightmare01 2 in Singles & Dating

my finacee of 2 years thanks to long distance problem but please i need ur advice on how to get healed fast from this heartbreak

2006-09-24 20:24:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It annoys me and her other roommates. We all agree that iher singing is bearable to some extent, but she's doing it a lot, loudly and it drives us nuts. She believes that she sings really loudly like she was Mariah Carey or Celin Dion. Frankly, I believe her singing is as good as the top rejects on American Idol. We love her and don't want to hurt her feelings, so do we just spend the rest of our lives, tolerating it?

2006-09-24 20:23:05 · 10 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Friends

After not seeing him for two months we got together for a nite. He is married which he hid from me in the beginning. That is why I broke up with him. How do you trust a cheater? I am married too and although my husband has suspected something I have been able to bluff him so far. I really love my boyfriend and can't seem to move on.... HELP!!

2006-09-24 20:20:37 · 27 answers · asked by patmallard 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-24 20:20:35 · 2 answers · asked by cavarena w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am in primary 5 now and my teacher asked me to skip primary 6 and she wants me to go secondary 1 the next year she gave me an option either i should skip or not.my friend still does not know these problem yet.should i tell them? should i skip primary 6?i will miss my friends what should i do?i know there`s 2 ways the first one is i can email them but these would not help any because they don`t have a computer.they can`t affort to buy it.the second one is to meet them some where,but i don`t have anytime to do these.pls help!!!i will be going to methodist girls high school after that.my teacher have ask me to skip one time which i was in primary 1,immediately i have skip to primary 3 i have miss my friends.should i just skip again? i got good result in all the subject in school ,because of that so i have to skip one level and i wouldn`t saw my friends anymore.thanks

2006-09-24 20:20:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends