my finacee of 2 years thanks to long distance problem but please i need ur advice on how to get healed fast from this heartbreak
2006-09-24 20:24:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darling I wont say sorry because sometimes tings a better off the way they are. But think about this, you love your father and mother very much because they brought you to this earth and your fiancee found you but how many ties have you cried for them when they hurt you. Dont shed tears just ignore it, go out wiht your friends, talk about it as pleasure but not a problem and lastly do want you really love best among your hobbies. And dot forgrt to take good care of your self, eat well, have enough rest and dont go to places which remind you of him. Goodluck.
2006-09-24 20:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by sendikaddiwa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to heal a broken heart, OMG!!!!, if i could answer that question, and know that it will help, or come up with some magical answer, i would. All i can say, is don't sit and mop, get out there and get on with life, and do things that you love doing, friends, family and long walks, try to heal yourself or your heart. Do something that you have always wonted to do, can you go for a holiday, meditate, make some changes in your life, I to have ended a relationship, that was negative, and just going now where, so i am going to try and do what i have written above, so i really know how you feel, and time will heal, so good luck sweetie and take care, God Bless.
2006-09-24 20:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well time heals everything. But then u should not wait for time to heal your wounds. Keep yourseld busy in something else all the time, may be u can do a job if u like. In the free time enjoy being out with ur firends. Make new friends which is abest remedy. Don't regret about the breakup or don't even think that u r responsible for that. LIfe is beautiful enjoy.
2006-09-24 20:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can heal a heartbreak faster than time. Time heals all pain, and it is true. To help with your heartbreak, you can keep yourself active with friends, relatives, and hobbies. Maybe you can find the time to volunteer for a good cause, which involves helping others. Those will cheer you up a bit, and you can see that other people can have bad problems in their lives as well.
2006-09-24 20:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jay S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that chi. Hope you're ok.
All you can do to try and get over the heartbreak is get on with your life - keep yourself occupied so those lonely thoughts dont have time to be in your mind - get out and about with your friends and family - take up a hobby - go shopping - whatever works for you.
Sure you're gona be upset for a while - but you will start getting over this and in a few weeks you'll be back to your oldself.
2006-09-24 21:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are expendable, believe me I am one! If you broke up then that shows that there is something more fundamental than the long distance issue buggering up your relationship, don't feel obliged to try and give it another go. cool offf before you do anything and take a long hard rational look at the last 2 years and evalute if its worth going back, if its anything less than a convincing 100% yes - don't.
2006-09-24 20:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by themanwithnoname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with friends, do the stuff you did when you were single, meet old friends, have a good time and try to avoid being alone for a while. Dont start a new relationship, dont go for intercourse and avoid alcohol. Just be alone until you feel good, no shortcuts to happiness here.
2006-09-24 20:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Bastard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how much you loved him and how much time you actualy spent with him. If you realy loved him breaking up with him makes no sence. Distance is just that distance and if you wait you will see that with time it will get shorter and shorter.
On the other hand if you can't take alittle of distance between you guys, imagine when you are married, there is more to worry about that just distance.
2006-09-24 20:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by aksalas47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and have some fun. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Start living and, I know it will be hard, don't dwell on the past.
Good luck!!
2006-09-24 20:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by paddymac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do things that would let you take your mind off of him. Go out with friends you haven't seen in a while, hang out with your family, go shopping, go to the movies...stuff like that. =) good luck with everything.
2006-09-24 20:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by .LoveStoned. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋