ok here's the scenerio. i was with a guy i've known for about a year. we went out to a local bar like we always do. he likes me, i like him. the think is we both flirt with other people. tonight i went to the bathroom and i came back and he's gone. i call him. he gets all pissed at me cause he says i wasn''t in the bathroom and hangs ups and he think's i left for my ex. i run outside and i see he's walking home. so i call after him. no answer. but i don't know what he's up to so i go back inside and finish my drink. thinking he is just talking to someone. meanwhile i call him all along. no answer. i go to his house after i'm done and knock. he won't answer the door. what should i do? i know i was trashed, but left me. he was drunk too. i ended up playing pool by myself because he already put quarters in the table. but he won't anwer. i knocked on his door and called. no answer. at this point i just feel dissapointed and confused by everything please help.
2006-09-24 20:30:35 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps. he is a latino and i got mad at him earlier for talking to another girl. he said it was nothing and i believed him.
2006-09-24 20:40:45 · update #1
Ok I'm a bit of latino too so i can understand him a little better:
Latinos and open relationships don't go very well together and they also have a very strong sense of pride - Touch that and you're in trouble. You should give hime some space to get over it then come on to him like nothing's happened but give him all your attention. If you're on to him real bad, a little chat about getting it all wrong wouldn't hurt. Work on his pride - make him feel important.
Try to get this thing as exclusive for a while and you should see some improvement..
2006-09-24 20:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by Norman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think He Trying To Break Up With You I Mean What Hell ? Well Give Him Space Wait Few Days Then Talk To Him Explain What Happen And If He Doesn't Listen Or Whatever Is Cause He's Not Man Enogh To Ya Tell He Wants Out That Or He Really Out
2006-09-25 03:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nath Seto Kaiba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he has trust issues. If you can't get it across him that you haven't been cheating, then you might need to cut him off at once. If he can't trust you to go do your private business, then how is he going to react when you are talking to any guy out there?
2006-09-25 03:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has "control freak" written all over him. Stop running after him, banging on his door, begging for him to speak to you. Consider yourself lucky you found out what he's like.
2006-09-25 03:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever he comes out, step before without wearing a dress. thats all he will surely understand that u r only for him and not for ur ex.
2006-09-25 03:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by Yashna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋