DOes having sex with a girl make a guy get emotionally attached...especialy a guy who hasnt really done that before with someone particular, just been to strip clubs here n there...??? so after having spent time with me for awhile, and having sex and stuff, at the end, would he be emotionally attached to me or not? how da hell do u make him feel like he cant b without u?!
2006-09-24 19:44:40 · 10 answers · asked by sneha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope..doesnt work that way
2006-09-24 19:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't completely make him attached to you. Being his first is definitely an advantage. Because of that he will be more likely to stay with you for at least a while. It may be because you were his first and he feels comfortable with you because he doesn't know what anyone else is like. If other things in the relationship are not so great, this won't be enough of a factor to keep him for too long. Eventually either way he may want to explore what it's like with other girls, because he will be naturally curious. If it doesn't work out with them and you two are still close, you could probably give it another chance after he satisfies his curiosity.
2006-09-25 04:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Bravo Your Life! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL is that what you are trying to do? :p well if you think that by just giving him sex he is going to fall madly in love with you, you are wrong. There is more that just sex in a relationship. Of course that depends on the guy if he really likes you he might get attached, but if he just likes you enough, then he will get over you. The first time is always special, but that doesn't mean that the person will fall in love with you just bacause of that. He will surely remember you always, as you were his first but it's not garanteed that he will get emotionally attached.
Take care.
2006-09-24 19:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, sex will not do that. If you want him to fall for you, and he kinda likes you already, just keep treating him well. Be there for him and listen to his problems and help him when you are able. Be patient with him and never hurt him on purpose. If do those things, I think you have a good chance of making him attached to you. (And hopefully he will do the same for you). Please be careful though . . . if you work to make him emotionally attached to you and then leave him, he will be very hurt. Good luck!
2006-09-24 20:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, the amount of attachment is directly related to the amount of sex and orgasms you and your partner are having with each other. The more the two of you have sex with each other, the more the two of you get emotionally attached to each other.
"According to researchers at the University of California, San Francisco, the hormone oxytocin has been shown to be "associated with the ability to maintain healthy interpersonal relationships and healthy psychological boundaries with other people." When it is released during orgasm, it begins creating an emotional bond -- the more sex, the greater the bond."
http://people.howstuffworks.com/love7.htm
Of course, people are individuals. And there are exceptions to every rule.
2006-09-24 20:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some thoughts to share
Guys stay in a relationship for (the promise of) sex, but the relationship keeps because of love
2006-09-24 20:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well with a guy sex realy do that if you want him to fall inlove with you don't give it up but treat him like a king do things for him like get the key to his house and cook him diner whear somthing sexy too just for him if you want him to think he cant live without you never give it tell you know hes hooked
2006-09-24 19:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by ite hear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you cant"make him" feel anything.Treat him well and show him love and affection and stop obsessing.With luck he will fall for you.If he does you'll get the response you want.Word of warning,"Be careful,you might get what you want"
2006-09-24 19:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are struggling not to hurt his feelings you should try a threesome & introduce him into sex with others.
2006-09-24 20:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by chef_gone_nuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either loves you or he don't it's that simple
2006-09-24 20:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋