My boyfriend still has emotions for his ex-girlfriend and calls her every couple weeks. Should I be worried?

Question

Does my boyfriend really love me? I saw that he sent text messages saying "miss you" and "i want to see you soon" to his ex-girlfriend. He also calls her phone every couple weeks. Does he love me? Can he love two girls at once? IS he just keeping his ex as a rebound? I don't know what to think. help any advice from you guys out there.

Answer 1

I wouldn't put up with that. He's attentions are elsewhere and not with you.

Tell him you are taking a break and to come back to you when he has sorted his life out.

Answer 2

Normally, it's normal for a guy who had an amicable break with his ex to keep in touch, maybe meet up once in a while to catch up. It's nothing serious. Most cases I would've advised you to just focus on building your relationship than engage in a comparative analysis and lend support to a phobia mentality.

But it's really worrying for him to text "miss you" and all that crap. I think the red flags are pretty clear, what you do next is up to you. Personally, I think you need a cooling off period for both of you to get your thoughts straightened out.

Answer 3

You have to let him go, but be sure to tell him why. If he isn't over his ex, he can't commit to you. If he does love you then he will fight for you and stop contacting his ex. Good luck.

Answer 4

I would not stand for that, if my b/f did that I would be so mad! if he misses her ask him why? what does he miss? ask him why he is not talking to you about the suff he is talking to her about? you have to come right out & ask him whats up? thats what I think!

Answer 5

duuuh! dump him....you are just replacement for his ex. he'll dump you if he has a chance to get back to his ex.

Answer 6

I would say so...