He has had this problem for a while, he lies about it all the time, hiding and playing. He has spent his entire paycheck a few times. I have no clue where he gets the money to play. He has been going to gamblers annonamous for a little while, and no help. I have no clue what to do. HELP!!!
2006-09-24 19:50:51 · 6 answers · asked by angeleyes_13180 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you need to go to gamblers anonymous with him and maybe get some other counselling. He needs help working through his problem and if he knows you are there to help him, without judging him, maybe he'll lean on you a little more.
2006-09-24 19:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, r the bills getting paid? if he spends the bill money you really have a problem. If you want to still be with him met with him when he gets his check and take it. If he doesn't agree to that start letting things get turned off and taken he'll have to wake up if not he loves the problem more than you and it's time to move on.
2006-09-25 02:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by smokkie29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You take control of all the money. he'll agree if he wants the marriage to work. he can't gamble what he doesn't have. go with him on payday to get his check. don't give him an atm card. you purchase everything he needs.hide credit cards and checks. if you control the money you don't have to stress whether he brings a check home or not.
2006-09-25 02:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by shcooper600 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to seek counseling for your issues. With the right professional helping you cope with the problem and how you are feeling, they can then guide you through how to take action based on how you feel.
Definitely get yourself counseling. First step is take care of you. Then deal with him. But do it when you have the tools and support you need.
2006-09-25 02:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ofc J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have one or two choices
1) Leave now with EVERYTHING
OR
2) Leave later with NOTHING
2006-09-25 02:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Stickey Ikey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him an an ultimatum. disclose that u know he has been going behind your back.
2006-09-25 02:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Treezle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋