i've been with him for 5 years and now we broke up for 2 years but i still have a really strong feelings and love him reallly much. he has a girlfriend now that living wit him. he went to marine for 4 years but now hes done. at that time of 2 years when he in north carolina i was stilll with him until 2 years later we broke up.now everytime i try to call him he doesn't pick up my calls, because i've been calling him a lot he let his girlfriend talk 2 me. then i told her i wana talk to him, she ask him if he wanna talk to me, he said later. they been dating for 4-5months now. when i heard she said that they living together, i felt so hurt, it's like he stab a knife to my heart. I love him very much but he doesnt feel for me. i was waiting for him until he done with Marine. the reason he broke up with me is because I didnt believe in him that he didnt go strip club, cuz he said his friends went, so i think he probably did too. i just cant stop thinkin about him, no matter how hard i try
2006-09-24 19:31:29 · 14 answers · asked by Sandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn girl, just find another boyfriend! He's already in another relationship. On the bright side, you two broke up for a reason (hopefully a good one). If you got back together, chances are you'd still have the same problem(s). Good night and good luck with the next fellow!
2006-09-24 19:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distant relationships seldom work! Of which you now know!
It would be best for you to go on with your life and let him do the same as it seems he is!
Your both older now and evidently grown a part. It's not always some ones fault! It just happens in life! Treasure the times you had! You made good memories I am sure! Now it is time to move on and make a wonderful future for your self and many more good memories!
2006-09-24 19:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to move on...
You can't force someone to love you and obviously he has made the decision to move on with his life without you.
You are in serious danger of being considered a stalker or at the very least you could be charged with harassment if you continue to call him and keep bothering him.
If you can't find a way to let go and move on with your life I would advise you to seek counseling. This is not healthy behavior and will bring you nothing but trouble and could lead to depression or worse.
2006-09-24 19:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you and i should definitely move on. it's hard but i think we should. you gotta help me out and i'll try to help u out. man this love thing sukx i. after all that has happen i don't think true love existed for me anymore. maybe for someone else but not for me. you have a lot of guys going for u. give them and chance and stop being so supicous about things. but next time before u date a guy let me know and i'll do the same b4 i date someone. im gonna watch ur bak and u watch my bak. ok im tire now. talk to u later ba coi noi...lol cheer up
2006-09-24 21:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has moved on and your still stuck. Get a new hair do and some new cloths and go out with your girlfriends and find u a man. Because this one doesn't want you. Why would u want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? I am sure your a pretty girl and some one is dying to take you out. Love yourself and then loving someone else is second nature.
2006-09-24 19:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by smokkie29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunny i know how you feel, i still love my ex but there is nothing you can do, if you keep calling him so much you will even loose him as a friend, you need to back off, if he loves you it will happen but you cant make something happen, things happen for a reason, this just means there is someone better out there for you,
goodluck
2006-09-24 19:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Boots 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has literally MOVED ON.however bitter this may sound - it is true!
Well your suspicion led to the relationship going bad.
Dont repeat such things again and handle any relationship with CARE..
Please- Act mature, talk to yourself , make yourself understand...this ONE SIDED FEELINGS Wont work out.
Its like sowing a seed and jus watering it and giving it fertilizers and sunlight from one side..the other side would always remain barren and one fine day this whole plant would die ..
Realise your RESPONSIBILITY.
Move on and learn from your mistakes.
Thats the bottom line..
I'm being so straightforward because I want you to hurt yourself NO MORE!
2006-09-24 19:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better quit thinking of him because he has certainly moved on with his life. Look for a new boyfriend and remember the lesson you learned by not trusting him.
2006-09-24 19:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why you're waisting time ?
Is nothing to fix!
Love is blind?
You are not blind!
He has new g/f !
Why you don't look too for your own b/f.?
Everything is done in the past!
The future and tomorrow belongs to you !!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-24 19:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, it is over. He has somebody else
you say you could not trust him anyhow
2006-09-24 19:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋