Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

I just had a huge argument with my husband. He asked me to return a book to the library and I did. He put another book together with the one he asked me to return. As he was leaving I asked himwant this one too he said "Do as I said" ...Now he asked why did I not return both.... I am so mad. But this is not the first time, he is always hang-up on small details and makes me so mad... HE DOES NOT SEE that I work, clean take care of the kids and him too.... WHO TAKES care of me??? Why are husbands a bit dumb at times and do not understand that they too have to apologize if they did something wrong? He is wrong how the hell am I suppose to read his mind. SO my question is why don't husbands apologize when they are wrong?

2006-09-23 15:23:28 · 33 answers · asked by Marina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm normally into guys who are taller than me. I really love him but sometimes i wish he were taller. I know this seems foolish but i need your opinion. Should i worry about this? What should i do?

2006-09-23 15:23:16 · 10 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you ever think about what life might be like if you had never settled down with one person?

2006-09-23 15:22:27 · 29 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How long should you email a guy you meet online (on a dating site) before you talk on the phone? I like to email for a while to get to know the guy a little before calling him. Guys seem to think you are playing games with them if you don't want to talk on the phone. I have found no difference in the success of meeting whether or not I talked to the guy on the phone or not. I work late and when I get home at night (around 9 30) I am tired and have stuff to do just as I am sure these guys do when they get home at 5 or 6, and it is easier for me to email back and forth through the dating site than to get on the phone and talk for an hour when I have things to do like eating, and washing, and all. I like to ask so key questions before I talk on the phone, things that are easier to email than to come out and ask. I think a few days of emailing and then talking on the phone works best.

2006-09-23 15:22:17 · 6 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking about "I broke up with my bf/gf 3months ago" type solitude, I mean true depressing isolation. I'm 35 years old and to be honest I have had a grand total of 4 months worth of true companionship in my life, and it's NOT by choice. I go out to bars, movies, fairs, etc. so I'm not a hermit or anything. It just seems no matter what I do, say, or try, I end up being alone. The worst thing is everyone who's ever met me thinks I'm an actual honest to god gentleman, but even that doesn't help. The solitude I feel can't be cured by friends, after this amount of time, it's not enough, no matter where I am, or who I'm with I feel alone. And after this much time the loneliness is like a manifestation chewing on my soul, and NO shrinks aren't the answer either. I feel the only thing that will cure this is actual companionship. So, if you've been alone as long as I have, how do you deal with it?, Do you feel like death is the only true release.

2006-09-23 15:18:33 · 14 answers · asked by Sentinel 3 in Singles & Dating

i tell all the details that is needed for the guy to know what i look like. He knows that i am a big girl and he tells me that is what he likes. Then after 3 to 4 weeks of talking we meet and go out and talk for a couple of days longer then i don't hear from him anymore. what am i doing wrong and where is a good place to meet the right man. other than clubs, bars, church, etc. i have tried all those.

2006-09-23 15:17:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my friends have just all started highschool but we all seem to be fading in our own different directions. There are 3 of us 2 girls (including myself) and a guy. we've all been cool for about 2-3 yrs. and i care about them both bery much. what i would like to know is, is this type of thing normal, am i holding on to strong, should i just let it take it's course, or do i need to do something about it. i've seeked help from others but it doesn't help much, i'm young and sort of new to this, could you please help me, because i think my friendship could be in serious trouble.

2006-09-23 15:17:41 · 5 answers · asked by shani 2 in Friends

2006-09-23 15:17:01 · 6 answers · asked by nans77 1 in Singles & Dating

well i saw them by his locker and uhh. they were kissing. and i couldnt tell what happened ! my boyfriend says he tried to stop her and my friend says he was all over her. who should i trust ? and why ? i have known my friend for about 3 years now and i have been dating Jeff for a year and 3 months, but we tell eachother everything and we dont keep secrets from eachother.. or so he tells me ? ughhh. i dont know what to do ! advice pleasee ?

2006-09-23 15:16:55 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 15:16:45 · 29 answers · asked by ... 2 in Family

I am a twenty-three-year-old liberated woman who has been on the pill for two years. It's getting expensive and I think my boyfriend should share half the cost, but I don't know him well enough to discuss money with him.

2006-09-23 15:16:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They think that it's just like prom, and poeple get hurt and its disgusting or something. I can tell that my dad can trust me, but my mom is just TOO worried. Well, my parents are really strict. And they said that it will cost too much money...which I know that if we save then it probably won't be a problem. How should I convince them???

2006-09-23 15:16:17 · 2 answers · asked by love&&life 3 in Family

My 10 year old cousin likes this guy. There both ten and in middle school. They sit next to eack other in home room, guidence, gym, and music. Her best friend told her that he likes a girl that is smart(she's smart) funny (she made him laugh once or twice in class the second day) and nice (she is really nice) . She likes him A LOT!! He also choose to play with her in gym. She dosen't know what to do and she looks up to me. HELP!!!!!!

2006-09-23 15:15:52 · 20 answers · asked by <3 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 15:15:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Lets start here. im mormon. the church thinks they can control my every move.

earlier i was showing my mom a cute boy out of my magazine. then she said that sister jones said that seventeen magazine is nothing but garbage for girls my age. people in that assilam dont know jack. not to mention i cant live a single day on this earth without that church in on everything.

they have life rules that just take advantage of everything that i am about. i shouldnt have to dress the way they tell me to. i should have the right to date when I think the time is right for ME. i dont want to wait until 16, i want to get out there and think for myself. i want freedom, i just cant live this way any longer.

2006-09-23 15:15:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend asked me to marry him. I told him yes, but I keep holding it off telling him I don't think that is what he really wants to do as an excuse. He keeps pushing it. The only reason I keep holding it off is because my family wants me to wait to get married, either because they want me to be older or to have more money or be more stable in some way, and I have always followed my parents and families wishes, because I always found them best, but my heart is telling me just go do it. Go get married, and if they' re mad they will get over it. I am so in love with him and I really want to get married, but my parents hate the ideal as well as the rest of my family. I just don't know what to do and I would like to know your opinion.

2006-09-23 15:14:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have moved from another state, where common law marrage was legal. We now want to get married for "real". What are the steps we need to take on the legal side?

2006-09-23 15:12:57 · 4 answers · asked by Tom G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but this girl is 15 and has been caught using drugs, getting surprise drops by her mom, and my daughter will not relent when I tell her NO. This girl is gonna get her butt beat if she doesn't shut the h3ll up!! Am I wrong here? What say you all?

2006-09-23 15:12:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-23 15:11:57 · 1 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Singles & Dating

My puppy is 5 months old and when I got home he wasnt there but his sister was. The problem was that there werent any holes in the gate wasnt open but the lock was on the ground.Also his sister was still outside and were ever he goes she goes.His name is Chancey.

2006-09-23 15:11:27 · 17 answers · asked by prettyprincess M 2 in Family

i am against it

2006-09-23 15:10:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well me and my Boyfriend Have sex about 7 or 8 times a month or more. Is that bad, wat can i do to stop?!

2006-09-23 15:10:29 · 47 answers · asked by eye_candy130 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 15:10:20 · 17 answers · asked by Need help!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he was in one of my clsses last year. i noticed how hot he was but i never talked with him. but this hot guy is best friends with a really good friend of mine. and now im eating lunch in the same room as they are and ive kinda been tlaking with the hot guy and im falling for him. but i dont know what to do about it. like i dont know if i should tel my friend that i like his best friend. the thing is me and my friend have never talked about guys before mainly becasue he is a guy. so it might be weird but i really want to start something with this guy so i need help i dont know what to do. what would you guys do?

2006-09-23 15:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that my boyfriend loves me, but when he gets angry with me or irritated he runs away, says mean things, and will not answer my texts or calls. He is very immature at times. When he is hurt and upset, he reacts with anger and immature behavior. He knows it hurts me when he ignores me, so that is what he uses. I always have to go to him. He has even admitted to me that he "needs" for me come to him because he does not think he would be able to come to me. He has been burned by all of the women in his life, including his mother. He thinks that I will ultimately leave him or hurt him, so he becomes angry and mean when hurt. He knows I will always give in and be the one to come to him. But I do not want to do that anymore. It is not healthy and it gives him the impression that he can treat met that way, and I will always be there. It is so hard for me not to contact him. But if I ever want anything to come of this relationship I must stand my ground. Right?

2006-09-23 15:07:03 · 31 answers · asked by Don't like Games. 1 in Singles & Dating

Well it looks like we might have found the site for our May 2008 wedding ceremony and reception. It's called Parkway by the Lake and they offer an outside ceremony under a tent and a reception inside. The price would be $60 a person, but that includes:

5 hours open bar
champagne or wine toast for all
hot and cold hors d'oeuvres
fresh jumbo shrimp
sitdown dinner (entree, salad, potatoe, and vegetable)
wedding cake of our choice
dessert table
chocolate fountain
outdoor wedding ceremony under a tent.
chair covers and colored sashes at the tables

It also includes:

China, linens, glassware, cake cutting, premium liquor, skirted head, gift and cake table, setting up and taking down, bartender, and no extra charge for either the reception hall or the outside ceremony site.

It includes everything that we wanted and at a pretty good price.

http://www.parkwaybanquets.com/

2006-09-23 15:07:02 · 18 answers · asked by Jason 4 in Weddings

Him and his wife don't have a great relationship, but he says he still loves her, he just don't know if he loves her because of loyalty or because of the kids....but he is head over heals in love with his girlfriend...he hates it when he can't spend time with her, he thinks about her endlessly and they have the best sex either one of them have ever had...The problem is he doesn't know if he can leave his wife...20 years is something. But he is not happy. I do not know how to help him, any ideas?

2006-09-23 15:06:32 · 21 answers · asked by ~hopeless love~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so me & this girl were best friends for about 3 years, our friendship over the past year or so has slowly faded away until we maybe talked once or twice a month, but we'd still keep in touch now and then...well about 2 weeks ago she broke up with this guy she was with for about 4 months and he called upon me for advice, but he decided that he just can't take her crap anymore, so we've been talking (as though we've been friends forever) and now he wants me to go "hang out with him"...would I be a horrible person if I did? Her & I dont talk at all since she found out that he called me...

2006-09-23 15:06:24 · 3 answers · asked by ★ LesbianLucy ★ 3 in Friends

and sometimes i feel as if im leaning towards wanting to be with and talk to her friend more is this okay or not?

2006-09-23 15:05:39 · 12 answers · asked by someone 2 in Friends

what would you think if your significant other had a my space account?

2006-09-23 15:05:32 · 12 answers · asked by goddess1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships