Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

any time i want to speak to a girl am always shy i never had a girlfriend in my life and i don't know how to get one there's a girl in my school i love so much but she does,t like me another think why girls do not like me is that am from Africa and i have an accent they think that i came from the part of africa where people they are illiterate but i came from the good part so please people help me. i will really appreciate it

2006-09-23 14:35:35 · 7 answers · asked by ojkingtamba 2 in Friends

I have a question.....I am 22 and my botfriend is 36. He is having some issues being older. We have excellent commuinication and we have a very healthy relationship. Out personal intimacy is great and so is our sexual intimacy. I am not like most 21 year olds. I have worked full time sicne 18 and have a very succesful career in insuarance. We net at a business course. He has never been married and had no childern. He has an issue making that next step into us being partners. His family loves me and tells him age doesnt matter. They said I am way beyond my years and I am. He is very young at heart as well. We both dont go out and focus on our careers. Basically nothing is chagning...we are dating...boyfriend gorlfirend so to speak....he needs to get over this age issue and feel more ok with making that next step. Please help!

2006-09-23 14:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by Stephanie C 1 in Singles & Dating

kk i saw this question asked on a tv show once, so im getting my own results. would u rather have a girl with a big butt and small boobs, or a girl wit big boobs and no butt? lol i no random question but i just wanted to no

2006-09-23 14:34:49 · 3 answers · asked by Ohkay 5 in Singles & Dating

Well since some of you guys was fussing about my spelling I just hit the wrong keys(sorry), but anyway again I am about 5foot and 11inches tall, have long brown hair, have sunflowered eyes, nice and naughty, and I am intellagent cause I make basicly all A's, I'm not sure what I would be on a scale of 1-10, cause I don't like to call myself pretty or anything.

2006-09-23 14:34:32 · 15 answers · asked by angelfire 2 in Singles & Dating

and how was it done? was it bad?
was it your fault?

2006-09-23 14:33:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the reason i'm asking is because over this past summer i met an arab man or should i say boy. he's 19 and i'm 15. the guy totally took me by suprise by asking me to marry him. first i refused, i couldn't beleive my ears. he told me he loved me etc. i asked him if he beleived in haveing more than one wife, he said no. "theres only one love for me" all while placeing my hand on his chest lol. then i brought up religion, he's muslim i'm christian. he said i could convert, i told him no. then he said he'd convert, i said fine. he asked me again would i marry him. i kinda sorta said yes when i let him slip the ring on my finger. i told him i wasn't legal yet. he said "will you wait for me then". i'm sure you know what means. i said yes, and asked him if he'd wait for me, he said yes.we said that when i was 18 we'd marry. i dont know what the hell i was thinking. since the summer i've thought about what our marraige would be and possibly telling him i cant.he's so serious its scary.

2006-09-23 14:33:22 · 9 answers · asked by ~SWEET* SWEET *T&T~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend has been holding on to this girl for the last 4 years amd she wont move on. My friend was recently asked how can you push someone away that loves you soo much, yet you constantly chase a person that doesn't want you at all? She responds: See thats what I'm talking about, how come this other person I know don't understand that her boyfriend doesn't want to be with her?

So I wondered, for her to be in the position that she is, how can she give advice and not do anything about her own personal life?

2006-09-23 14:33:15 · 4 answers · asked by mslilbit24 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy I've seen around work, I've caught his stare on several occasions when he passes me in the break room. It's just a really serious stare and he doesn't smile or say hello. Sometimes I've had to look away first. It makes me uncomfortable. The other day he did this he was with a friend. After the walked away from a distance I saw the friend turn his head and look at me and he had a smile on his face. But I couldn't tell if he was laughing but I think smiling. The one guy that stares funny at me sometimes I also caught checking me out once when he walked by he totally had his head turned and was staring at my chest. What do you think this guy may have said about me to make his friend turn and smile or laugh? Does he think I like him? Or is it something else. Girls may be helpful if you know someone that's said something. Or guys that have done this what could he maybe have said? And what are the chances it was something bad. This guy does look stuck up!!!

2006-09-23 14:32:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ma boyfriend's homecoming iz comin up. He asked me to go with him but itz no way ma mom will let me go. He goes to an all boy school and I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend...but she does kno dat I talk to him but I told her we only talk as friends....What r sum wayz I can convience her in lettin me go?

2006-09-23 14:30:52 · 17 answers · asked by Miss-Boo-T-Full 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 14:30:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i need friends on yahoo. i tried to answer ?'s but my computer won't let me . i feel like a fish out of water because all my friends talk and have friend online. my friends have about 200 emails every day i am lucky to get one. hit me up in case you can't find my E-mail address it is :pinkpedels@yahoo.com

2006-09-23 14:30:06 · 5 answers · asked by pinkpedels 2 in Friends

2006-09-23 14:29:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what's the average weight for a 5 foot 3 inch eleven year old girl?


i know this is miscategorized but i knew it wouldn't get many answers in women's health!!!!!!!

2006-09-23 14:28:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, there is this guy in my physics class, and he looks at me a lot, when i look up, or when im talking to my friends and look over, hes looking at me like he likes me and hes always around and when we pass each other in the hall, he practically moves over to get closer to me... what does this mean? does he like me?

2006-09-23 14:28:13 · 14 answers · asked by *Chelsie* 3 in Singles & Dating

My "boy friend" would rather watch porn and call 800 numbers instead of talking, dating and having sex with me...Although he is always up to a ********!!! who is the fool and is he cheating?

2006-09-23 14:28:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well i love this guy and want to married him some day but i cant have him coming always to visited me he will get sick of it and his job is important to him and he got no more days off what to do

2006-09-23 14:27:26 · 10 answers · asked by miss annalisa 1 in Singles & Dating

My boy and I have been dating for seven months. I have never had a problem with him cheating but i have had people come up to me and tell me that my b/f was telling everyone else in his seventh period that he wasnt dating me when we were dating. We are in high school noe and im 17and hes 16. We are in high school now and it is the first of the school year and Friday which was the 23 of September we were in the same third block together and he didnt even sit by me like he usually does every day. Then after fourth block my friend came up to me and told me that My b/f's teacher asked him if i was his g/f and he said no. Then after school we meet in the back stairs after school nad i went down there Friday and he was no where to be found. I dont know what to do nay more Someone please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I love my boyfriend more than words can express. I was kicked out of my hous efo rhim. My mom saod its either US your family or your boyfriend. Help PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-23 14:27:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 14:26:17 · 33 answers · asked by ggmsixer 5 in Friends

umm well im goin out wit a guy but i dont know if he is rite for me he makes me laugh and is really good to me but i like this other guy also he also makes me laugh and is extremely good to me and i like him A LOT help make my desicion wat shuld i do""?????????????

2006-09-23 14:25:51 · 8 answers · asked by ~tA yLoR* k 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 14:25:12 · 10 answers · asked by lala 3 in Weddings

Ok, I just talked to someone I haven't talked with in a while and he asks me to check out his commercial. And I reply I love it!!!!!! You are really going to be famous someday!!!! And then he goes, luv ya--he's moving to a city near me in october and im going to have to visit. So is this a date when I do meet him again or just as friends to see each again, cause I only want to be friends with him for now, to get to know him a little better. I have known him for about 4 years but i havent seen or heard from him in about 4. Sorry this is soo long but just asking, Thanks for everyone who answers!! =)

2006-09-23 14:25:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the mom of two children a 6mo boy and 9yo girl who just happen to be biracial(I am African American, hubby is Caucausian from Denmark). When I am out with my kids people of all races continually stare or make ridiculous remarks or even ask if they are actually my kids. Now being in an interracial relationship I am used to some people being ignorant but its really out of control now. With my 9yo it wasnt that bad becuase even though she is biracial she is fairly tan and you can tell she is mixed, but my son is completely ivory colored and blue eyed, and we look nothing alike right now even though he may get darker as he gets older. Some elderly woman even asked if I was his nany when I in midtown Manhattan last week(!)How do I get people to back off without seeming rude or belligerent?

2006-09-23 14:23:50 · 23 answers · asked by S.L. 2 in Family

2006-09-23 14:23:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I was pregnate, and I call may "boyfrien" and he's getting so mad, so he's not calling me any more, and the baby died when I was have three months, he doen't no anything, he never called again, also I don't want to see him again in my life, but what am i suppouse to do??, I payed lots money for doctor bills... Do you think I have to do something or live everething like nothing happen?? (I'm 30 & he's 40)also we to OLD

2006-09-23 14:23:28 · 5 answers · asked by veronica m 2 in Family

tell your wife you want a divorce.i feel that our marriage was over 3 yrs ago. because she got to where she did not want me to touch her in any way whether it be romantically or just show her i cared.i really want it to be over but don't know exactly how to get it started.
serious answers only please

2006-09-23 14:22:43 · 21 answers · asked by wantachevy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 14:22:31 · 20 answers · asked by Shannon T 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 14:21:45 · 17 answers · asked by devildog8900 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a dress that I saw on ebay like 2yrs ago. It was moonlight and is probably discontinued. any ideas where i can find discontinued dresses. thank you

2006-09-23 14:21:33 · 10 answers · asked by sweet angel 1 in Weddings

2006-09-23 14:21:28 · 14 answers · asked by cati m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

sme days i think im hott and i think i look good but others it seems as if i have no self-esteem !

is this strange ?

2006-09-23 14:20:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating