My boy and I have been dating for seven months. I have never had a problem with him cheating but i have had people come up to me and tell me that my b/f was telling everyone else in his seventh period that he wasnt dating me when we were dating. We are in high school noe and im 17and hes 16. We are in high school now and it is the first of the school year and Friday which was the 23 of September we were in the same third block together and he didnt even sit by me like he usually does every day. Then after fourth block my friend came up to me and told me that My b/f's teacher asked him if i was his g/f and he said no. Then after school we meet in the back stairs after school nad i went down there Friday and he was no where to be found. I dont know what to do nay more Someone please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I love my boyfriend more than words can express. I was kicked out of my hous efo rhim. My mom saod its either US your family or your boyfriend. Help PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-23 14:27:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When it comes down to your family or him. Family is the most important thing in the world. Sometimes what seems like love, really isn't. Most people never realize this until they find "the one". And he clearly isn't the one. Dump him. You are too young to make your whole life about 1 guy. You have your whole life ahead of you. High school should be the time of your life. Family is all there.
2006-09-23 14:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all NEVER put anyone or anything before your family....Boys are like buses one comes around every 15 minutes. But your family you only get one chance at life with take it from someone that lost every family member (almost) due to death, not that you'll listen 2 me but u will find this out the hard way and that sucks!!!!Back 2 the b/f be straight with him and bite the bullet, as much as it may hurt its best to find out the truth asap. You don't want 2 b the fool!
2006-09-23 21:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by that girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is giving you the shaft and it must really hurt.What you must do is tell everyone your broke up hold your head high and dont cry about it to anyone but your self or it will get back to him and make it worse.Go talk to yourmom I know you hate to but unless she is a bad mom or something she will probly let you come home.Stay in school it will all work out for you in time but he just sounds like a real turkey and you dont need that.
2006-09-23 21:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, not matter how much you love this guy...your family will always be there, no matter what, so that choice should have been an easy one. No guy is worth loosing so much over. Second, ask him, point blank, what is going on. It might be time for you two to split. If it's really meant to be, then you will have it again.
2006-09-23 21:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by GRR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...you kick HIS *** to the curb! He doesn't deserve you! Go back home...I know you probably don't want to but he's obviously NOT GOOD FOR YOU! Plus he's 16...what do you expect! You think you love him but ask yourself...does he really love you?! If a person loved you they wouldn't deny you in front of other people, they wouldn't stand you up and they certainly wouldn't cheat on you (that the ULTIMATE NO-NO!). DUMP him, go back home, study hard and graduate! It's not what you want but it's what you need!
2006-09-23 21:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Miss K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK for him to cheat on you????? What kind of relationship is that? hey, you don't care if he cheats, so whats the problem?He's telling people he not with you, hey, guess what, he isn't!!!!!
He's out getting poontang from whom ever and it's OK with you, he might at well be alone. Oh by the way, he is.. Open your eyes, you have absolutely nothing with this guy. NOTHING!!!!
2006-09-23 21:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM GO. RUN EVEN. He doesn't care about you. If he cared he wouldn't deny you - or even ACT like it to anyone- ask your family for help in healing but let him go before he destroys everything around you. He's bad news.
2006-09-24 01:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by skevans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sprung. and stupid. choose your boyfriend over your family? thats real ****** up. specially cus ur in high school. and look where ur at now? gj. thats a real "dee dee dee" move. eh...
2006-09-23 21:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Luckiest Guy Alive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some serious soul searching!!!!!
2006-09-23 21:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hsve to move on
2006-09-23 21:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by CROSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋