2006-09-23 14:22:31 · 20 answers · asked by Shannon T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
here is my perspective. My parents fought like cats and dogs when I was a kid. I told myself I would NEVER live like that! Now, I am in my 50s and my parents have been married for over 60 years. They love one another in the very deepest since of the word. It takes time, and no two people can live together without conflict
2006-09-23 14:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you fight and what you are fighting about,My husband and I bicker constantly, What i mean is If he is ticking me off I tell him and vice versa. Now this may seem weird to some people but it works for us.See we clear the air then feel better.My husband always says he would rather i bitched at him for an hour and felt better than be an asshole for a week and not know why. So are you just clearing the air or are you criticizing and being meen just to be meen. Think about it if your just clearing the air and things are getting resolved without too many hurt feelings than yes i would say it's healthy if not mabey you and your partner should seek counseling
2006-09-23 14:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_brat78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on how you fight. Is it bickering or knock out drag down fights? Some people communicate this way. I know my sister-in law and her husband do anyway. They've been together for 11-12 years now. I think they love each other very much. They just don't know how to talk to each other about anything, the yell about everything instead. But when they are done it's done until the next argument. Nobody is licking their wounds after wards. I think as long as nobody comes away from it with hurt feelings (or bruises) It's fine.
2006-09-23 17:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a thin line between love & hate. Meaning you can't have one without the other. There may be a battle for control. Find out why? If there isn't much intimacy in the relationship this can result in fights about anything but what is actually the problem.
2006-09-23 17:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some couples relieve their stress when they are fighting, but my wife and I argue all the time. I just take off and ride or go do small jobs, or to an a_ult th-ater. That relieves my stree.
To answer your question, I do not know if it is healthy. Different strokes for different folks. I just hope they are tearing up their house, or hitting each other.
2006-09-23 15:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you're arguing over. If it's just small things, then there are some people who "belong together" and just have little fights alot.
Stormy couples tend to have the worst times, but also have the best times. If that fits then I don't consider it too much of a problem.
Unless any of you feel it is damaging yourselves.
2006-09-23 14:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is made in heaven, but so are thunder and lightning. It depends on how you handle your differences, whether you fight fair, and how you make up afterward. Healthy differences of opinion, if resolved maturely, are not fatal to a relationship. Don't go to bed mad.
2006-09-23 14:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by sierra_blanca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you fight about all the time. Some couples do have their lil fights. Every couple isn't perfect. Every time my husband and i have a disagreement we always make up.
2006-09-23 14:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um no. I grew up in a household like that and look at me now...sitting on the computer on a saturday night...alone answering your questions...very unhealthy!
Seriously, the constant fighting isn't healthy especially if it escalates into physical violence...
2006-09-23 15:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by prrose99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a thing all it causes is stress you live one life here on earth be happy if you cant get along go your separate ways it took me till i was 31 to find the perfect mate before him i couldn't stand a man more then 2 yrs I've been with my hubby 15 yrs and we never ever fight its true love
2006-09-23 14:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by harley w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋