We've been married for close to 19 yrs with 2 kids together. Been tolerating his verbal and emotional abuse. Found out his recent affairs for the past couple of years. Even during our reconciliation period for the past 4 months, I found condoms in his toiletry bag when he came back from his overseas assignment. Enough is enough. I cant tolerate the way he treats this marriage. Obviously, he prefers to have his cake and eat it too. I believe in monogomous marriage though.
However, I want us to part amicably (though it pains me to have to come to this stage) and not be bitter over our divorce. Till date, he refuses to accept that our marriage is over and threatens to give me hell if I proceed with the divorce.
So, I need sincere advice or suggestions on how to persuade him to agree on an amicable divorce so that we can move on with the way we want our lives to be.
2006-09-23
00:43:53
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DiL
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Marriage & Divorce