Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

I insisted him to tell if he had any relationship and promised him that i wont fight with him if he had any. He told me he had more than 1 girl friends and he had sex with them many times.I really love him and want to trust him but im always scared what if do that again. Im beautiful he says that he loves me and always admire my looks but i don't trust him. What can i do to make him honest to me always?

2006-09-23 03:25:56 · 28 answers · asked by RK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 03:25:32 · 6 answers · asked by jennifer f 1 in Friends

2006-09-23 03:25:05 · 22 answers · asked by sweet girl 4 in Friends

The other day I told my 2nd mom that I love her, and she gave me a big hug and said "aww honey" yet she didn't say it back. I've had depession issues that she has helped me through, yet she thinks I'm still depessed-- but I'm not because of her! Could the reason be she didn't say it back because she dosen't think I love myself??

2006-09-23 03:25:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-23 03:24:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i m feelin very insecure as i fear him being attracted by other younger girls. he is very fond of lion dance and computer games. i m at a lost as to how to keep him by my side,how to attract his attention.pls help.

2006-09-23 03:23:00 · 16 answers · asked by PinkDolphin 1 in Singles & Dating

Right now I live in northern PA, and the girl situation sucks..not alot to choose from because I'm in the sticks..now, what I needs to knows is--are there lots of hot females in Florida? I heard there is, but I would like an opinion from someone that lives there.

2006-09-23 03:22:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Around a guy? My friend mariah said to maintain myself at all times tweeze eye brows and stuff, remeber to put a little makeup, and dress like i did not just wake up. She also said to dress little sexy not trashy or shanky but at the same time classie?with one of my nice coach bags and cute jewlery so i am really confused?I am 18 yrs old and like this italian guy in my phschology class who is older and perfectly well maintained and confident looking. She also told me to try an act a little spoiled but thats not me and when he heard me say something spoiled he rolled his eyes.

2006-09-23 03:22:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she actually don't likes her only she is jealousing me . because her x-bf had prposed to me . the day she knew that i want my x-bf back she proposed him.ans wat u actually feel not wat u want to feel.

2006-09-23 03:20:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ex major of usarmy of engineering corps sometime 1944 asigned in the south pacific region (philippines)

2006-09-23 03:20:41 · 2 answers · asked by richie r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my step mum is trying to find her father. she has not seen him for many years for private reasons. she has asked me if i can help her to find him but we havent had any luck so far. he still lives i the uk but that is all we know.

2006-09-23 03:19:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am very arrogent about things

2006-09-23 03:18:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i havent taken my bath for dayz i m stinkin i dunno what to do pl z help

2006-09-23 03:18:11 · 15 answers · asked by george grohan mendal 3 in Family

im worn out...i want this guy back but all my hard work isnt working...he wants me to prove to him that i trust him and he can trust me. its been a month of off and on dating added to our other 5 months of happiness. so, im tryna think of ways that we can get back together, things that i can do. does anyone have any ideas of what i can do to prove my loyalty (although i messed up) and show that i trust him without crowding him and being too clingy?? please help....

2006-09-23 03:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by porkydd 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i broke up with my bf a couple of weeks ago because he didnt love me anymore. i still love him and i told him how i feel but he still doesnt love me. hes my first true love and im tryin to deal with the pain that he doesnt care for me anymore. he was a great bf and he respected me and the fact that im waiting til marriage to have sex, and he didnt go out with me just because im pretty. for a while i held on to the fact that we might get back together and that he still has some feelings for me, and ive been hoping for somethin that will never happen and hurting myself. i dont know how to deal with the fact that my first love doesnt love me and that we'll never share the good times we had ever again. ive been depressed ever since we broke up and i cant stop thinking about him. my friends have really helped me through this and my mom 2, but it still hurts and i feel a void in my heart. i really need some adivce on how to deal with this. i dont want to be sad anymore.

2006-09-23 03:16:13 · 19 answers · asked by sarah_gotdance 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 03:14:48 · 28 answers · asked by friend4u 1 in Family

my gf blew me off and said she was not goin to the fb game but she went and was hangin out with her ex in the park alone every one said she said she was single but we are like perfect what should i do

2006-09-23 03:14:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and I havent had a formal break up yet. 4 days ago, we had an argument and he was the one who said, we'll give it sometime until we finally talk again, i agreed by saying "ok, let's give each other some time then". on the first day, i went online, i was thinking of trying to make it up, to soften him up a bit but what he said was " i thought you said we will give each other some time off, remember?" i just didnt respond and he logged out. today, just 15 mins ago, i saw him online and said hi, we never discussed anything about what happened, i asked him how he was and said everything's fine. i was silent, i dont know what else to say until he finally said he is going out and will do some stuff. i just said ok and bye. and he logged out. i was terribly hurt, i felt that he avoided me, what should i do next time? i dont wanna be treated this way but i cant say it, im scared that it will lead to another argument. should i just keep my silence and accept that it is over between us?

2006-09-23 03:14:01 · 7 answers · asked by intense35 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I have been on-and-off for three years (never as a couple, but on a "I like you more than friend basis). Now, we got together about 2 months ago. I love her more than anybody in the world, and I know she likes me a lot, but I know she doesn't "love" me. Anyhow, I'm just wondering... she doesn't feel like she loves me after 2 months, is it possible that she's going to change that sometime in the future?

She's the kind of girl who wants to take things slowly, she doesn't want to get hurt and is very unwilling to talk about her feelings. Though this makes things difficult (I'm the complete opposite!), I still love her so much and it hurts me to think that she'll never feel the same. It's only been 2 months, but, should she be feeling "love" now?

I'm thinking if she doesn't feel it now, she never will. And that's not me being pessimistic, it's just... we've been friends for 3 years before, so, it's a long time for her to only "like" me, you know?

2006-09-23 03:13:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this boy i really like, i never stop thinking about him...but he just asked out another gurl...she said yes and then he dumped her....at the dance last night he kept coming over and talking to me. I really like him what should i do. And if i did ask him out what would i do if he said and how should i react??? HELP

2006-09-23 03:13:09 · 6 answers · asked by elise(= 4 in Singles & Dating

I had a lady call me last night from another country, we both like each other but some of the stupid things I said sounded border line psycho, she knows me to be a little different, however, should I send her an email or should I chill and see her response, what do you think?

2006-09-23 03:13:00 · 3 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Singles & Dating

if your grandpa dies and you miss him alot what should you do?

2006-09-23 03:12:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Both my daughters have my maiden name but I'm planning on getting married and would like us all to have the same surname, I haven't seen my ex husband for nearly two years and do not know where he lives so I'd like to know if I can change their names without his consent. I've tried looking on the net for advice but have found nothing useful.

2006-09-23 03:12:29 · 8 answers · asked by Miss England 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like my fiance's friend more than anything. I love him and he's funny and warm and he'd be a great dad and husband and I love his family and friends and he loves mine. If I married him, I have no doubt that I'd have a good life, secure and happy. BUT I feel no sexual attraction for him anymore, no passion, no throw down good times that I ache for. I feel like he's a boy still and I've grown into a woman without him (we've been together for since I was 19 and I'm 27 now). Is the sex something you just lose in a marriage? Should I settle for the 99 out of 100 good things and accept that as good enough, or is it possible to have it all.. love and sex and passion and companionship? I feel like I want to run away and start a whole new exciting life somewhere else.....

2006-09-23 03:11:37 · 19 answers · asked by Free Spirit 3 in Weddings

she has a bad attitude in general, her school work has gone downhill and she wont listen to anything i say. any ideas?

2006-09-23 03:08:35 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex and I started talkin again. He has kept our picture up since we broke up (I've seen it) and even got a tattoo I gave him after we broke up. I went over to his house to discuss that we should start dating, he said I am his first choice, but we need to start at zero, be friends. He wants to see if I can be patient (I don't have much) The picture was not there nemore. His mom and I still talk, talked to her the next day n she said it was there...he put it back up! I am being friends with him but If I was his first choice, wouldn't he make extra effort to hang out and be friends? Found out that he's askin this other girl on a date, dinner and movie. I don't care cuz I'm a friend,I guess I don't understand about this and the pic and he said that I was his 1st choice, but he doesn't make an extra effort to start over and be friends and hang out...ask me on a date and see where it goes. Am i wrong? Does he want to work things out or am I wanting things to go too fast? He is dating...

2006-09-23 03:07:10 · 13 answers · asked by ConfusedK 3 in Singles & Dating

it rained all last nite, and her parents say its STILL raining, but its not. will we get wet? i mean is it dry? SOMEONE TELL ME SOMETHING!!!

2006-09-23 03:07:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He seems very whiny to me. If he doesn't get what he wants, he starts to whine or cry loudly. We have a hard time getting him to do what we want him to do. Are these unreasonable expectations?

2006-09-23 03:06:24 · 11 answers · asked by Neal H 1 in Family

My fiancee and I are having huge problems and have been split for a couple of months, but we still live in the same house. It all started when he proposed in December and I was so happy to accept. As long as we were engaged, I was fine, but my mom and his mom and everyone kept asking when and where we were gonna get married and my mom wanted to start planning everything and I just freaked and started reconsidering. He quit his job as a new accts manager at a bank last July to persue his creative inclinations but then did nothing for the whole year, just spent all his savings, RRSP's, racked up credit card debt, borrowed $2000.00 from me (and I'm a university student who works part-time), hasn't paid it back. Is now looking for work (after huge arguments with me) but finding poor paying jobs. I've been really annoyed with that situation and it's bled into everything, I don't have fun with him anymore, we just argue. Our sex life hasn't been good for mths and I feel more like his friend

2006-09-23 03:05:22 · 37 answers · asked by Free Spirit 3 in Weddings

Before Axe and Tag What inexepensive and sexy cologne..............did you wear .Im insterested in things that have gone out of style that are not trendy right now . By being out of style or not super trendy i want to zig when others zag Or if your female what did you find that was cheap yet sexy smelling on a man . Im using jovan sex appeal .How about you guys/girls?

2006-09-23 03:03:33 · 14 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating