Around a guy? My friend mariah said to maintain myself at all times tweeze eye brows and stuff, remeber to put a little makeup, and dress like i did not just wake up. She also said to dress little sexy not trashy or shanky but at the same time classie?with one of my nice coach bags and cute jewlery so i am really confused?I am 18 yrs old and like this italian guy in my phschology class who is older and perfectly well maintained and confident looking. She also told me to try an act a little spoiled but thats not me and when he heard me say something spoiled he rolled his eyes.
2006-09-23 03:22:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am really shy though only ever had one real bf and this guy is buff to top it off.I am 5ft6 and 104 - 105 pounds maybe and flat chested only a 32A. My face is clear and i am told i am cute but i feel akward especially with my curly hair that tends to never stay in place. And this is what is generally going through my head when i see him.
2006-09-23 03:25:34 · update #1
I am really not shawllow and my main loyaltys are too my family and good friends.
2006-09-23 03:30:22 · update #2
I would not act spoiled, there is only a certain type of guy that goes for the high maintenence type of girl, and that type is rare. You have to be yourself, but willing to share who you are in a confident way. The most attractive people are people who can be themselves and believe in themselves. Looking your best doesnt hurt, but you also have to let him see the real you. Men can sense sincerity in a girl, and he will be attracted to you for your sincerity.
2006-09-23 03:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, it's all about the way a woman carries herself. I mean, there is nothing sexier than a woman with the confidence to know what she wants and how to get it. In other words, as a guy, one of the things I find the most alluring about a woman is when she has the confidence to walk right up to me, begins talking to me as if she has known me forever, the whole time making plenty of eye contact with me, and then begins flirting with me while still maintaining her lady like grace and dignity. I'm sure you know what I mean. If a woman is interested in a guy, she can definitely give off the right signals to let him know, without coming across like a tramp. It's the little things you ladies do, like standing close enough to let us smell your perfume, a flash of a bright smile, a coy laugh, a brief touch of your hand (especially on the upper arm, chest or abs). This kind of behavior can be extremely disarming for any man!
But remember the old saying, "Beauty without grace is like the hook without the bait!"
2006-09-23 10:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Desiderata of Happiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your freind is wrong. Guys like trashy! Show some boobs and butt, I guarantee that you will get hit on without having to say a word!
2006-09-23 10:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself! Talk to the guy, let him know you're there, make him laugh. Wink at him, smile at him. He'll probably love the attention. Good luck!
2006-09-23 10:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself - like you are around your friends - pretend he has been one of your friends for ages so you will be able to act your normall self around him.
If you act like someone you're not and he gets to know and like this person - if wont like you but the person you'e pretending to be!!!
2006-09-23 10:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself..it's good than pretending to be someone else.it's better to be simple and just smile.it's more attention-getter and knee-bending,than becoming a total flirt without the right sanity... simplicity adds beauty..trust me...
2006-09-23 10:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by ~cara~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him as a friend. then when you are comfortable tell him how you feel. if he loves you he will love you for being you.
2006-09-23 10:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are confident or you not you can't act like you are just be yourself and confedence will just come naturaly.
2006-09-23 10:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just by being yourself and do your thang
2006-09-23 10:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lashanda E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋