My girlfriend and I have been on-and-off for three years (never as a couple, but on a "I like you more than friend basis). Now, we got together about 2 months ago. I love her more than anybody in the world, and I know she likes me a lot, but I know she doesn't "love" me. Anyhow, I'm just wondering... she doesn't feel like she loves me after 2 months, is it possible that she's going to change that sometime in the future?
She's the kind of girl who wants to take things slowly, she doesn't want to get hurt and is very unwilling to talk about her feelings. Though this makes things difficult (I'm the complete opposite!), I still love her so much and it hurts me to think that she'll never feel the same. It's only been 2 months, but, should she be feeling "love" now?
I'm thinking if she doesn't feel it now, she never will. And that's not me being pessimistic, it's just... we've been friends for 3 years before, so, it's a long time for her to only "like" me, you know?
2006-09-23 03:13:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe because she doesn't want to get hurt and doesn't discuss her feelings, she does love you but doesn't want you to know.
2006-09-23 03:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by catch22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...
Im a girl, and from my prior knoledge, if she has not fallen inlove with you in 3years, she proberly never will, so you to have been in a relationship for 2 months now, and she still likes you? Take a time out, get a pizza and maybe a dvd, ask her to come over, talk to her, and tell her how you feel, and ask her what she is feeling towards you, ask her to be honest.
I dont know what else to say, but try the advice or modify it to accompany you...
2006-09-23 03:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 13:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said she takes thing slow. So give her time. If u love her so much u shud be willing to give her some time. Let her take things slow and if u guys r for each other she'll understand soon. good luck!
2006-09-23 03:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..i think she might have been really hurt in the past so is afraid to get personal. she's prob affraid of telling u how she feels in case you'll break up or something...
maybe try to talk to her about this... or ask her what hurt her so much...
hope it works out!
2006-09-23 03:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for a definite answer.. that's if she loves you or not. maybe she's tryin to love you like the way you do.. that's why she decides to date you... If she doesn't wanna give u a definite answer.. maybe she's confused herself. give her sometime. but let her know not to toy with your feelings and not to drag this on. 'cos the longer the relationship.. the deeper it hurts.
goodluck.
2006-09-23 03:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by nyr1712 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it take even longer i had know a friend who was friends with a woman and it took the 15 yrs ogf knowing each other and then they feel in love. you can tell her how you feel about her.
2006-09-23 03:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know your situation...
Friend is not equal to lover
it is impossible to use time to calculate the level of love.....
i recommended you to break up as soon as possible...otherwise you will be gotten more and more pain...
2006-09-23 03:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by blizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it bad baby. It's one-sided... If she can't talk then how are you both supposed to survive the relationship????
2006-09-23 03:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok maibe she need more time it takes more time then 2 months for love
2006-09-23 03:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋