i m feelin very insecure as i fear him being attracted by other younger girls. he is very fond of lion dance and computer games. i m at a lost as to how to keep him by my side,how to attract his attention.pls help.
2006-09-23 03:23:00 · 16 answers · asked by PinkDolphin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wtf is Lion Dance?
2006-09-23 03:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the spark going, make him dinner, clean his place, but don't be his b!tch tho, make sure that he doesn't get used to it, make it special. Sit him down and ask him if he's been unfaithful to you, if he hasn't then it's all in your hands and it's your problem... insecurity is only part of a guilty mind. Try spending more time with him, or try new things... Jealously is normal and guys will look at other girls, my bf is 11 years older than me and we've been together for almost 2 years, he's still jealous of my guy friends. I just try to make him hang out with my guy friends so he knows that I'm not doing anything wrong. Try to trust the guy if he break it, find the next hottest guy... theres always more fish in the sea.
2006-09-23 03:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pretty childish, to begin with. A guy who's still into computer games isn't man enough to make you feel secure. You'd need to be the emotionally and mentally stable partner in this relationship if you want to keep it going.
A woman who lacks self confidence will always fear losing her man to someone else even if age is not a hindering factor. She may start worrying that he'll like someone prettier or slimmer or richer than her. You really need to boost your self confidence and self worth before you can allow a guy to love you. Work on that first.
2006-09-23 03:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop feeling insecure. That is so unnattractive and nothing will make a man run faster. Age is not your real worry. I am 21 yrs. older than my husband of 2 yrs. What's your REAL fear? geez. If you're insecure about age, and he's busy with computer games...sounds like both of you are too immature to be in a real relationship. No one needs to be insecure in a real relationship, because if it's going to last, it's going to last, regardless of age or any other factor if both parties are committed to each other and committed to facing all the crap life has to bring them, TOGETHER.
2006-09-23 04:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Educating yourself would be a good start. If you can't speak properly and carry on a conversation, then what good are you.
I'm 4 years older than my man and I've never been concerned about him and younger women. I trust him and he trusts me and that's the most important thing in a relationship.
You can't keep him by doing anything.
2006-09-23 03:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So? I'm 5 yrs older than my man and I'm totally secure. Be yourself, share in his interests. If you have to work at keeping him interested in you, then you're wasting your time.
2006-09-23 03:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This little of an age difference really isnt relevant, or shouldnt be. You are making a bigger deal of it than he is. Stop worrying about what could happen and just be happy with him. Your wasting precious time.
2006-09-23 03:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you f'ing serious? Don't post here anymore. That's not even an issue to an adult.
2006-09-23 03:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by roshambo76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep him on a short leash. That'll drive him away
2006-09-23 03:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you and is a real man you shouldn't have to try too hard just keep on loving him.
2006-09-23 03:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you and wants to be with you he will be there with you all the time. yes there will be fear but it seems to me that you are TOO OVERWHELMED by it. seriously speaking if he wants to leave you no matter what you do and what you sacrfice its still the same. he will still leave you.
2006-09-23 20:15:51 · answer #11 · answered by rachelkelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋