Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

I am 16 years old and have liked my friend (male) a lot for 10 months. He broke his arm in may and for some reason i cried but because of his injury he wasn't in school for a while and because it was revision time he didn't come in much anyway so i did my revision at home and just went in for the exams. Then i left school and didnt see him for a long time and every night i was hoping that he went to college so i will see him again (i was very shy and didnt have any contact details anyway) and i prayed to god he will be there and i cried nearly every night just hanging out of window for about 12 weeks. I saw him getting on bus to college and i was happy and he gave me his email address at lunch time cos i was chasin it up thru the holidays and last week my cousin told him i like him and i think he h8s me wile i was on fone so he came up to me and told me he doesnt hate me and asked me to walk him to the top cos he had to go but me being me i was too shy and didnt. Wot do i do now?

2006-09-23 02:15:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

look at porno. I told him it bugs me, just makes me feel like he is cheating or something, the only naked girl he should be looking at is me. Anyway, I've got really really upset in the past about it, and he promised he would stop. Well... he did it again, I freaked, and he swore he would stop. This morning I went on his computer, and guess what I found?.... He is lucky he isnt home right now.

I know its normal for guys to look at porn. But it bugs me. I've even offered to get some porno and watch it WITH him.

Anyway, what I am wondering, is how should I act when he gets home? Girls, what would you do.?
I just feel like telling him he seems to be happy with his porno, so dont ever touch me again!

Please dont say I'm a lonnie toon, I know there are other girls who feel this way about porn too. HELP!

2006-09-23 02:13:00 · 34 answers · asked by thankgodformaryjane 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

But now I guess it comes to the wire...or at least I feel it has. I dont want to give up--someone told me not to ever give up on love.....and thats where i am.....i dont want to give up on love....i write these words with tears streaming down my face. My heart is heavy. The woman I have loved for over 2 years now......sometimes closely and sometimes from afar, the woman who told me 2 weeks ago she would be done with her ex---isnt done with her. In fact I am not sure what she was doing to ME last nite. Flirty conversation and actions. And yet phone calls to the ex who was on her way to see her. When I confronted her about the time she was going to reflect on this "poor" relationship she told me she thought about it---I said "nothings changed" she said "no". Then she said "maybe its meant to be". I said "Oh ok, yeah" and I walked to my car and drove off leaving her with her jaw hanging. I feel like crap because I feel lied to and betrayed.

2006-09-23 02:11:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what I can do about my phobia with regards to romance and dating. Whenever I find myself being flirted with or sharing even a hint of mutual attraction, I break into a cold sweat and head for the nearest exit. I may also have some social anxiety as well, since I have very few friends that I really keep in contact with. I was rejected a lot in school and I'm still somewhat convinced that I have nothing to offer a potential soulmate. People say I'm attractive, but I'm afraid of being hurt like I was in school. What steps do you think I should take to solve this problem?

2006-09-23 02:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by roninscribe80 4 in Singles & Dating

crisan erika.where can i find u?u can mail me so i can give u an answer.about adrian i need hes date of birth at least and in a week i will give u more informations.

2006-09-23 02:11:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I had a school dance yesterday and i bought this boy with me as a date. I was going to the this random other guy who was going to dance with me and my date pull me back, whyy?! we're not going out or anything.

2006-09-23 02:11:06 · 11 answers · asked by Dyphya 2 in Friends

I am 25 .He is 33. We've been married since 6 years. We have 1 daughter. I'll just give details I think the'll help in answering my question. First 3 years in our marriage I was totally stupid in sex, he suffered much of that. Later I changed. I love having sex with him. But I'm very romantic, and i always want to have sex like in romantic films in which each touch and whisper means a lot. In the contrary he likes hot sex. He likes watching sex films and likes to talk about sex and sex workers. I try to do my best, but still ..well...I don't know?All what I need to know is how can I test him that he satisfied with what I'm giving him?and what does he want more???????Note that I trust him. I'm almost sure that he is not having sex with anyone else. THank you.

2006-09-23 02:10:31 · 12 answers · asked by lily-lily 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have this guy friend in school... he is close to me... i like him.... and there r sort of signs that makes me feel that he also likes me.... when i turn my head to him... without any reason he just smiles at me.... i asked him y... he said... nothing by continue to smile... and there r also times that i saw him looking at me...

then one time.. we were groupm8s... then he suddenly told me that i entertain him.... we were doing nothing that tym....

so does this means that he likes me too?

2006-09-23 02:08:47 · 9 answers · asked by therese e 1 in Singles & Dating

And why does underwear matter?

2006-09-23 02:08:45 · 28 answers · asked by catch22 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend Jaylen is cheating on me we went to go skating and as soon as I got there hes touching another girls butt and he makes another move by kissing her all on her neck and I catch him and starts to cry and saying how could you?,and I don't know what to do,so what should I do!

2006-09-23 02:08:30 · 19 answers · asked by constance c 1 in Singles & Dating

He is so hot! My friend told him I liked him. His dad is friends with mine. I don't know if he likes me. Then I found out that one one of his best friends likes me. If he asks me out I have to say no cause I don't want to ruin our friendship. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-23 02:06:49 · 8 answers · asked by duck12194 1 in Friends

2006-09-23 02:06:37 · 18 answers · asked by bigberry 1 in Singles & Dating

he got into a real bad mood and wouldn't talk to me.I ask him what was wrong he said that when he was working he don't talk and he had a lot of things on his mind.so I told him that I was leaving and I left now he want call are talk to me what is up with him.

2006-09-23 02:06:27 · 8 answers · asked by ladybug 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known this girl for for almost two years now. And the first moment we talked, I completely fell for her, but it took me a couple miserably failed relationships to fully understand just how much I really do love her.
She's in college now, but we talk all the time. And it's not a huge distance either, only an hour and a half. And I'm starting to think she likes me too.
I want to tell this girl how I feel. But I'm wondering: because of the bad relationships I had in the last two years, have I completely blown my chances of starting anything?

2006-09-23 02:06:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm male and have a good female friend. Who I want to shag. Is this a good idea as past experience tells me a good way to knacker a male/female friendship is to shag 'em. She knows I want to 'do the local thing' and laughs it off, sometimes we sleep in same bed and its getting more difficult not to fully try it on, (I half try it on regularly).

2006-09-23 02:06:04 · 22 answers · asked by ukmagilla1 1 in Friends

single do because they are single but why married couples when they have partner for this purpose

2006-09-23 02:05:41 · 21 answers · asked by Raja Asim 2 in Singles & Dating

after reading all the responses to my "should i dump my fat gf" question..i mean, so what if she's now a fat pig that repulses me every time i look at her, it's what's on the inside that counts, right? i mean, so what if she has zero sex appeal, that's not important either, right?

Morons!

2006-09-23 02:04:34 · 14 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2 in Singles & Dating

leave your email id plz so that i can share all my secrets with you but girls only

2006-09-23 02:04:19 · 6 answers · asked by Riya 4 in Friends

2006-09-23 02:03:34 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ ashtray ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

..stares at me when she walks by me, tries to get close to me, and when she's showing me how to do something, she'll keep bumping her arm into mine. What does this mean? AND I'M NOT USING MY IMAGINATION..IT HAPPENED RECENTLY!

2006-09-23 02:02:18 · 21 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Friends

i need someone to help me my ex beat me up the oither night outside magma and i want him to pay all my friends are now banned from bedroom where he works and want him to hurt as much as i do

2006-09-23 02:01:11 · 8 answers · asked by Jazziebee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

then she went for a couch potatoe, and now she is with this ugly, possessive pr**k who won't even let her go to the john alone. I have tried speaking with her, ya know.........you are smart, good looking, you don't need him ect. But to no avail. She started lieing to all of her friends because of this man, none of her friends like him. I have tried to be supportive, but I can't stand liars, so it's hard. And, yes, I have caught her in lies. I am not trying to be controlling, and I don't think I am jealous. I want her to be happy, just not with an abusive man. And he is abusive. I'm not sure what to do now. Please help. Thank you

2006-09-23 02:01:10 · 5 answers · asked by aawatson3 2 in Friends

2006-09-23 02:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by ton_rimas 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl i like (read 2nd previous question), u'll get 10 pts.
well now she has spoken kinda directly to me, but i was playing football and i pretended that i didn't rlly make a big deal, the conversation went:

her: i hate u (not in a meaningful way, in more of a childish-i don't know what to say-because i think u like me-kinda way)

me: thank you (as a quick, not -really caring response, i didn't rleally even look at her either)

during the football game, (it was just a school pickup game) i noticed out of my periferal vison she was talking to friends and looking at me running and scoring td's. she was also doing like cartwheels (which, i've never seen her do them b-4....so.........what now, remember rd my 2nd previous question for more details for 10 pts

2006-09-23 02:00:16 · 5 answers · asked by Pretty Boy 3 in Singles & Dating

Am I moving too fast. Though each of them are equally gifted (shapes;curves etc). Shall I dump couple of them. Or keep on like this. Will I feel a burnout or a need of a break. Am I lucky or it is normal????????? Suggest or Advice!

2006-09-23 01:59:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 01:58:44 · 3 answers · asked by preppy 1 in Singles & Dating

In our place,I am 1 of the most popular girls or should i say hot chick..but aside of those fame that I've got,there is still..something missing,I mean I want to have more understanding,caring and a very helful friend..R u 1 of them??

2006-09-23 01:58:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-23 01:57:18 · 6 answers · asked by devonlad06 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend (shes a girl I'm a guy, we are both 15, I like her more and think she may too) was sick for about two weeks, and she is good in school so she is fine with most, but we do high level maths so two weeks of that is alot. She called me today in school (she was still home sick) and asked if I could text her the maths, but I told her how far ahead we had gone, so she asked me to come over to her place on saturday to show her. First off, is this a sign of anything? (not really reading too much into it, I just assume she doesnt want to fall behind) And what things can I do that might show her a bit more that I like her? I dont want to tell her outright, because if she doesnt feel the same then it might make the friendship "weird".

Thanks.

IMPORTANT BIT

She just cancelled on me. Said she wouldn't be around. Does this mean something??? I texted back but she hasn't answered me. Should I call her?

2006-09-23 01:56:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Doesn't the whole thing sound a little sick when you think about it?

2006-09-23 01:56:03 · 16 answers · asked by roninscribe80 4 in Singles & Dating