I am 25 .He is 33. We've been married since 6 years. We have 1 daughter. I'll just give details I think the'll help in answering my question. First 3 years in our marriage I was totally stupid in sex, he suffered much of that. Later I changed. I love having sex with him. But I'm very romantic, and i always want to have sex like in romantic films in which each touch and whisper means a lot. In the contrary he likes hot sex. He likes watching sex films and likes to talk about sex and sex workers. I try to do my best, but still ..well...I don't know?All what I need to know is how can I test him that he satisfied with what I'm giving him?and what does he want more???????Note that I trust him. I'm almost sure that he is not having sex with anyone else. THank you.
2006-09-23 02:10:31 · 12 answers · asked by lily-lily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your age difference is the same as me and my wife.
If you were not knowledgeable at first and you are now then anytime you feel like sex...have it.
To be honest and I think most men will agree with me...sometimes we just wanna have porn movie sex. Women like the romantic sex and that is okay also.
I read one answer that told you to go down on him...every man likes that. Get wild and do different things he might not expect. Then after a major session ask him what he thinks about what just happened.
2006-09-23 02:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are married, you had better be sure he is not having sex with someone else! and what about you? are you being satisfied? i dont understand what you mean about him suffering through your stupidity! i doubt he was suffering at all! sounds like you have a pretty healthy sex life, unless he is obsessed with porn. if you think he might be, go out and find one of those flicks that is more about romance, rather than just the act of copulation.do some role playing! maybe act like strangers and have him pick you up in a bar or something like that. be more aggressive. and make sure you let him know in a nice way what it takes to please you. good luck
2006-09-23 02:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like me at 33.
If you are having sex 2 - 3 times a day then he probably is getting enough. One or more of those should be a BJ.
once before he goes to work, again when he comes home and again before bed. I went through a dry spell and this is what I needed for one year. then I slowed down to two a day morning and bedtime.
be more open to his needs, grab him in the kitchen and pull him to the bedroom. if you watch the porn with him before or during sex you will wear him out.
2006-09-23 02:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You trust him and your almost sure he isn't doing somebody else. I sense you feel somewhat insecure or inadequate by your comment of needing to test him.
Making love is giving to your partner, if you want to know if there is something more you can do to make sex better ask him, don't test him.
Communication is key to a marriage whether you are talking about paying the bills or making love. It sounds like you have a good level of closeness so just ask him.
2006-09-23 02:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People often ask what the best to have really great sex? Communication: Getting physically intimate won't guarantee good sex. Emotional intimacy will really make it worthwhile for you both. Share your desires and fantasies, and be honest about the things that turn you off and on. The more you discuss sex, the better it has to be for the two of you.
2006-09-23 02:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men i know are like that . men are visual creatures and by that i mean they know only what they see with their eyes. I f he like looking at sex films what is the harm in that ,that means he is going to get horny and want you . what is wrong with that? As long as he is still having sex with you then dont worry so much .it is when he stops having sex with you is the time to worry . good luck .
2006-09-23 02:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl have sex wit him tonight but put a twist on it dont talk or anything just go down on him then after ask questions
2006-09-23 02:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
General rule of thumb- men are always either horny or hungry
if you are not giving it to him, fix him a sandwich!
2006-09-23 02:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!!
The best way that you can do is to lick all his body parts including his A**S so that he will feel the best..
Take care..
2006-09-23 02:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since hes your husband i say ask him.because there is never to much that you can do with your own husband if you know he pleases you ask him if you are pleasing him also
2006-09-23 02:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋