My best friend (shes a girl I'm a guy, we are both 15, I like her more and think she may too) was sick for about two weeks, and she is good in school so she is fine with most, but we do high level maths so two weeks of that is alot. She called me today in school (she was still home sick) and asked if I could text her the maths, but I told her how far ahead we had gone, so she asked me to come over to her place on saturday to show her. First off, is this a sign of anything? (not really reading too much into it, I just assume she doesnt want to fall behind) And what things can I do that might show her a bit more that I like her? I dont want to tell her outright, because if she doesnt feel the same then it might make the friendship "weird".
Thanks.
IMPORTANT BIT
She just cancelled on me. Said she wouldn't be around. Does this mean something??? I texted back but she hasn't answered me. Should I call her?
2006-09-23 01:56:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I already sent her 2 texts, would a call make me seem desperate?
2006-09-23 01:58:57 · update #1
NO she just canceled because she got surprised after she read ur question on your yahoo answer's....but if she cancelled on u den hard lucky buddy...she just wanted to know about homework and nothign more
2006-09-23 02:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by 0_0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So first thing if you often go round to her house then no it's not a sign of anything second if you don't then looks like it is. Anyway really I can sum this all up into one question does she fancy you?
and here's my answer
You've spent weeks gazing at her across the classroom and you're reading something into every look she casts your way. But does she fancy you back or are you wasting good lusting time on the wrong girl?
At some point you'll have to take the plunge, or forget all about her… here are come clues to help you decide whether to proclaim your love. Or not.
Cover the basics
First of all, you need to make sure that she's into girls - there's little point 'fessing up if she's not.
If you don't know, then raise the subject as casually as possible to gauge her reaction. But don't be too subtle, or you'll be back at square one - spending your time figuring out exactly what she meant by that answer...
Try and find out if she's seeing anyone, thinking about it or definitely off the market.
Check her body language
Chances are you've already spent a bit of time checking her out. But this time, it's all in the name of research. Obviously.
Blushing, babbling incoherently and avoiding eye contact can all be signs that you make her a bit hot and bothered.
Does she start checking her hair, stop biting her nails or generally attempt to not look pathetic whenever you're around?
Sounds familiar? Well it sounds like you're well in there!
Get her on her own
If you're still not sure, make an excuse to talk to her away from the crowd. She may be more relaxed away from judging eyes and you'll get a better idea of how she feels.
Good luck!
2006-09-23 09:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her back. Wait and see if she calls you. If not, wait until SHE approaches you in school. Tell her you're glad she's feeling better, maybe even have a card for her. Then offer to help her with her math or whatever other homework she has. Ask her if she wants to study some night with you. Then if you don't want to come right out and tell her you like her, that's ok. Test her mood. Does she smile at you? Look into your eyes? When I like someone, I cheese like CRAZY when they're around. I think you'll be able to tell if she feels the same way. If not, as a last resort, you could tell her you like some other girl and see her reaction. That's a little decietful, but you'll know if it bothers her or not. I guarantee it. If she doesn't like you, then stay friends with her anyway. People change, she could fall in love with you some day years from now. I've seen it happen. Good luck!!
2006-09-23 09:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's still sick right? So I seriously doubt right now she's giving you a sign of anything. So just text her the math and if she has trouble, she'll let you know and invite you over when she's feeling up to it. It could be she cancelled because she's not up to visitors or she still feels that she's contagious.
A really nice gesture would be to make her a get well soon card.
Ask any of your friends if they think she likes you as more than a friend. Sometimes other people can really see those kinds of things.
2006-09-23 09:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by tiggergoesbouncebounce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could take her some kind of "Get Well" gift that isn't too corny...maybe her favorite candy bar, or something simple like that.
Her canceling doesn't mean anything...remember, she invited you over, not the other way around.
Just be cool and it will all work out.
2006-09-23 09:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by lovemcss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up, I have been there with a girl before and i text her and told her how i feel about her but she had a bf so she denied me but we are still friends and we do the things we normally do together even though i still tell her i want her.
2006-09-23 09:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is really sick. You both are young, don't read more into it than it is. Do what you said, take the info over to her, even if you have to leave it with her parents at the door. She will appreciate that much more than you know.
2006-09-23 09:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why not take the risk? If you lose her as a friend she was not much of a friend anyway. if you don't ask her if she likes you then you will always wonder about it! Give her a call and find out what's up!
2006-09-23 09:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, relax. ask her if she wants to get toghether tomorrow or sunday afterschool. if you do go yo her house bring her some soup or a get well card or something ***** like that. if she doesn't respond, maybe she's sick . . . or maybe she afraid something will happen. just give it time my friend. but DO NOT, I SAY AGAIN DO NOT CALL HER. it will make you seem desperate and girls don't like that. good luck.
2006-09-23 09:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by jay d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she feels comfortable with you obviously, just go over and be cool, don't make an @$$ out of urself like 90% of ppl would do
u can kinda tell if she likes u 2. but since she cancelled she does like u she is just way to embarassed to have u over, ask er out though
2006-09-23 09:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by Pretty Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋