i never had one? Do you advise me to get one?
And how can i get to know a guy since the school i attened it has less number than girls?
Is having a bf is distraction...maybe when we dun fit right?
2006-09-23 00:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 24! Very nice looking:-) but lack good luck
2006-09-23 00:49:36 · update #1
Having a boyfriend is not important. What is important is that you be true to yourself. It is much better not to have a BF than to be with some of the sad guys that you see your friends with. If he is not as good as you or as smart as you it will only be wasted. Wait until you meet someone special and he thinks you are special. Then and only then will it be right. It still probably won't last forever however it will be worth remembering. Remember that special man is out there for every one of us.
2006-09-23 00:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun - guys are very distracting and complicated, so getting a BF is on you.. but pick a good guy! â¥
2006-09-23 08:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u act weird otherwise u r a nerd? ?
wait until someone ask you out
2006-09-23 07:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy them by the dozen, they're cheaper that way.
2006-09-23 07:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you? How old are you? You don't have a suitor or just picky?
2006-09-23 07:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by eternalvoid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id like more info here like your age but ill try without it . when your very young you usually desire a bf or gf because you feel left out alone or missing the boat so to speak but in truth they are a big distraction from your normal life but they add spice to our lives that helps us grow up faster . most girls that havent had a bf yet think its hard to get one but 9 out of 10 of these girls already have an admirer but havent realized it yet . i contest that you pay very close attention while around any of the opposite sex for next few weeks and see if you catch any showing the signs that they are interested .you may find that they think you dont like them that way and in this case youll have to show them its ok to approach you in that way . if theres fewer boys at your school then look outside the school at places where young people go for fun . dont be scared to approach a boy even if odds are good in your head that he wont like you . better to have tryed than just wonderd about it .make this your mission and look at it like a paper or project your doing for school . research this by writeing down the boys you know and boys you meet that are new and rate them by your thoughts of odds that they might want to be your bf . look on computer for sites that have young people chatting and meeting but be sure they are your age group and not pervert . church school skateing rink nieghborhood area partys ball games dances car washes for school any community functions are great places for you to look for a bf . use your friends to help you find one and dont be affended when they poke fun about this thing because they feel same when they want one as you do but its different when shoes on their feet . have confadence that youll find a bf and look forward to when you do and first of all ask yourself is this what i really want because with attention comes conflict ya know . young love is very compacated thing with ups and downs . the most important thing in finding someone is in order for others to like you . you first must like yourself then this gives you a glow of confadence about you and then if your rejected then you just move to next guy . dont be affraid to test the waters by makeing the first move on a guy and pat yourself on the back when you do even if guy dosent want your attention . just mark him off your list and move to next one . i remember in school that i was very shy and thought no girls liked me lol i was wrong back then and wish id known better but you have the chance to redeem me here . go forth with confadence that theres a guy who wants to be your bf because there is i promise you just flush him out then help him come out of his shell . good luck and remember love is very rocky ride and at first never take it too seriously .i see now that your age is 24 well then this is different and your good looking . ok its simple your putting out a negative signal here these guys think your not wanting them you need to reinvent yourself change clothes and attitude and where your hanging out and be more attracting here . all i wrote still counts here but your age tells me that you deffinately are putting out wrong signals to these guys or your too busy and they dont get a chance to meet you . wemon are so beautiful to us men and when one acts sexy around men i just melt so be sexy and demand his attention and dont take any lip here lol . set aside some time to get out thare and mingle . dont worry about why or others just go and anywhere is ok for this . while pumping your gas look around lol theres probably a guy looking give him a big smile that says hi thare cutie and if he returns it then wait alittle then stamp your foot and run him down and say hi and just wing it after that say anything that comes to mind even ask him out if he dosent get the hint its ok us men love that lol . again good luck
2006-09-23 08:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u
2006-09-23 07:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Cool !!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember!... the ryt guy for u will come... just wait... :)
2006-09-23 07:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by therese e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋