Me and my friends have just all started highschool but we all seem to be fading in our own different directions. There are 3 of us 2 girls (including myself) and a guy. we've all been cool for about 2-3 yrs. and i care about them both bery much. what i would like to know is, is this type of thing normal, am i holding on to strong, should i just let it take it's course, or do i need to do something about it. i've seeked help from others but it doesn't help much, i'm young and sort of new to this, could you please help me, because i think my friendship could be in serious trouble.
2006-09-23 15:17:41 · 5 answers · asked by shani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm an 8th grade teacher and I see this all the time. My students are buddy buddy in the 8th grade and then they go to high school and everything goes stupid. You need to talk to your friends and explain what you feel. You can't keep friends that don't want to keep you. If they decide to move on it doesn't matter how hard you try to keep them around, they'll move on. Losing this friendship is not the iceberg that sunk the Titanic. Yes, it may seem horrible to you now, but in time you will make new friends and just about when you get settled you will go to college and things will change again. Don't make yourself feel bad because of this. 9 out of 10 says it's not your fault. It's just something that happens.
2006-09-23 15:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Christina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by kuhns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all completely normal. While you may be moving in different directions there will always be a bond of past friendship and memories. It is sad but that is what happens as you grow. The many different classes and schedules will put you around different people. Especially different lunch periods. Don't be afraid to grow and widen your circle of friends out.
2006-09-23 15:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High school changes a lot of people, your just finding out who you really are, and finding out who your real friends are. Middle school is mainly about goofing off and getting away with practically anything. A way yo keep your friendship safe, try finding things your all interested in, and doind things together. Like movies, sports, clubs, whatever ya'll find fun! (except for drugs and drinking, those may seem fun, but they really aren't. they'll just rip your friendship apart, trust me)
2006-09-23 15:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Me & Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call all the time and hang out.. introduce them to ur new friends
2006-09-23 15:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by mzmaya14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋