I'm normally into guys who are taller than me. I really love him but sometimes i wish he were taller. I know this seems foolish but i need your opinion. Should i worry about this? What should i do?
2006-09-23 15:23:16 · 10 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some people will tell you it's foolish but it's not. i had a major issue with that but my boyfriend treated me so well that i married him it doesn't really matter as long as he has qualities that you like and he loves you. i made a small change since the height thing is an issue for me (that i did not address) i wear heels when i got out with the girls and when I'm with him i were heels that a barely noticeable. what if you were a giant and he was dating you? roll with it for now people will stare but if it was a celebrity they wouldn't care so don't worry about people or try not to.
2006-09-23 15:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by sexylousleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you're talking about for my boyfriend is also shorter than me. At first, I too, was a little bothered by it. I always wondered how people would view it, and I have had people make comments about it. And truthfully, it stressed me out a bit. But here's the thing. One day, I went to school and it no longer bothered me. So I say just give it time. Don't let it bother you, because I'm sure he makes up for his height in heart or something :]
2006-09-23 15:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by toasterlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I see a woman proudly standing tall next to a guy who is a little shorter, my first thought is "wow, he must be a really special guy...probably really good in the sack". She sure looks proud, I would be proud to be with him also, if I were her.
Seriously, it makes me realize that there is something really great about him, not the other way, at all. Even if you feel like it is counter-cultural, remember Sophia Loren and Carlo Ponti, Jackie O and Ari, Grace Kelley and Prince Ranier. You are in good and regal company.
2006-09-23 15:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what the public thinks, they aren't the ones dating him. my cousin is taller than her husband and they are just as happy now as they were when they got married. so buy him a step stool!! ha ha!!! seriously though you fell in love with him at his height now and as long as he treats you right and you treat him right then height shouldn't matter to you either. look at tom cruise and what's her name, katie, she is taller them him, but they love each other. don't let the public interfere with your decision.
2006-09-23 15:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, if you love him it shouldnt matter, short guys are in....and incase you havent got the memo ppl love anything thats different,a s long as your happy it shouldnt matter about all that other things...Does he make you feel good even when you cant do that for yourself?, does he laugh at your dumb jokes or vice versus?, do you tell eachother the truth about anything? have you been toghether for so long or so short that it feels like a lifetime together, den nothing else should matta
2006-09-23 15:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's foolish. Stop worrying about it and about what other people think.
2006-09-23 15:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about what other people think if you love this person it wont matter dont let a good person go just cause of one little imporfection. im sure their is something he dosent like about you.
2006-09-23 15:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by nikki fm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be shallow. tom cruise was shorter than nicole.
what if bf dumps you?
2006-09-23 15:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it matter what other people think??
2006-09-23 15:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by CrystalRose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to wear big boots!!!!!!!!
2006-09-23 15:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by sid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋