Do you ever think about what life might be like if you had never settled down with one person?
2006-09-23 15:22:27 · 29 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
of course, we all do. then we realize that the security of settling down is well worth it.
look at it this way...would you rather live a life of worrying constantly about your morning breath, or whether or not you shaved EVERY DAY?
for me personally, i wouldn't be single for a million bucks these days. too many diseases. besides, silence and alone time is okay every now and then, but too much leads to LONELINESS.
Enjoy what you have, and stop looking at the other side. IT is always greener. be thankful for what you have, and stop wondering about what you don't.
2006-09-23 15:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking about that earlier...
whether married couples ever thought about "what if" they married someone else....
but I'm not married, haven't settled down, not even in a relationship right now - I'm only 16 - maybe I'll wonder that later, but hopefully I won't.
2006-09-23 22:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by newyorkrose9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder about if I had settled down with a different someone, or stayed single. I never wished I had a sting of men in my past. (or present, for that matter.)
2006-09-23 22:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Singlemomof10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I don't think I would have gotten as far as I have. Having someone there to help you find answers, stop you when you are about to do something stupid, or just back you up when you think the world is against you makes life easier. My wife and I have been married for 23 years now. I'm very thankful for her.
2006-09-23 22:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ray 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not planning on settling down with anyone right now
2006-09-23 22:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Crashovdr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read some of your previous questions and believe that you are looking for a way out of a troubled relationship. I think that you need to put the welfare and safety of your children first. If your hubby isn't abusive, or an addict, you may want to lok into therapy for the both of you. If he is unwilling, you should look to your family for a temporary home.
2006-09-23 22:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering that right now as i battle with my husband over the fact that nothing should be more important than his kids. He doesn't have them but maybe one night over night and one 3 hours night a week. Plus he thought a cyber relationship for a year was more important than them and me. He told me he did me a favor marrying me he didn't wanna and he did me a favor having kids with me he didn't want them either.
2006-09-23 22:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by SiberianHusky_8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't because I HAVEN'T settled down yet.
2006-09-23 22:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but then I think what would happen had I? And I love my life now.
2006-09-23 22:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that is just a normal feeling everyone goes thru when they have been w/ the same person.
2006-09-23 22:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by easterbaby1975 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋