Ok, so me & this girl were best friends for about 3 years, our friendship over the past year or so has slowly faded away until we maybe talked once or twice a month, but we'd still keep in touch now and then...well about 2 weeks ago she broke up with this guy she was with for about 4 months and he called upon me for advice, but he decided that he just can't take her crap anymore, so we've been talking (as though we've been friends forever) and now he wants me to go "hang out with him"...would I be a horrible person if I did? Her & I dont talk at all since she found out that he called me...
2006-09-23 15:06:24 · 3 answers · asked by ★ LesbianLucy ★ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah i think he is someone that i could chill with...i'm not sayin i'd fall in love with him though
2006-09-23 15:27:49 · update #1
look it's her problem she dumped him. she shouldn't be mad at u. besides ur not even friends really. it ur choice, i would hang out wit him. if it bothers her ask her why and then if she gives u a really good answer then id stop hanging out wit him but u coud still talk 2 him.
* hope that helps*
2006-09-23 15:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't continue talking to him. he is using you to get to her. he is a game player. tell him to find someone else to tell his problems to.tell her that she is your friend. not his, but don't get to involved with her either because you are the one that will get hurt in the end. don't go with her right now because she is on the rebound. if in the future, when she is over him completely, then date her. but not now.
good luck
2006-09-23 22:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by lolo123392000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with ray... but the other question here is do u like him?
2006-09-23 22:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by caitybug10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋