Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

I asked this girl to my school dance and she said yes. 2 of my best friends also really liked her and since im going out with her they no that there chances with her are crushed. they act as if they dont really care but inside they do, and now there just frekin grumpy and getting on my nerves. help?

2006-09-23 15:34:40 · 3 answers · asked by Shello 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife started doing pot and cheating behind my back. She says the cheating has stopped (maybe I believe her?) But refuses to give up the pot... We have been married over 17 years and she only started doing pot in last 4 months same time as her cheating started. She was banging guys she was getting pot from.
She still wants to associate with one guy she was fooling with just as "friends" so she can get pot from him. I somewhat trust that she is not looking to cheat at the moment but I am afraid that this guy will prove to be to much of a temptation.
I am against drug use and she knows it but refuses to quit. She has even started growing it in places over the yard. I have killed some.

I am trying hard to make marriage work as we have a child together and I do still love her.

I have threatened to leave but she calls my bluff because she knows I do not want to.

Is this a hopeless situation? Any ideas on how to get her to stop doing pot?

2006-09-23 15:34:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do some men think they can have a girlfriend and a wife?

but when the wife finds out it's all about----your seeing things,your hearing things, or they put the blame on you, everything he did wrong is my fault.I would just like to try to understand .why? so please just tell me stright up ,no playing around. be stright up about it. ok thank you.

2006-09-23 15:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 15:33:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thers this guy at skool and he wont leave me alone and invades my persoal space and my privacy, we broke up at the begining of the skool year cuz he didnt call me and i didnt see him for 2 months but now that we aren't together he bothers me more and more. all my friends tell him i dont like him and want him to leave me alone but he doesnt and i just got the other guy that used to do the same thing to me but he was easier i just told him to stop buit this guy doesnt listen and he's not helping my social status the only reason i went out with him in the first place was so he'd leave me alone i thought he was like every other guy go with them for a few days call em up tell them its over and they avoided you for like ever but he's different. help!!!!!!

2006-09-23 15:32:44 · 5 answers · asked by hotchikdancer 2 in Singles & Dating

first i heard that it's because when you put all you knuckles together and put your ring fingures together ---striaght up--- and you can't pull them apart and that is how husband and wife are together... they are tight together util death do them part...... then i had asked my parents and told and showed them that... they said that the vain leads to your heart..... what is the real answer... i feel my answer is right and not really my parents... maybe both answers are right.. please help. i'm confused about it.

2006-09-23 15:32:10 · 18 answers · asked by Gothic Girl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-girlfriend and I still talks a bit, but when i call her she rarely or almost never return my calls ( I don't call her all the time, maybe once a week). Today, I saw her at her work and talked to her breifly and asked her when she has free time to give me a call or go hangout. Then she said to me to call her tonight. Well I don't know if I should call her! Because last time she asked me to call her, she didn't pick up her phone, and she never called me back. So I don't know if she's testing me in a way. Any suggestions. (Yes, last time I talked to her, she says she misses me and still want to go hangout. And I still love her)

2006-09-23 15:32:05 · 13 answers · asked by ThePrince 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 15:30:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 15:29:52 · 6 answers · asked by bananapuddingwithcoolwhip 2 in Friends

We're a fairly young couple, with a young child, but have been together for almost 17 years. We were high school sweet hearts who had some time apart in college and then realized we wanted to be together.

2006-09-23 15:29:06 · 7 answers · asked by casey p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this has to do with divorce papers

2006-09-23 15:28:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The movie Back to the Future, Biff went back in time to give himself that Gray's Sports Alamanc. If you could go back in time to where you were younger, what one thing would you tell yourself that might make a difference in how life has turned out for you?

2006-09-23 15:28:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i have lost my family all except my sister and i look back on the days where my sister my father and the rest of my family were racist. I was too! I mean i grew up in a family like that they say racism is learned. Sinse family is gone my view of people is different i no longer look at the black folk as ( *******) sorry if that offends im just stating my changes, I no longer look at chinese as (chinks or gooks), I no longer assosiate myself like that i respect all people of religion, color or anything. Can this be explained in a Pycholigist view? I mean i dont understand why i changed i just feel that i have gave a bad rap to these people and not all are bad some are but hell there are some white folk that are bad as well i mean lifes to short right so why complicate it with hate? Whats your intake on this Why have i changed?

2006-09-23 15:28:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 15:28:10 · 7 answers · asked by no 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think that life is a bowl of cheeries?? sometime I think that
those people whom are born into wealth, really don't have to work hard like many of us non wealthy poeple , but I'd rather just be me
and enjoy life without all that wealth....."NO I'M NOT A HATER""

2006-09-23 15:28:06 · 4 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who I have met twice. The first time I met him I was with one of my friends and he really didn't pay any mind to me but he told me to come talk to him sometime so I did. Since then he calls me 5-6 times a day and tells me he misses me and tells me how much it meant to him for me to come talk to him because he's been lonely for so long. His job takes him out of town a lot so when he calls he says he misses me and wishes he could be here with me. He says he'd do anything for me and wouldn't do anything to hurt me and that I could tell him anything. How do I know he is being sincere and not just telling me this to get him "some"??

2006-09-23 15:27:39 · 10 answers · asked by countrygirl 1 in Friends

My divorce is finalized tomorrow and If I know my ex wife and her parents, they will throw a divorce celebration or party. They have money and for eleven years they would throw parties for stupid crap. Party for the after dance performance for the girls, parties for each tooth they lost, parties for a class I took to get my Commercial Drivers License, hell I think they even threw a party for her little brothers third girl friend after his first two marriages in two years and it was because she was his girl friend. So, should I exspect them to throw a divorce party?

2006-09-23 15:27:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've been bestfriends with this girl for 3 years & last weekend she threw a party with a whole bunch of our friends and didnt invite me!i was rather upset because me & her have been talkin about throwin a bonfire party together & then she has one & doesnt invite me! this was our 1st fight in about a year.she said that "some people at my party didnt want you there". which i KNOW is a lie.my mom thinks that shes jealous of me and is trying to get all of our friends to like HER better than they all like me so i ignored her for a while and then we became friends a few days later just because i hate fighting.THEN just this week at school you can buy flowers for all of your friends for $1.50 each, GUESS WHO DIDNT GET ONE! i was sitting @ lunch & everyone had one BUT me.they were all ordered by her!thats the least she could have done for me especially since she knew i was having some family problems & it wouldve been the perfect "im sorry i didn't invite u 2 my party-please forgive me"but no!

2006-09-23 15:27:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

like for layouts and stuff

2006-09-23 15:27:11 · 6 answers · asked by ilovedamianfrazier 1 in Friends

i live alone but it is rare when i can be alone because i work full time and family comes on saturdays and i visit family on sundays. so when i can actually spend time alone it is very enjoyable, i can read, surf the net, watch tv, (but then the phone always rings!)

2006-09-23 15:26:58 · 2 answers · asked by bananapuddingwithcoolwhip 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 15:26:53 · 11 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, so there r these 2 guys that i like (im gonna call them T and B) . my friend told the one i like the most (T) that i liked him and she asked if he liked me and he just smiled. then today the other one (B) kept looking at me and i think he likes me. i have a feeling that hes (B) gonna ask me out at church tomorow and i would really like to go out with him, but i like T more and i dont see him till monday. if T doesnt ask me out, then i wanna go out with B, but i see B first and if he asks me out, then i cant tell him that he has to wait till i see if T is gonna ask me out. I NEED HELP!!!

2006-09-23 15:26:47 · 21 answers · asked by *~kirsti~* 3 in Singles & Dating

ok say that i have a half sister ( same dad) and on her moms side she has a brother (but parent are not together)is it ok for me to date the brother or would it be wrong ( my friend is doing it and i wanted to know if i should say somthing)

2006-09-23 15:26:43 · 16 answers · asked by bisacky123 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm searching for his question/answer page?

2006-09-23 15:25:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend broke up with her bf and now wants to go out with someone else but then we know for a fact that the guy is going to say no because he doesn't like her. So should i tell her myself before she asks him out and he says no??

2006-09-23 15:25:31 · 27 answers · asked by Berenice 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not "normal" but I would make an awesome partner for a good man. I have seen more than my share of hardship, but have learned so much. I like to have fun, am intelligent and so many other things, but I am terrible at this flirting thing. I want love in my life, but feel I really should give up. I am way to different, open and honest, and have no desire to put my best foot forward as I don't like to wate time. What do you do when you can't play the game?

2006-09-23 15:25:12 · 13 answers · asked by crct2004 6 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy a yr younger than me for a year and half. then i broke up with him because i found something gross he wrote. i love him sooo much, but he likes another girl (perfect looking). i try to deny myself and make myself not like him, but i really cant, hes soooooo perfect.

2006-09-23 15:24:18 · 12 answers · asked by doubleK 2 in Singles & Dating

As I was walking home from a grocery store this morning, a man who was perceptibly unemployed and not so attractive approached me and asked me if I wanted to go out with him. This is not the first time this has happened, so now I am starting to wonder. These men obviously think that I have lower standards. If *I* have lower standards, than that implies that I cannot do any better....? Or am I wrong?

(Do you get my question, or should I rephrase?)

2006-09-23 15:24:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please if your name is memorina useluku or memorina k. apok and your b-date is 8/05/1974 please let me know? just go to myspace and display your name as josephine.....your long lost sis really wants to meet you as soon as possible. its been thirty years.

2006-09-23 15:23:49 · 4 answers · asked by sue 1 in Family

well have you?

2006-09-23 15:23:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships