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i've been bestfriends with this girl for 3 years & last weekend she threw a party with a whole bunch of our friends and didnt invite me!i was rather upset because me & her have been talkin about throwin a bonfire party together & then she has one & doesnt invite me! this was our 1st fight in about a year.she said that "some people at my party didnt want you there". which i KNOW is a lie.my mom thinks that shes jealous of me and is trying to get all of our friends to like HER better than they all like me so i ignored her for a while and then we became friends a few days later just because i hate fighting.THEN just this week at school you can buy flowers for all of your friends for $1.50 each, GUESS WHO DIDNT GET ONE! i was sitting @ lunch & everyone had one BUT me.they were all ordered by her!thats the least she could have done for me especially since she knew i was having some family problems & it wouldve been the perfect "im sorry i didn't invite u 2 my party-please forgive me"but no!

2006-09-23 15:27:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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She's not a good friend. She was never a "TRUE" friend. Blow her off. By repeatedly forgiving her for her inconsideration and disrespect; you are teaching her that it is okay. Hold your friendship of high value and don't give to someone like this. She will backstab you over and over again. Past behavior is usually a good indication of future behavior.

2006-09-23 15:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by AVA 4 · 0 0

She doesn't sound like a very good friend in fact she sounds like a fiend and ur mom is right. I think she's jealous of u which is why she's doing the things she's doing, she's making it very clear too, because why would she talk about havinga party then go ahead an have the party without u she knew u were gonna find out, then she gives out flowers and didn't give u one she knew u were gonna find out and see the flowers.

U should cut ur ties with this person because she means u NO GOOD. I'm sure u can have other friends who would not do this to u. U really don't need her since she doesn't wantto be ur friend. Dump her and move on to other friends who will like u for u and who u can trust.

2006-09-23 16:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0 0

HOLY CRAP...does her name start with a "T"? Because I'm going thru the same thing...we've been friends for 3 yrs and then she had a party (which we'd been talking about) - but didn't invite me (but invited this girl who I hate, who's basically her bff now). And if our school had that "buy flowers for your friends" thing - she'd probably forget to give me one, while she'd be the first I'd think of to give one to. And I've also been having some family problems.

But you know what? Life is short, and I realized that I can't continue to be friends with someone who treats me like crap when I've been nothing but a true friend to them. There are other people in the world, and you can't waste your time on someone who's acting like a b^tch. She's no true friend. You don't need to put up with this bullsh^t anymore either. Move on!

Good luck =]

2006-09-24 03:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by newyorkrose9 3 · 0 0

Sounds like she's not much of a friend. Forget her and find some real friends.

2006-09-23 15:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0 0

Forgive and forget.

2006-09-23 15:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by skp 2 · 0 0

this person ISNT your friend. ditch her!

2006-09-23 15:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by hawaiihg 2 · 0 0

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