I went out with this guy a yr younger than me for a year and half. then i broke up with him because i found something gross he wrote. i love him sooo much, but he likes another girl (perfect looking). i try to deny myself and make myself not like him, but i really cant, hes soooooo perfect.
2006-09-23 15:24:18 · 12 answers · asked by doubleK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love is hard...try not to think about him..there are plenty of other men out there
2006-09-23 15:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could tell him about what you found unless you feel you are prying in his affairs. If it is a personal thing maybe you could bring up the subject somehow without him knowing you had found what he wrote. If you could understand why he wrote this you could deal with it. If he likes another girl there is not much you can do except wait and try to be with him later. Maybe he will drop the other girl at some point. A perfect looking girl is boring just like a perfect looking man is boring to me. I would rather have a guy with a big nose or a bald head. I like something that stands out about a person. This is just my opinion.
2006-09-23 22:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be perfect looking but what about her personality? she may be a bit bitchy in her ways. if you like him that much and since you were the one who broke up with him let him know how you feel. talk to him face to face and he will tell you how he feels. some men are not that shallow and will take a girl who makes them happy over a barbie. it also depends on the relationship you guys had. alot of things could have made him start looking at another girl. talk to him with confidence and see what happens.
2006-09-23 22:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by sexylousleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's soooo perfect, than how could have written something so gross?
And again, if he's so perfect, why wouldn't you just forgive a simple mistake?
I guess we may need more info on what his horrible transgression was.
Other than that, go with the flow and let it go. It's Rule # 1 to easy livin'
The Dude.
2006-09-23 22:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by The Dude... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved him you would not have broken up with him for such a petty reason. You have a lot of growing up to do before you really do love someone, right now you don't have a clue.
2006-09-23 22:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, this boy does not care for you. But you love his alot, so you try talking to boy ask him question like: Why did not care for? etc. I can't blame you if he's perfect looking.
2006-09-23 22:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Pinki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be perfect, this will hurt but..............you may not be perfect to him if he likes another girl, and wrote a gross thing about/to her. think of all the times he was a jerk, and it will help you realize.....
2006-09-23 22:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,u can still like him u just can't have him,sadly i know how hard it is to read this but,it's happened ta me before and u can just like him on the side but u'll find the right person that loves u for u and then u'll forget all about him :-)
2006-09-23 22:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by ~>i cant hate u anymore<~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm still in love with my ex too...
i think about him whenever a love song comes on the radio...
whenever i see him...
whenever i hear someone with his name...
everyday...
every night...
it sucks!
so all i have to give for advice is...
don't try to hang out with him and get him to like you...that only backfires and you'll end up loving him more then ever! i did that and we went back out.........for 2 DAYS!! now i love him more then ever and i don't know wat to do...besides stay away and not get too close! cuz then i will be f*cked! if you just stay away from him and don't get re-attached then you will find yourself drifting away from him and it will be easier to let in other guys..
the only difference is that you broke up with him...but w.e that was your choice.
2006-09-23 23:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, sweetie.......you broke up with that "perfect" guy and now he found a "perfect" girl. Oh, well.....such is life!
2006-09-23 22:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like you,then you shoudn't like him back. Besides,nobody on this earth is perfect.(only Michael Jackson)
2006-09-23 22:27:27 · answer #11 · answered by Manapazza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋