I am not "normal" but I would make an awesome partner for a good man. I have seen more than my share of hardship, but have learned so much. I like to have fun, am intelligent and so many other things, but I am terrible at this flirting thing. I want love in my life, but feel I really should give up. I am way to different, open and honest, and have no desire to put my best foot forward as I don't like to wate time. What do you do when you can't play the game?
2006-09-23 15:25:12 · 13 answers · asked by crct2004 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love sucks.....totally given up on it. Tired of wishing and waiting for "him" to come along. Not even like I'm looking for Mr. Perfect, just Mr.I Love You. Totally sucks! Seems to be in my head like 24/7. Is that my biological clock ticking or what? Wish you luck!! I hope you find someone that you're looking for:)
2006-09-23 15:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by its me! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty normal to me. I feel the same way...and after experiencing life I find that most women at some point in their life get to feeling the same way you do.
I, too, am very open and honest. Some say this is a great trait, and some say that I am too honest and too open. All I know is that I can only be who I am, and that includes not playing games.
And I have felt like giving up too. I find that when I do feel this way I just take a break from the whole dating game. There are other things that I can enjoy and make a priority in my life when I have had my fill of trying to have a love life.
2006-09-23 22:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way you are too honest i don't do that flirting thing and i went threw a lot to don't give up if you have all that love in your heart keep that going I'm 60 and still looking for love so don't give it up keep that going for as long as you live you know i believe you keep that foot on the ground till you know for sure and the way you talk i think you will soon find the love of your life thanks a lot you made my day good luck to you and you have a nice day
2006-09-23 22:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have given up. I got hurt very badly 9 years ago and will be lucky if I can recover in the next 9 years. Thus, I have no skills to build a relationship on since I got so badly ---d up my first attempt. I never had that first successful relationship to build on. It's like an athlete who knows he has great potential if he can just get the right coach and a good season. And, since I am (omg!!!) a nice guy, and actually believe that women, on the whole, deserve to be treated a little better than men, women find me boring. It seems they would prefer to be teated like dirt. Well, fine. I don't need you. I quit.
2006-09-23 22:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by no 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are me 20 years ago. What I do is find a man who is independently minded like yourself. Become a friend. Find a time to be alone with him. Suggest sex. Be flexible. Be good and supportive. If you want to find the perfect man you have to become the perfect woman. The life becomes a romantic adventure and you get better and better at pleasing your men.
2006-09-23 22:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am capable to flirt wit the guys I like but love still sucks for me. I have no luck. Pshh Whatever! Life is great anyway.
2006-09-23 22:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for it and it will find you. You're over-thinking the dating game, usually it just works out on its own but you can't rush it.
2006-09-23 22:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Katie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I cannot figure out what you are asking, perhaps you may want to rewrite the question in a few sentences and make it more understandable.
2006-09-23 22:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
no I haven't given up on love because I have given up on dieting!
For fu*ck sakes, since I got married I gained 10 pounds..and I got 10 extra grey hairs that I did not need. So you think you got problems, lady...? I got 10 pounds that I need to get rid of, off my big fat butt!!!
2006-09-23 22:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I gave up a long time ago, its stricktly lust now a days
2006-09-23 22:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋