My ex-girlfriend and I still talks a bit, but when i call her she rarely or almost never return my calls ( I don't call her all the time, maybe once a week). Today, I saw her at her work and talked to her breifly and asked her when she has free time to give me a call or go hangout. Then she said to me to call her tonight. Well I don't know if I should call her! Because last time she asked me to call her, she didn't pick up her phone, and she never called me back. So I don't know if she's testing me in a way. Any suggestions. (Yes, last time I talked to her, she says she misses me and still want to go hangout. And I still love her)
2006-09-23 15:32:05 · 13 answers · asked by ThePrince 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd call her..and if she doesn't answer. just leave her a message saying "hey. idk what you're doin, but you told me to call..so i jus wanna see what you're up too..um call me back later i guess. talk to you soon"
that'd be like the perfect thing to say.
2006-09-23 15:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call her anymore. Frankly, I think you should cut off all contact. She is just afraid to come out and say that she isn't interested anymore, so instead she thinks it is in your best interest to keep you hanging instead of cutting you off. Really she is just doing what is easiest for her, tagging you along. If someone is really interested in a person, they keep contact!! You have to think about why you broke up to begin with? There was obviously a reason for you guys to end your relationship right? My rule in life regarding relationships has always been once broken up, always broken up. End of story. I think the next time you happen to run into her (or you could call) let her know that this will be the last time you speak to her, wish her a wonderful life and move on from there. And why are you calling her once a week? That's ridiculous. You look like a fool.
2006-09-23 22:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Paula Christine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy,
you can call her, but I totally think that your mind is being played with.
It sounds like she may still be a little immature. Every girl whom that i have gotten there #, which is never hard to do, almost any girl will give you there #, unless hse is not into you in any way.
I just had a girl that i liked and thought she was really hot keep telluing me to call her and i would, but she would rarely answer, never would return my calls, not even once,
The fact that she said well call me tonight, Might have been her way of saying, "well i have to get back to work now"
2006-09-23 22:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not calling her for a few days. Then give her a call, but only one, and don't call her again until she calls you back, or the next time you see her. You don't want to seem like that's all you want to do, is talk to her. Go out with friends, have fun, and keep yourself busy. Let her come to you. If she really misses you, then eventually, she'll come.
2006-09-23 22:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by GRR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to Stop calling, pal. She is giving you a message that she is not into you. Stop making a fool out of yourself......move on.
2006-09-23 22:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give up on her if she oesn't return your call she probley isn't really interested in you.
2006-09-23 22:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Bob1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call her...if she calls you later then you will know...if she don't call you,,,,then you will know...its that simple...go out with someone else in the mean time...she probably is
2006-09-23 22:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kenneth S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not naked or on the phone jacking off.
2006-09-23 22:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by bret f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes call her
2006-09-23 22:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by Manapazza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the why'd you two break up in the first place?
2006-09-23 22:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋