I have a friend who I have met twice. The first time I met him I was with one of my friends and he really didn't pay any mind to me but he told me to come talk to him sometime so I did. Since then he calls me 5-6 times a day and tells me he misses me and tells me how much it meant to him for me to come talk to him because he's been lonely for so long. His job takes him out of town a lot so when he calls he says he misses me and wishes he could be here with me. He says he'd do anything for me and wouldn't do anything to hurt me and that I could tell him anything. How do I know he is being sincere and not just telling me this to get him "some"??
2006-09-23 15:27:39 · 10 answers · asked by countrygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Trust me, he is telling you all of this to "get some". How can he miss you when he has only seen you twice and does not know you?? I smell a rat here.....dump this guy, sweetie...........you are about to be used and abused!
2006-09-23 15:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've only met twice and he calls you 5 to 6 times a day? I'm not even that desperate. Something stinks there. How much can you miss someone you barely know? I wouldn't get too wrapped up in this one. It's your decision, but I'd be going in another direction.
2006-09-23 22:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has only seen you twice? Number one that doesn't constitute a "friend" A friend is someone you share a past with, you have things in common with. This guy is just an acquaintance. I doubt very much he is being sincere because he doesn't even KNOW you.
2006-09-23 22:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well has he been married before? Has he ever been laid? Does he masturbate in his spare time? If you can answer these questions then you can answer your question. Know one knows what he is thinking, only he can tell you. If he shows up one day and wants to walk the polley parrot on your balcony then all he wants you for is a good lay. Listen to his words when you talk to him. Are they of sexual content? Does he smile in a devilish way? Does his package stick out in his pants? You need to reconize the signs.
2006-09-23 22:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he's being sincere.....you've only met him twice.
Would you let your dog go with someone you only met twice?
Slow way down....when a man rushes you there's usually something not right.
2006-09-23 22:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to get to know him. see what kind of personality he has. talk about something other then him missing u. if he does not really talk about anything else he is not being sinseare. but it sounds to me that he might not know how to communicate with girls proparly and thats y he sounds a bit desprite
2006-09-23 22:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys want "some", but you would need to know a guy to know if he is sincere, but if you don't then i would step back from the situation
2006-09-23 22:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and watch for some more time.
2006-09-23 22:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by skp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing dont give him any... and also what does your heart and head both say
2006-09-23 22:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by ibitemytounge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some and find out
2006-09-23 22:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by mzmaya14 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋