ok, so there r these 2 guys that i like (im gonna call them T and B) . my friend told the one i like the most (T) that i liked him and she asked if he liked me and he just smiled. then today the other one (B) kept looking at me and i think he likes me. i have a feeling that hes (B) gonna ask me out at church tomorow and i would really like to go out with him, but i like T more and i dont see him till monday. if T doesnt ask me out, then i wanna go out with B, but i see B first and if he asks me out, then i cant tell him that he has to wait till i see if T is gonna ask me out. I NEED HELP!!!
2006-09-23 15:26:47 · 21 answers · asked by *~kirsti~* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a couple of options here. If you want to achieve your ideal scenario (being asked out by T before B, unless T won't ask and then letting B ask you out), you need to somehow communicate to B, that asking you out at church is against your religious principles. This puts him off until monday.
Ways to do this. I dun know!!
Another thing you could do is stay close to your pastor or priest. Trust me, he won't want to ask you anything around them.
The other option you have is to realize your situation. If T asks, that means he wants to go out with you. He'll want you even MORE if you are unavailable. It just works out that way.
So accept when B asks and enjoy it. Then when T sees you on monday, bat your eyes at him as much as you please and if he asks you out, put your chin down toward your chest, looking up at him the whole time, and sort of pout and say that you would LOVE to, but that you have to honor your acceptance of B's offer.
Then if you see T while dating B, just revel in the knowledge that T is waiting for you when you are done with B!! Trust me, he will really want you if he can't have you.
2006-09-23 15:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by lilpuffingirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should go for the guy you like the most, and if the other asks you out first then say no, in a nice manner though. You shouldn't resort to 2nd best just because he's there before the other.
2006-09-23 15:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by PB&J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is some thing here T knows that you like him right? good then if T didn't say any thing when you told him or your friend told him that you like him then he has to wait a bit and see if he can handel that you are being with some one eles then you are going to be strong and well you have to be very smart too why cause you know that you like T more don't you? you do good then you have to tell him that it doesn't matter if you are with him or some one other than him and you have to get him julose on that then he will ask you to be with him you will have to say no then after some time he will ask you again.. then you will decid to chose whom ever you like most......
2006-09-23 15:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha calm dowwnnn ok this is simple all you have to do is if B asks you out tell him that you will need to think about it and to give you some time. then you need to go up to T and ask him up front or straight forward is he going to ask you out if he doesnt ask you out when you see him and if he says no then move on dont beat yourself down or anything like that about it and get to know B for a while and if T wants his chance back and you still really want him then you have to straight up tell him that it hurt and all that ok? just take it easy and calm ok?
2006-09-23 15:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by 0311GettinSum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with B then if T asks you out go out with him there's nothing wrong with going out with both to see who you like more. Just be honest and tell them that u already have a friend but you aren't sure how it's going to go. But say that after you get a date from both of them. Otherwise, just go with it, have fun adn be yourself!
2006-09-23 15:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds more like a question of your loyalty. This whole scenario is marred with errors. Your friend shoudn't have been your mouth piece. If you like him (T), tell him yourself, he (T) might think your friend is just egging him on. Now B is just a distraction as far as I know and a test for yourself as to which one you choose. Your own choice will decide your fate. As i mentioned loyalty earlier, ask yourself who you are loyal to and then you will get your own answer
2006-09-23 15:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by shafique_khan83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out (don't get serious though) with both of them and let them know that you're doing so. Go out as friends first with each, and then each one will be putting his best foot forward to try to get you to choose him. Kinda like car salesmen; when they know that you're either gonna buy from them or the "other" dealership, then they bend over backwards to get you to go to them.
2006-09-23 15:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by The Meksikan Couple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, If you like "T" better then you should let him know how you feel, because it's not nice to go out with someone, until someone better comes along, Don't do that to "B" us guys really hate it, and it will cause problems, like "T" and "B" beating each other senseless, or you losing both.
2006-09-23 15:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with B! Especially if asks you first. If it doesn't work out, you always have T.
2006-09-23 15:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you are sick and do NOT go to church that day. Avoid seeing B until you see T first.
2006-09-23 15:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋