and sometimes i feel as if im leaning towards wanting to be with and talk to her friend more is this okay or not?
2006-09-23 15:05:39 · 12 answers · asked by someone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no it's not ok. lets put the shoe on the other foot. how would you feel if your gf was talking to your friend more than you? just break up with her and lose contact with both of them because if you don't your gf is going to find out your seeing her friend and she's gonna lose her friend. you don't want to deal with a vandictive ex. she could end up going out with your friend. sorry but that's what i think might happen.
2006-09-23 15:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK complicated, OK first of all if your gf has a problem with this then listen to her, it probably worries her so mayb you should do what she says if you like her more than the other girl. If you want to be with her friend as in a relationship more then ur gf now then you should really consider going for it if you know she likes you 2. It is possible you want to hang out with your gf's friend because your close as friends, no more than u would b with a man but if you like her more than that then consider who you might hurt doing this. Your gf might not only lose a bf but her best friend 2.
Best solution, break it off with current gf gently and slowly and then still remain friends with the 2 of them and then play the waiting game until ur current gf finds sum1 else and then you try and date the other girl
2006-09-23 15:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's certainly not a good place for you to be. I think the truth may be, and you are being honest about this, that you're really wanting your current girlfrind's girlfriend to be your girlfriend.
This is a very awkward situation to be in because of the potential that it has for damaging several friendships with a single blow once the truth is revealed. I hope this current bestfriend of your girlfriend is not simply jealous of her for having you as a boyfriend and just wants to see if she can steal you away.
Be that as it may, if this other gal and you truly have feelings for one another, sooner or later it is going to come out. How can you minimize the damage?
First of all, you've really got to be honest with yourself and who you really want to be with. Second, if you really would rather be dating this other gal, does she have the same attraction for you?
If it turns out that you both have the same feelings for one another and want to start dating, you must break-up with your current girlfriend, and the sooner the better. Then, try to wait at least two weeks(minimum) before you formally go out with the girlfriend's girlfriend. Because, you already know what's going to happen next. Your ex is going to intensely dislike the both of you and it could turn out that this girl number two could hold you responsible at sometime in the future for ruining her friendship with her best friend(your current girlfriend).
The worst thing you could do is have a sneaky sort of relationship with the second girl behind your current girlfriend's back. This would only end in disaster. Don't try and be a "player." Just be honest with what's really going on here and your motives. Good luck.
I don't suppose there's anyway you could just forget girls and the whole dating thing for now and just concentrate on your school work and maybe where you want to be in life, say, five years from now? ........................ I didn't think so.
2006-09-23 15:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like ur loosong interest in ur gf and want 2 move on 2 some 1 new, its normal, i been through it 2, u have 2 chose who u r more comfortable with, and then just go with the flow
good luck
2006-09-23 15:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Taisha B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by kuhns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooo bad thing 2 do ur gf is goin 2 get jelous an shes goin 2 go off at u
2006-09-23 15:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by BaByGuRl0913 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. What are your intentions? Is your girlfriend THE ONE. If you are wanting to date other people, you better tell her. And you better ask if it's ok that her friend is one of them. Never lead on the ones you love. You should live with integrity. Are you proud of what you are doing? Obviously not, or you wouldn't asking if it's ok.
2006-09-23 15:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no it's not. But it is common. You just have to realize who you want to be with. Your girlfriend or her best friend. Although just to caution you if you go out with her friend your going to wish you hadn't. (past experience) Just follow your heart and hopefully it will lead you to the right place.
2006-09-23 15:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by PB&J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok as long as your gf knows and doesnt care!
2006-09-23 15:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by jenna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think some more before you act.especially about your girlfriends feelings and how would it be the other way around/
2006-09-23 15:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋