Family & Relationships - 11 September 2006

Now, I'm serious here. there is a certain category of women who seem to enjoy being with guys who treat them like dirt. No matter how bad these guys treat them, they just won't leave them. I was recently dating a girl who I treated like a queen but she didn't treat me good back. I broke up with her. After that she started calling me more often and started being more attentive. The more mad I got and the more I treated her like dirt the more she tried to impress me.

How does this work? Why do women put up with this?

2006-09-11 17:52:42 · 16 answers · asked by contrafilms 5 in Singles & Dating

I told him that I think we shouldn't communicate anymore, he disagrees with my decision, why does he want to still be my friend when he broke up with me (later found out he was talking to someone else while we were together)? Does he feel guilty or something?

2006-09-11 17:52:38 · 19 answers · asked by Ebony_23 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so I'm 20 years old and I met this guy who's 35. First I don't know if this is okay. I mean people say age is just a number, but I don't know If he'll treat me seriously. So far I only e-maile dhim breifly and spoke to him on the phone brefly as well. We never went out yet, and I don't really know much about him, but the invited me out this thursday. Except I don't know what to think because he said it like this"me and a bunch of people are going out to a bar, It'd be great if you wanted to come along" I mean what does that mean? He did seem interested in the e-mails and on the phone, could he be trying to be friends? I mean regardless of what you guys say I will go out and see what's this all about, but i just wanted to see some opinions on this. Any tips of how to get through that night? lol THANKS a bunch !

2006-09-11 17:52:33 · 27 answers · asked by violetnewyork 2 in Singles & Dating

I threw my husband a 30th b day BASH and my cousin and his wife came at 12am with no gift. We are very close to them. That was weird to us. Now, her 30th b day is coming. Should i get her a gift or not out of spite?

2006-09-11 17:51:45 · 25 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Family

I'm visiting in a couple of weeks and need a couple of good meetings.

2006-09-11 17:51:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what i have to do?

2006-09-11 17:51:07 · 12 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is 21 yrs old and just graduated from high school last year. He works full time at WalMart and goes to college on the weekends. He has been pretty responsible about paying his bills, so when he paid late, I didnt get to pushy about it. He handed me $300 bucks tonite and I stuffed it in my checkbook. I am thinking about putting it in a secret jar in case he needs money or may be even put it away as a gift if he ever gets married, he can have all this money back and whatever else he gives me in the future.
I raised him by myself and I am so totally proud of him. I dont want to be one of those weird mothers who cannot cut the apron strings though. Would you save the money for him or spend it on whatever you feel like? I pay his 1983 truck insurance monthly and he was re imbursing me.

2006-09-11 17:47:59 · 19 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

this woman was a close friend of my mom when my mom passed it was only me and her in her bedroom and that woman held me and let me cry until the hurse came i don't see much of her now but i want her to know how much that ment to me i was thinking a poem or card but i can't find the words. please someone help me thank you

2006-09-11 17:47:50 · 15 answers · asked by tayr27 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's extremely intelligent and I would like to ask him out....anything that you could offer as advise would be helpful....I've known other deaf people but have never dated one........thanks

2006-09-11 17:47:37 · 11 answers · asked by nikthorbella 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well i havent had an actual gf in a cpl years but i have had girls in which we both liked each other n did stuff and then kinda ended it.. it was ended because the guys made fun of me... there would be one or two guys who support me n then theres 3 guys that say ahh thats low, or wow ur desperate n stuff like that... now the girls werent bad but i jus dint like gittin made fun of because of who i liked... now i really want a gf n theres a girl all lined up but what should i do kuz i dont want them to laugh at me?

2006-09-11 17:45:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 17:44:13 · 22 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...ever since my wife and I were dating, she admitted thinking about, and I have asked about, what it would be like for her to be with a black guy.
8 years later - we still realize its our number 1 fantasy.
We want to do it - we of course, are worried.
Please dont bash us for allowing another guy into our marriage - we are adults, and again - have been talking about this for years.

If we are secure enough - and its been a dream for us for her to be with a black guy - should we?
Has any other couples indulged in something like this?
Good things about it/ bad things about it?
We are looking for honest answers...
Thanks.

2006-09-11 17:42:47 · 24 answers · asked by Steve and Sue D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I f our close relative die we forget them soon and involved in our activities. but we ever remeber god. so romance is a rubbish. Just a temporary arrangement for reproduction.

2006-09-11 17:41:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

too many but God only Knows

2006-09-11 17:40:26 · 48 answers · asked by get_me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I currently had a group of friends over and one of my friends asked if he could invite his friend. I've known this guy and seen him at school, sometimes even hanging out with him. A few days ago he took my psp and tried to take the charger but took my verizon phone charger instead. He keeps denying that he took it but one of my friends said he saw him take the psp and a cord(my phone charger). This friend is very credible and I've known a long time. Well the guy who took it is a different story. What should I do? is there anywhere I can contact or any plans that you guys have? my friend is currently going to try and get something of the guy who stole my psp or ask him for it but what if that isn't successful?

2006-09-11 17:40:12 · 12 answers · asked by StudyKid243 1 in Friends

2006-09-11 17:39:42 · 26 answers · asked by Cara B 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 17:39:28 · 9 answers · asked by Beckam 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to go on the pill and i want to know if its effectiveness can be disturbed by alcohol or anything else.please help me girls....

2006-09-11 17:38:56 · 6 answers · asked by twinkle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 17:37:08 · 6 answers · asked by elpackage 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Very shy and quiet girl. Flirts a bit. Smiles alot when I see her. I've caught her looking at me at lunch. I'm taking her to homecoming. I've been told she'll try to not talk to me in the hallway to kinda bug me/play with my head. Tonight, one of my friends found out that she doesn't like me. Or at least, according to whoever told her. Whats the sense in her acting how she acts, and not liking me? Is her friend just covering for her? Thanks.

2006-09-11 17:36:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is that if you... (meaning girls)wear something somewhat revealing most girls get pissed if a guy looks at them????I think If you wear something low-cut or sexy, you lose the right to ***** if a guy (or girl for that matter)looks and or stares...you answers please..

2006-09-11 17:36:04 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 17:35:15 · 14 answers · asked by Nia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how can i lend money from my bf?

2006-09-11 17:35:01 · 12 answers · asked by michelle a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister in law is always harping on my family, pointing out our faults. She is always ordering us around--Close the door!! Get me this!! She is always telling us how to live our lives, yet if we point out any of her faults, she gets upset and sends my brother over to tell us back off and she is entitled to her opinion.

I came over the other night to babysit my niece so that she and my brother could go on a "date." Their house was a mess--I cleaned up the toys and put them away and even helped my niece clean up her room. When they came home, she saw I had cleaned up. She looks in the kitchen and has the audacity to say "Well, you could have put the dishes in the dishwasher." I was so upset, I couldn't even say anything.

My family keeps on saying "That's just how she is." I believe that behaviors continue only if they are allowed. My mother has asked me not to say anything in the name of family peace but I really think she is going too far. How should I handle this?

2006-09-11 17:34:54 · 18 answers · asked by sidnee_marie 5 in Family

i have to take a young girl to the zoo tomorrow for like most of the day...the problem is she's wild and likes to run around. i'm afraid i'll lose her. i was thinking about letting her sit on my shoulders all day, but would she get bored up there?

2006-09-11 17:34:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dont really do big things for girls but how much do the little things like saying happy birthday, good game last night, or holding the door open and letting them go in front of you in a line for something? How much do these little things do for you?

2006-09-11 17:34:03 · 14 answers · asked by saintssuck51 1 in Singles & Dating

It might give you perspective about what you believe about love.

2006-09-11 17:34:00 · 23 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend that I've known for over 10 years and I love her to death don't get me wrong. I just did 7 years in prison and maxxed put August 1st 2006. So far I'm doing better than most that hasn't been incarcerated. i go to college. I have a full time job with benifits but my girlfriend is the problem. I keep trying to get sex from her but she won't break me off none yet. she says she wants to wait until the time is right. Now I'm not the cheating type but it's been long enough and there's a Monkey on my back. I am physically fit like WoW! I constantly have offers to break my virginty but I always decline because I'm about my woman but there won't be too many of those turnig down if you get my drift. What should I do?

2006-09-11 17:33:41 · 7 answers · asked by Tigger-Tiger 2 in Singles & Dating

Now honestly, what's more important to you all in a relationship? Looks or personality? What else do you factor into what you look for? The reason I ask is because I'm not all that attractive to look at so do you think that's why it's hard for me to find a decent guy? I don't really even look for guys, I just seem to attract jerks. So what do you all go for in the opposite sex?

2006-09-11 17:33:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK my mother in law told me she's trying to plan a trip out here for Thanksgiving, which is fine she only gets to see her grand kids once a year, but last time she was here she showed up unannounced with a knock on the door saying "surprise" I was not prepared for it at all, the house was a mess( My daughter just got done playing). So she's staying with us at that time and she is cleaning everything even pulls out the stove and fridge all she does is talk about how we need a bigger place, like we don't know that we have been trying to work on it but credits not so good. She also gives all this advise that we already know and are doing. How do I coupe with all of it and not hurt her feeling if I say anything, she's really noisey and thinks she can fix everything by telling us how to raise the kids how to deal with money and what we need to do in every day life.

2006-09-11 17:33:35 · 20 answers · asked by medevilqueen 4 in Family