Now, I'm serious here. there is a certain category of women who seem to enjoy being with guys who treat them like dirt. No matter how bad these guys treat them, they just won't leave them. I was recently dating a girl who I treated like a queen but she didn't treat me good back. I broke up with her. After that she started calling me more often and started being more attentive. The more mad I got and the more I treated her like dirt the more she tried to impress me.
How does this work? Why do women put up with this?
2006-09-11 17:52:42 · 16 answers · asked by contrafilms 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because jerks come across as little boys that need help, and females are natural born Mommy's. It takes a heck of a lot of abuse for women to give up on a man. Some times it costs their lives. What is needed is education at a very early age that it is OK to leave jerks in the gutter where they belong. And men Any woman that wants abuse needs help,more than you .
2006-09-11 18:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Outgoing guys (jerks) are seen as being able to protect the woman. Plus it keeps the woman on her toes. If you are too nice, many women get bored by that. Many times mating comes down to body language.
However there are many good women who disagree with this. Maybe it's just the type of woman? How she was treated, her personality etc?
2006-09-12 01:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hey, you're not the only who thinks about this topic. I've asked myself this question. I still don't understand why. I guess there are some girls who like to be treated like dirt. Stupid, but oh well. BUT, you don't treat them like Queens. Girls could find this annoying. Some could take advantage of you. Some could get spoiled by it. Good Luck!
2006-09-12 00:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That is a question I have been asking myself for a good number of years. Some seem to go for the guys that have been locked up, or just jerks period. They seem to like them better, and I just don't understand that.
2006-09-12 01:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kojak 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't like guys who treat me like I'm the only person in the world. It gets tiring.
But a guy who doesn't notice, or pretends to not notice, is attractive. They're independent which is great! 'cos than I don't have to always be the center of their world making those moments special.
2006-09-12 00:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she realized what she have missed in life? lol. Why don't you just stop treating her like a dirt as you say? She'll get tired...
2006-09-12 02:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
deep down inside of every woman there is a little part of her begging to be controlled, abused, and humiliated. women fit into one of two categories: either their self esteem is so low they begged to be degraded and **** on, or they are so selfish, egocentric and full of themselves, they force men to treat them like crap...
2006-09-12 01:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by jane franklin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because nobody wants what's easy. They think if they "got you" you are not valuable anymore.
The less you love her, the more she loves you. This is so insane but it works all the time.
2006-09-12 01:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mondschein! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Same as men. You always want what you can not have and it is difficult to handle rejection.
2006-09-12 01:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by clutch 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
we're just crazy people that come out of sweres and want lots and lots of money.and since we came out of sweres the smell of dirt conforts us. so we want it. im gonna go roll in mud. buh bye.
ha ha ha ha ha h aa lmao lol *giggles* he he *chuckles* *long sigh*
yeah
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2006-09-12 00:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by so_totally_awesome13 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋