Family & Relationships - 11 September 2006

I broke up with my ex at the beginning of this year. Our relationship was getting real bad, all we did was fight, he cheated on me, etc etc, so I ended it. It was a really bad breakup, but one of the best things I've ever done.

Anyway, he got a girlfriend a week after I dumped him. He's still with her. I started dating this guy a few months ago, which has been going great. I really never thought I'd be happy in a relationship again, but with him I am. Words can't even describe how I feel about him.

My ex and I have tried to be friends on and off since our breakup. I'm over him now (and have been for a while). Whenever he wants to chat about his life, he acts fine, but if I tell him anything about my life or even call him to ask for something like driving directions, he acts like a huge jerk. When he does that, I just figure it's better off not to bother with him, but then a week later he's calling and texting me again!

What's the deal?

2006-09-11 18:19:43 · 14 answers · asked by Me 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

what should i wear to school. iam in middle school and i dont now very much about middle school boys, could somebody tell me about them. so i could impress.

2006-09-11 18:19:02 · 25 answers · asked by hannah1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 18:18:48 · 13 answers · asked by dc 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont start trouble and luckily havent had problems myself but when I see people picking on others, it ticks me off. Usually, it ends up being the same kids and I think it must make them miserable. Sometimes I'll have something to say and so far nobodys come after me (so far LOL).

It seems a lot easier to tell someone how to handle it then to really have to deal with it.

2006-09-11 18:18:14 · 10 answers · asked by Brooke2009 1 in Friends

my bf told me he loved me and i told him loved him to0 and he was suppost to come on yesterday he never did im worrid i can't call him just msn and eamail wut do i do im worrid

2006-09-11 18:16:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not just as a friend but more than that, what are things that you may feel, what are things you feel?

2006-09-11 18:15:49 · 19 answers · asked by B to the E 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend gets upset with me every time i ask him when we are going to get married. I want to marry him soon. I may be young, but I would like to get on with my life and go the next step. We have been together for 5 years and we have a child together, so I think it is time to get married. I want to marry him, but I want to respect his wishes and give him time with out losing him. How can I stop myself from getting mad that he hasn't asked me yet?

2006-09-11 18:12:13 · 15 answers · asked by lora_renee2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my guy a lot. We love each other a lot. He's working. I'm doing degree and working part- time. Recently he asked me a favor. He want to be an insurance agent but he's busy with work and couldn't be able to study for the exam. So he told me that he would register me to be as an insurance agent and I sit for the exam. Then when I pass the exam he would do the business on behalf of me and I too can do it. Since I love him a lot so I agreed as I want him to be happy and by helping him I feel happy too. When I have any problem of favor he never let me down and always be there for me. I also want to do the same as I really want our relationship be a happy one. What do you think? Is the thing that I'm doing is ok?

2006-09-11 18:11:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 18:11:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he has never cheated on me,but he cheated on his ex wife with someone else and i dont want him to cheat on me i mean he is my whole world if he did i would be crushed,he said he cheated on his ex wife b/c he was not happy.

2006-09-11 18:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by JEN-JEN 1 in Singles & Dating

Im separated and I want to move on. I tried dating guys from on the internet but i found them not my type so please help me what kind of places I can meet new people.

2006-09-11 18:11:10 · 20 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at a yard sale the other day and noticed that the cutest little girl was following me around and just a smilin' at me like there was no tomorrow. This isn't the first time this has happened. Trouble is, I can't seem to get the older ones to do the same. I guess when they grow up they start smilin' at the handsome ones and leave me to take a back seat. Damn, it's so frustrating!

2006-09-11 18:11:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know a website where you can talk (confidentialy) on the website to someone about depression, or anything like that?
I just went into the 10th grade (I'm 16) and it's overwhelming, my classes suck completly and girls are ALREADY spreading rumors about me, I don't know what the **** I can do.
Know I have to read an entire book called Great expectations and it has to be done by tommorow afternoon, which leaves me with simply (about) 10 hours to read it and I don't think I can and I don't know any website where I can find a good summary or spark notes on it (and they'd have to be good because I'm having a test on it tomm)
It just seems like everything i thought I could really handle is falling apart and that I just can't pull it off.
I'm just so confused with evything right now and I don't know what to do and I know suicide isn't sensible but it feels like it's the only thing that's going to help quiet things.

Does anyone feel like this? I just wanna run

2006-09-11 18:09:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

For the record, I AM NOT TRANSGENDER MYSELF. To those who are, please don't ask me questions pertaining to that because I would be of little use. What I really want to know is how far would you go for love? Would you find it easier to forgive her for cheating on you than decieving you about her true gender?

2006-09-11 18:04:15 · 22 answers · asked by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

even if they are like fourth generation cousins?

2006-09-11 18:04:08 · 26 answers · asked by afrprince77 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are very close to each other although we're staying in different city. We call each other almost 3 or 4 times a day. If we're busy with work then we make sure that we talk before we go to bed, he or me work call. I really love him a lot. He's very nice and loving to me. Since become a couple there's been never a day that we didn't talk to each other. If he did go outstation he would at least call me once. I also miss him very much as I only see him once in a month. Recently his dad asked him to go to trip to India for 1 month or more with him and he asked my opinion. My boyfriend's fly doesn't know our relationship as we want to tell them later but my fly knows about it. His fly difficult a bit but soon we'll tell them after our career ok ready. I told my boyfriend not to go to India as I would miss him. We wouldn't be able to talk much if the place he's going got communication problem. Deep down in me I don't want him to go so I said No. Is my action wrong?

2006-09-11 18:02:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 months ago i ask this girl to be my girlfriend and she answered that shes already comfortable as friends i cant get her off my mind and my feelings for her just wont go away why is that so?

After months here is the big thing last week her grandmother ask me if i have fellings for her grandaughter and i answered yes than she told me to fight for my love althogh this time i have many rivals and here is the shocking part she told me that her grandaughter knew everything about our conversation

This sunday i texted her grandmother happy grandparents day and she replied thank you and i ask her if its ok with her and i told her all my feelings and what happened everything we had a good conversation. Until that afternoon she said that maybe i really dont love her grandaughter. Well its a long story.

Why is this so she told me that everything that i have said is known by her grandaughter hehe quite shocking well what should i do should i court her again?

2006-09-11 18:02:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for 18 months now and still, he refuses to talk to me about his problems, or let me know what he's thinking about when something is really bugging him. This drives me nuts! He's never been given a reason to not trust me!

2006-09-11 18:02:40 · 18 answers · asked by Mintminty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-11 18:02:39 · 4 answers · asked by kaitlin k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got abducted by aliens about one year ago, and they took me and kept on putting me on tubes and examining all around my body, they took my clothes, my wallet, my keys, basically everything. No one believes me tho, they think im a joker, what can i do to prove them wrong?

2006-09-11 18:01:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My best friend Amanda is so idk she is just so great. We have been best friends for years an I like like her. I love her. The only problem is my ex best friend Joey is amandas bf. An they are really close well she is he is just using her. I have seen him making out with 3 different girls at the mall an he dates girls just for sex. I havn't told amanda abut him cheating an using her because I don't wanna see her hurt an I know she will be more than ever. But when she finds out she will still be hurt an probally mad at me cause I didnt tell her. But Joey is a bad guy. He is into drugs, sex, guns an aton more ****. Amanda doesnt know that because he acts totally different around her. But she doesnt even know how much I like her well I'm pretty sure she doesnt. Idk if I should tell her I like her before I tell her about Joey or should I even tell her about Joey? Or should I not say anything. I just can't see her get hurt... What do I do. What do I say?

2006-09-11 18:01:35 · 12 answers · asked by Alex M 1 in Singles & Dating

she's also been doing drugs and has been sneeking out what should i do?

2006-09-11 18:01:08 · 7 answers · asked by ~Elizabeth~ 1 in Friends

2006-09-11 17:57:52 · 22 answers · asked by Keisha J 1 in Singles & Dating

This is the girl for me and there is nothing that will keep me from her.

I don't care what she says or what the court says.

She WILL BE MINE.

2006-09-11 17:56:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i want to have sex with he but why he say no?i no have idea why?

2006-09-11 17:56:58 · 10 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 17:56:32 · 18 answers · asked by cameo king 1 in Friends

What's the best date you've ever been on?

2006-09-11 17:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by ecogrl23 2 in Singles & Dating

i need his help

2006-09-11 17:54:57 · 3 answers · asked by michelle a 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that Family and Relationships is going to be an "it's all about me" category -- and most of the questions are a lot of fun and some are really challenging.
But, why don't the askers ever offer up a 'best answer'?
This site is also a point driven and us puppies like our rewards!

2006-09-11 17:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by wrathofkublakhan 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 24 and he's 25. We r different nationality. We have been together a year. He went back his country 2 months ago told me would back soon but yterday he told he might stay there for make money more and don' t know when will back!!! He told still love me too much but can't back now bcause no job in my country when he back here just stay with me but no job!!! He don't want i wait for him. He don't want I sad but said always contact me and we will together again when he back!!! I understand him he can't choose btween love and life!!! U think should i wait him or not??? I don't want to separate to him I still love him and he still love me!!! But he has to far aways bcause work!!! How should I do???

2006-09-11 17:53:05 · 9 answers · asked by nonglnalak 1 in Other - Family & Relationships