I confronted him almost a month ago with cell phone records (24/7/365 contact for atleast the last 3 months, in and out of the country, on 'family' days - big on text messaging). Every fact I brought up (flower bill, phone record, dive trips, sporting events, ..), he initially denied, and then said he lied because he knew I would react this way. He also implied I deserved to be lied to! Our marriage has been tense the past year (= affair time?). He said they hadn't been 'intimate' on the one hand, but on the other hand, when I cut him off, he said he's a man and that's all he thinks about. He said he was sorry and he didn't leave me and that it wouldn't have worked out, so I should forgive him. He didn't want to blame me or put me on the defensive, but there was always a 'but'. We have children who are my main responsibility as he travels alot. He said it's over and she's out of his life, but I can no longer check his phone bill, his flower bill, or his 'expenses'.
2006-09-11
17:30:17
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SweetiePie
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Marriage & Divorce