if i have a bf that keep doing the same thing over and over and knows it is causing us problems, why does he keep doing this. ill break up with him and then he comes back knowing how i feel. ill break up with him again and he'll do it again. well the last time i broke up with him i really cut up on him. i mean i hell raised so bad i just knew i would never talk to him again. well two weeks after that he called and acted like he missed me. i was surprised he called cuz ireally cut up on him. well the thing i hate most, he did it again. i really dont care anymore hes just a lost case. but i want to know why do men do that. it was like being with a child. you keep telling him and he keeps doing it. is their something wrong with him. well im going to break it off for good this time. ive given him chances and he keeps coming back with the same deal. why do men do this. i dont even have sex with him anymore. what is really going on with this guy? plz dont just tell me anything.
2006-09-11 17:16:49 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up with him for good. make it clear u dont want him in your life anymore. some men are like that- immature uncaring freaks. he's just too afraid to let u go. but u deserve better, no one deserves to be treat the same bad way over and over. he's not gonna take u seriously cuz he thinks he can just come back. he's not gonna change, so u have to make the changes. break up, get him out of ur life once and for all, and give someone else a chance. u deserve better.
2006-09-11 17:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lucas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach the guy a lesson he'll never forget. If you break up with him, this time really mean it. Let's see if he'll keep doing the same stuffs. Well, it just means that you have to look for a better bf. Hope you'll see a nice one.
2006-09-12 00:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Monzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what did he do? Now, second...why does he keep doing it? Because he can...and you keep taking him back so why should he stop. He knows you will get upset, break up with him and then eventually take him back...So the real question is why do you LET him keep doing it.
2006-09-12 00:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really, this is your problem. You have to know when enough is enough, when to draw that line that he is always crossing.
He, now has it in his head that you will take him back no matter what. Don't let him do that. Be strong, no matter how hard it is for you.
You can do so much better for yourself when you love yourself. Learn to except who you are before you let others "try" to know who you are. Don't think that you have to settle for just anyone.
2006-09-12 00:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you keep taking him back after he has done whatever it is that you hate. not once, but several times! of course he is not gonna take you seriously when you tell him to stop it. break it off for good. it obviously is causing you distress, so end it. also, do you do alot of stuff for him? maybe he keeps coming back, cos you look after him?
2006-09-12 00:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you let him back into your life? After the first time, any difficulties you have had are your own fault. Stop. Talking. To. Him.
2006-09-12 00:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the wrong question.......the question is WHY do you keep taking him back? Why do you keep taking him back.
He keeps doing what he does because YOU keep taking him back.
This guy has issues big time. Glad to hear you are not gonna take you back
2006-09-12 01:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop talking 2 him. n plzz also stop thinking about him...just 4 get him..4get dat u ever had sum1...may b derz no other girl he can fool around wid so he is coming 2u..
Guys r like dat!! just ignore dem ..specailly guys like ur bf..
dont give a damn 2 ne of his things.. JUSt iGnore!!k n tc
u will get a better 1
2006-09-12 00:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are imature freaks, they can be so childish. They feel lonley and ahamed when they don't have a girlfrined
2006-09-12 00:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur the only girl in his life that prolly liked him. he's scared to let go and find some 1 else...
2006-09-12 00:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by KEYSHA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋